One Night Stands

[Thor]

I was wondering what your opinions are on that?

I've had a few when i was younger, once even with a woman who was 17 years
older than me, and happens to be the same age as Melissa mother.

I was 25 at the time, and not dating anybody.

I know Melissa doesnt like it, but what do others think about it??

[~Broken Lily~]

I have had a few one night stands in the past.
I had just split up with my boyfriend and I was a real mess. I didn't care what happened to me or the consequences. I think I just wanted to feel wanted. Once I got my head straight I stopped sleeping around. My now Husband knows what I got up to. Even though he doesn't like the idea, he excepts that it's part of my past.

even though I regret my one night stands I think it's a matter of choice. Some people like having sex without the ties. Each to their own really. :colorful:

[Thor]

It's something i dont regret, and Melissa knows all about them, she accepts it, though she
doesnt like it.

[blugirrl1]

i have had them. and i don't regret them. would i do it again? probably not i have changed and am not the same person i used to be. but i don't feel bad about having had them.

[Morr]

On the risk of coming out and being labeled a "Harlott" :lol: I must say that I enjoy one night stands when I'm single.
Why should I be deprived of some fun, when I'm single and not dating anyone?
I have had quite a few one night stands, and I dont regret any.

If I'm dating someone seriously, then of course - one night stands are totally out of the question.

[Thor]

Same here, i wouldnt do it again..............................btw, Melissa would Kill me! :lol:

[Thor]

On the risk of coming out and being labeled a "Harlott" :lol: I must say that I enjoy one night stands when I'm single.
Why should I be deprived of some fun, when I'm single and not dating anyone?
I have had quite a few one night stands, and I dont regret any.

If I'm dating someone seriously, then of course - one night stands are totally out of the question.

I'd never call you a Harlott, all people are different, and i have a good friend Maggy, who Melissa also knows, and she has had so many one night stands she cant even remember them!

[ArKane]

I've been there done that.

I don't think I would do it agian though. I had just came out of a bad breakup so thats my excuse.

But they can be fun.

[Bran83]

I have had a few and I think they are a wonderful experience... some even to the point of healing or at least theraputic<sp?> for both people.

[Thor]

I've been there done that.

I don't think I would do it agian though. I had just came out of a bad breakup so thats my excuse.

But they can be fun.

Yes they can be, even the one with the older woman!

But it wont happen again, ever!

[Thor]

I have had a few and I think they are a wonderful experience... some even to the point of healing or at least theraputic<sp?> for both people.

I've heard having sex helps against stress..............dont know if its true

[Druchii]

For me it's gotta mean something, or I won't do it...

[ArKane]

Yes they can be, even the one with the older woman!

All I can say..is that your one luckey bastard, then AND now.

[Aidron]

I've had 'em and I do not see anything inherently wrong with them. Obviously the two adults consent to act of sex (otherwise it would be called rape, not a one night stand), and while I'm sure many people do get hurt with these, I have to say, who are you falling in love or getting overly emotional with someone you just met? You're askin' for trouble if you wind up in that predicament and 'then' sleep with them the first night.

[Kaylara]

There was a time, when I had a few one night stands... It's not really what I'm looking for at this point. Like Druchii, for me, it has to mean something...

[Aidron]

There was a time, when I had a few one night stands... It's not really what I'm looking for at this point. Like Druchii, for me, it has to mean something...


Then if it meant something when we were together, how come you never called?! :lol:

I agree in that it has to mean something, but for me, even a one night stand can mean something. Granted, it's not something I actively seek or indulge in, but at the same time, I think it is great that two people can act on an instantaneous attraction without strings attached and hopefully, without regret as well.

[Thor]

All I can say..is that your one luckey bastard, then AND now.

Yes, I feel very lucky to have found Melissa!

[Kaylara]

Then if it meant something when we were together, how come you never called?! :lol:

Because you wouldn't give me your number afterwords!!!!!! :lol::lol::lol:

[David]

I've never had a "one night stand", because they always come back for more! :lol: :lol: I have had sex that had no real meaning other then sex. Like most folks here I don't see nothing wrong with it. However, the older I get the less interested I've become in "sex". At this point there pretty much does need to be some emotional attachment for me. At least for me to initiate it that is... :)

[soilsigh aingeal]

I had a few in my younger days and I was different then. I doubt I will ever do it again. I don't believe anyone should regret something they've done for any reason, you learn from any mistakes and you move on, and possibly said "I'm glad it happened, cause now I know!" It may be a mistake but that doesn't mean you have to regret it. I believe that people should experience whatever their little hearts desire w/out the wrath of other people. If someone doesn't like something you did 5+ years ago that's their problem they can deal with it or be a jerk about it. Sorry but that's just how I feel. I had a lot of issues w/my fiance in the beginning and he was acting the same way, possibly worse. I never got on him about stuff he did so why'd he have to bring up my past all the time? It's my past not his, we were friends before we were anything else and he knew about my past and if he didn't like it he could have left me alone. right? He chose to be with me though so right then and their it should have stayed in MY past not in OUR present.

[ArKane]

Raven! Your back! Where you been?

:hugs:

[amberwolf]

Ive had quite a few in my younger years before i got married and also quite a few after I got divorced I dont see any problem with them as long as both parties agree and safe sex is practiced...
I think its quite good to have a one night stand now and again if you dont wish to be in a permanent relationship...It can be alot of fun too :)

[Thor]

Well i've always done it safe

[Lady Jade]

I've had more than my fiar shae, too many to count. But that was a long time ago, LOL. I am married to my last one nighter now for the last 9 years, we quickly fell in love and he never went back to his apartment after that.

[serenarian]

I've never had a one night stand. I don't think I could. I don't think I'm capable of having one. I can't relax into a sexual encounter unless there is deep love involved.

[ArKane]

Safer sex is the best.

[Thor]

Safer sex is the best.

Even with Melissa i use protection, both of us arent ready to become parents yet

[ArKane]

I don't think I'll ever have kids. I'd rather a career and my animals but if I do decide to and it doesn't work straight off..I'll keep trying. :lol: :wink::wink::nudge::nudge:

[Thor]

Interesting.....................

[ArKane]

*s*******

I don't want kids for the simple reason they might turn out like me. And there is only one me. Also the general confusion.

Kid: Mum!
Me: What!
S.O: What!
Kid: Can I go to the movies?
Me: Yeh.
S.O: No.
Kid: Why not?
Me: Yeh..why not?
S.O.: Because I said.
Kid: *pouts*
Me: *pouts* You know I was allowed to go to the movies at that age..
S.O: Yes love, but you sneaked out of the house.

[Thor]

Well Melissa and i want an even number of kids, although i originally wanted 3.

so it's either 2 kids or 4.............................or 6, or 8, or 10...................

[ArKane]

-shudder-

*twitch*

To many little people.

[Thor]

I can't wait...................but i'm sure Mel and i will practice a lot creating it

[ArKane]

Practice makes perfect.

Thats my motto.

[Thor]

then i dont need much practice anymore

[ArKane]

You can never have two much practice.

[Thor]

True,
especially not this kind of practice

[ArKane]

Theres always room for improvemet and trying new techniques. Differnt branches I mean. Like expermenting with different brands of soft drink.

[FaerieGothMommy]

I have no problems at all with other people having one night stands, if they use protection, it's just some harmless fun for them... my partner has had one night stands before he met me, and i couldn't give a stuff, aslong as he doesn't do it while his with me :lol:

I've never had a one night stand, but i'm very young still! And now i have my own family - i don't think i ever will! It's not really up my street...

But if you enjoy it, and your using protection and not breaking any laws, then who cares!

[Thor]

Theres always room for improvemet and trying new techniques. Differnt branches I mean. Like expermenting with different brands of soft drink.

or Whipped Cream

[ArKane]

or Chocolate but only white chocolate. Or honey but only Kraft honey in the squeezy tube because the others make my mouth sore.

[Thor]

Never tried chocolate


*note to self: buy some chocolate before Melissa gets here*

[Kestle]

wear protection.

[Nighthawk]

Naw, never done that. Had girlfriends and all, but.... no... not for me... Gotta get to know someone first......

[Thor]

wear protection.

always

[Flaire-FireStar]

Not for me.

[Avalon]

*thinks about it*

No, I don't think I'm a one-night stand kinda girl...:bigredblu

[Bran83]

I've heard having sex helps against stress..............dont know if its true


Well sex is proven to do that. Sometimes, at least for me, people need intimate moments in their life where they can just be with someone. No strings attached just good sex... ;) Good and protected sex.

[Antoninus]

I do NOT like one night stands. Im an extremely passionate person so one night stands arent a good thing for me. Id much rather be in a huge long relationship with feelings and passion than one night of sex. I hate them also because it trains people to do one night stands and ONLY one night stands so they have no idea what to do in a regular relationship.

[Bran83]

I do NOT like one night stands. Im an extremely passionate person so one night stands arent a good thing for me. Id much rather be in a huge long relationship with feelings and passion than one night of sex. I hate them also because it trains people to do one night stands and ONLY one night stands so they have no idea what to do in a regular relationship.


I dont know... I view it as a training course so that your wife isnt looking up at the ceiling for 40 years wondering what show is going ot be on tonight....

Thats right.... I just validated men having one night stands as being beneficial to the women they will spend the rest of their life with.

[Radocs]

I dont know... I view it as a training course so that your wife isnt looking up at the ceiling for 40 years wondering what show is going ot be on tonight....

Thats right.... I just validated men having one night stands as being beneficial to the women they will spend the rest of their life with.

Bran83 lives!

[soilsigh aingeal]

Thats right.... I just validated men having one night stands as being beneficial to the women they will spend the rest of their life with.

:lol:

[Druchii]

I dont know... I view it as a training course so that your wife isnt looking up at the ceiling for 40 years wondering what show is going ot be on tonight....

Thats right.... I just validated men having one night stands as being beneficial to the women they will spend the rest of their life with.


:foh: (runs off to find a "training instructor"....)

[Kaylara]

Lmfao!

[Melissa]

Did you have to bring this topic up?

I'm going to give my honest opinion and I just hope to God no one wants to kill me when I'm through.

I think one night stands are a cock out. It shows a sign of weekeness and a lack of will power. And a person may say that they are okay with a one night stand, but they might just say that in hopes that you'll change your mind and want a relationship. I have seen that happen several times with both guys and girls and it breaks my heart. No one should be hurt like that!

Sex is a very powerful thing to share between two people. Yes it's human nature to have sex and yes sex is a pleasurable thing, but sex is a form of bonding too. You can't get bond any more physically than sex and too me I see that as a form of commitment or what should be commitment.

I see one nightstands as being weak and having no will power because you are giving into temptation, you are taking a risk of hurting someone, and you aren't taking a chance of having something turn into love because you are affraid of commitment and getting hurt.

I think if want to have sex to relieve stress you should have sex with yourself. There's no chance of hurting someone with a one night stand that way and your future wife or husband can feel a lot more special.

I don't feel as speically as I should feel when it comes to the sexual part when it comes to my relationship with Dave, becasue he's had one night stands. How can I be special if he's gone out to have sex with women just because theyhappened to be hot and he wanted to be staticified?

I don't see how anyone can share that physical bond without feeling any emotions for that person. And just because a person says okay to a one night stand doesn't neccesserly mean that person isn't going to get hurt. Maybe they said it hopes that you would want to start a relationship or maybe they will change their mind after they have done it.

I've had a total of 3 sex partners. The first one I had oral sex with becasue I was in love with him and I thought he was in love with me too. I thought we were even going to get married someday. So I felt that timing was right. The second sex partner I had convinced me to have casual sex with him after I told him how I felt about casual sex and one night stands and after I told hime what sex meanst to me. I was hurt and I happened to want the guy to like me. So stupid me agreed to it and I wound up being in one of the worst emotional pains I ever been in. Because right after we were done he told me I should dress more sexier, I should loose weight in my hips so I can look more sexier, and then he told me he was inlove with another woman. He didn't tell me this before we had sex he told me this after we had sex. I was hurt that for a month I wouldn't go anymore, I wouldn't communicate to anyone, and I cried in my room everynight.

My third and last sexual partner is Dave and even thought I know he loves me I'm still hurt at the fact that he has had one night stands. I don't feel as speical I should feel when it comes to our sex lives.

And I think I've fallen in love with Antonius and NightHawlk. :lol:

By the way, there is no way in hell that I'm having 6, 8, or 10 children!

[Thor]

Now i'm confused?

you did only oral with the 2nd one right?

[Pesha]

Ok yes I have done the one night stand thing. And not ashamed of it. It served a purpose at the times I did it. One time when when I was in australia and the man who had been my lover deceiced to dump me and leave me stranded in a strange country. I had left my job and the States for him and well it is a long and sad and a real internet horror story so we will leave it at that. Anyway I went out and had a couple of one nighters becasue I needed to feel sexy and desirable and the one nighters filled the need. And so it flows.
BB
DS.

[Thor]

but you ARE very special Melissa

[Thor]

Ok yes I have done the one night stand thing. And not ashamed of it. It served a purpose at the times I did it. One time when when I was in australia and the man who had been my lover deceiced to dump me and leave me stranded in a strange country. I had left my job and the States for him and well it is a long and sad and a real internet horror story so we will leave it at that. Anyway I went out and had a couple of one nighters becasue I needed to feel sexy and desirable and the one nighters filled the need. And so it flows.
BB
DS.

He dumped you in the middle of Australia??

thats awful!!!!

[Melissa]

Now i'm confused?

you did only oral with the 2nd one right?

Yes Dave, but oral sex is still sex and is still a physical bond.

[Pesha]

Yes he dumped me in the middle of OZ. But it came out ok becasue I got to see the country thanks to some friends I had made on line and it was not a total loss.

BB
DS.

[Thor]

Yes Dave, but oral sex is still sex and is still a physical bond.

true, but you wrote:


The second sex partner I had convinced me to have casual sex with him after I told him how I felt about casual sex and one night stands and after I told hime what sex meanst to me. I was hurt and I happened to want the guy to like me. So stupid me agreed to it and I wound up being in one of the worst emotional pains I ever been in. Because right after we were done he told me I should dress more sexier, I should loose weight in my hips so I can look more sexier, and then he told me he was inlove with another woman. He didn't tell me this before we had sex he told me this after we had sex. I was hurt that for a month I wouldn't go anymore, I wouldn't communicate to anyone, and I cried in my room everynight.

which got me confused about the casual sex thing

[Thor]

Yes he dumped me in the middle of OZ. But it came out ok becasue I got to see the country thanks to some friends I had made on line and it was not a total loss.

BB
DS.



But still........................

[Kaylara]

What either one of you has done in your past, is just that, in the past. People change as time passes, their perception of what they want and what they are ok with changes. It seems like he's very much in love with you, and not likely to go and indulge in any one night stands because he is in love with you, so I really don't see what the problem is...

Then again... I'm pretty liberal to begin with... There's not very much that bothers me on that front... :D

[Thor]

I will NEVER EVER cheat on Melissa

[Melissa]

I know that Dave is in love with, I know what he has done is in the past, and I know he wouldn't cheat on me, but that still doesn't stop me for feeling that I'm not as specially as I should feel when it comes to our sex life.

Dave makes me feel like a princess for all the other aspect of our relationship, but when it comes to sex I just don't feel as special as I should. It's just part of who I am and he knew that before we started to date and have sex.

[Thor]

Im sorry Melissa,

if i could, i would turn it all back

[Kaylara]

I know that Dave is in love with, I know what he has done is in the past, and I know he wouldn't cheat on me, but that still doesn't stop me for feeling that I'm not as specially as I should feel when it comes to our sex life.

Dave makes me feel like a princess for all the other aspect of our relationship, but when it comes to sex I just don't feel as special as I should. It's just part of who I am and he knew that before we started to date and have sex.
Wait wait wait... You don't feel special about having sex with him, because he's had more partners than you, and a few one night stands? He's with you. What's not to feel special about?

[Tzhebee]

Yeah....so....back to the original thread topic. :D

Call me a slut, but yes, yes and yes. I've had more 1 night stands than I can or care to remember. I don't necessarily think that 1 nighters in general are good or bad, but sometimes they are just necessary!

I have found, though, that it is MUCH easier to have a one-nigher with a guy than it is a girl! :D

[Melissa]

Im sorry Melissa,

if i could, i would turn it all back

No you wouldn't. You wouldn't go back and change things that you don't regret.

[Nighthawk]

For what it is worth... Melissa... he just (Dave-Thor) just some very powerful words...""If I could, I would turn it all back!" He feels shame, evidently... and remorse.... and... well... think really carefully.

[Thor]

to make you Happy i would.



I'd die for you Melissa, you know it..........

[Dextra]

Hmm...I've had a couple. It was okay, but not something I think I'd ever do again. I prefer to reserve sex for someone I care about. :)

[Kaylara]

What's in the past, is in the past. You can't go back and change it, and if you were able to, you probably wouldn't be the person you are today. Our past experiences influence who we are today... Whether for good or bad, they've shaped you.

[Romani Vixen]

Have had a few... not too many. As long as you're careful and have the right mentality... I don't see an issue.

[Melissa]

Well then he does regret what he did if he would go back and change it.

[Nighthawk]

Well then he does regret what he did if he would go back and change it.
that is what he is saying.. be careful here.. he means it... not too good to beat someone over the head with these things... Personally, I would let it drop... I mean, what is the gain if not?

[Thor]

yes, because it does hurt you, and i dont want to see you get hurt

[Druchii]

You have no clue where they have been, what they have done, or what to expect. That goes for the new ones or the old ones. ( i.e. you can get a new one and still get a lemon, or you can get a used one and get lucky...)

[Thor]

that is what he is saying.. be careful here.. he means it... not too good to beat someone over the head with these things... Personally, I would let it drop... I mean, what is the gain if not?

yea i do mean it, but i wont get upset at Melissa.
she's too good a person, and i deeply love her.

[Druchii]

Aren't the two of you getting married?

[Thor]

Yes we are, why?

[Melissa]

I'm not saying Dave doesn't mean what he is saying, I was just stating the fact that if you would change something if you could then you do regret what you did and if you wouldn't change something if you could then you don't regret what you did.

[Nighthawk]

Yes...and?????

[Thor]

that sentence gave me a headache, :lol:


Melissa.....................sweety.

I did those things in the past out of lust maybe,
you are right...........i should have known better than
to just go to a bar and pick up a girl.

I know it also bothers you i slept with a woman
the same age as your mother.

Right now............if i had the power, i would erase all that.
I can't though, i'm sorry.

But even though i did those things, you are very special to me,
you ARE the first girl i really made love to.
all those other times it was just about sex.

i really regret i did all that now.

[Druchii]

It sounded like you were trying to say some dude was okay for her even tho he had been around the block and she hadn't, but then I thought that was you in the pic in her sig, dig? So then I was like whoa, they are really being open about this, and then I got confused because you are Thor and Dave, and Melissa said she loved Dave. So I was like, dude! What about THOR!? Because I was like if you're gonna get low with it then you two needed to keep it on the down low, because Thor might come around. But then that was you and that was okay! So I was like right on dude!

[Melissa]

Yes...and?????

:lol:

And he stated before that he doesn't regret what he did, but he really does regret what he did.

That's why I was trying to make that point. :lol:

[Thor]

uhm yea okay.................i have something to confess............................


i actually am Thor, God of Thunder.
Dave is my mortal disguise.............LoL :lol:

[Thor]

:lol:

And he stated before that he doesn't regret what he did, but he really does regret what he did.

That's why I was trying to make that point. :lol:



because untill now, i never knew it hurt you THAT much sweety

[soilsigh aingeal]

My third and last sexual partner is Dave and even thought I know he loves me I'm still hurt at the fact that he has had one night stands. I don't feel as speical I should feel when it comes to our sex lives.
Why should you feel like you are not special because he's had one night stands? You are the final person that Dave wants to be with for the rest of his life. The two of you are getting married, that means that he will not have any more one night stands, because of YOU! If anything that should make you feel better because you are the last person he will be with. You are the one who changed him! There's no reason for you to not feel special... Sorry to side with him but I've been in this argument before. If you were any less special than anyone he's been with in the past, than he would not be waiting impatiently for you to arrive on that plane so he can take you home with him forever.

[Melissa]

It sounded like you were trying to say some dude was okay for her even tho he had been around the block and she hadn't, but then I thought that was you in the pic in her sig, dig? So then I was like whoa, they are really being open about this, and then I got confused because you are Thor and Dave, and Melissa said she loved Dave. So I was like, dude! What about THOR!? Because I was like if you're gonna get low with it then you two needed to keep it on the down low, because Thor might come around. But then that was you and that was okay! So I was like right on dude!

:lol:

I don't think Thor/Dave will have any clue what you are trying to say, because that post even confused the heck out of me! :lol:

[Thor]

Why should you feel like you are not special because he's had one night stands? You are the final person that Dave wants to be with for the rest of his life. The two of you are getting married, that means that he will not have any more one night stands, because of YOU! If anything that should make you feel better because you are the last person he will be with. You are the one who changed him! There's no reason for you to not feel special... Sorry to side with him but I've been in this argument before. If you were any less special than anyone he's been with in the past, than he would not be waiting impatiently for you to arrive on that plane so he can take you home with him forever.

Thanks Erin

its well said, and really what i'm trying to say,

Melissa changed me................for the better.
I even cried while watching Forrest Gump, i never did that before.
all because of my sweet Melissa

[Melissa]

Why should you feel like you are not special because he's had one night stands? You are the final person that Dave wants to be with for the rest of his life. The two of you are getting married, that means that he will not have any more one night stands, because of YOU! If anything that should make you feel better because you are the last person he will be with. You are the one who changed him! There's no reason for you to not feel special... Sorry to side with him but I've been in this argument before. If you were any less special than anyone he's been with in the past, than he would not be waiting impatiently for you to arrive on that plane so he can take you home with him forever.

I guess I never looked at it that way.

By the way Dave,

I'm not upset you had sex with a woman my mother's age. You're the one who's worried about that. How can I be upset when I had oral sex with a guy 17 years older than me?

[Druchii]

She is hurt because you got the wanker sweaty a couple of times? And you WANT to take it back if you could... And she was the big V when you guys knocked boots the first time? And if so, isn't it better that you served some time on the chaingang working with the mini me so that that way you wouldn't be no one minute man? No two pump chump? I certainly think so. Melissa you need to understand that if it weren't for the hos in this world sex would never be as good as it could be. NOT that hos are cool... But they are people too, dig?

[soilsigh aingeal]

I guess I never looked at it that way.

Glad I could help!

[Thor]

I guess I never looked at it that way.

By the way Dave,

I'm not upset you had sex with a woman my mother's age. You're the one who's worried about that. How can I be upset when I had oral sex with a guy 17 years older than me?

yeah i guess thats true, i keep on wondering what your mum thinks of me

[Thor]

MELISSA, I LOVE YOU

[Hazel BlueMoon]

Yeah, I've had some too. I didn't regret them until I met and started dating my husband. I wish I wouldn've waited for him. Until him I never knew that making love could be so beautiful and special. I'v always heard about it, but I thought it was for the movies. I certainly don't judge anyone who does do that. I beleive everyone has a right to do whatever they want...and not be called a slut for it. There's nothing wrong with sex at all. I just personally wish I would've waited for my love. Blessed Be.

[Melissa]

Well first of all I don't think you are a slut because you've had a one night stand. I think you lack will power and are scared to commit at the time, but I don't think you are a slut. I consider someone who sleeps around on their girlfriend/boyfriend, fiancee, or husband/wife to be a slut.

Second of all I'm just as good at sex as a prositute or someone who has several sex partners.

And third of all, I see everyone's point now, but he also knew how I felt about sex and one night stand before we even started dating.

[Druchii]

So like all this thread has made me is horny. The chubby has cheese whiz. All this oral that and sex this had made me want to get it on like donkey kong. I NEED FLESH! :hehehehe:

[Kaylara]

Crap... I'm polyamorus... (which means I have more than one commited partner, as do my partners...) :D I'm a scarlet woman!

[Druchii]

but he also knew how I felt about sex and one night stand before we even started dating.

Uh then why are you dating? Not being fecalistic (sarcastic) or what not, but I know my pizza have anchovies on it I send it back or never bite into it. Because fish is fish no matter what you do to it...

[Melissa]

Because he didn't want to have any more one night stands when he met me.

[Thor]

and i am

[Druchii]

Crap... I'm polyamorus... (which means I have more than one commited partner, as do my partners...) :D I'm a scarlet woman!

Now Kay here is full in effect! She knows that to be all that and a bag of chips you need to free your mind. Seriously cool that you are like that Kay! :) So like maybe if some of your friends come over and, you know, help "Dew the Dew" as the smart ones like to say, then all the stress will be gone! Melissa I honestly think it is worth a try...

[Kaylara]

LMFAO! I have my two partners at the monment, and am fully happy with my current situation... But Traz may be interested, ;).

Edited to say: As I said before, I'm no longer into one night stands... I'm commited fully to both of the relationships that I am in... Hence no play time for me Druchii... :) But, don't take it the wrong way, please. :)

[Druchii]

LMFAO! I have my two partners at the monment, and am fully happy with my current situation... But Traz may be interested, ;).

I have seen that hunk of man. He is HOT! Almost Brad Pitt hot at that!

[Boogins]

What about you, Dru? :smoke:

[Dextra]

LMFAO! I have my two partners at the monment, and am fully happy with my current situation... But Traz may be interested, ;).

That's too cool. I don't think I could handle that though. I get frustrated trying to figure out what kind of bagel I want in the morning though. :lol:

[Nighthawk]

Okay well.... okay....

[Kaylara]

That's too cool. I don't think I could handle that though. I get frustrated trying to figure out what kind of bagel I want in the morning though. :lol:
In all seriousness, I don't want anyone else. I'm very happy, and commited to the two relationships I currently have. It's not for everyone, but it works for us. :D

[soilsigh aingeal]

Uh then why are you dating? Not being fecalistic (sarcastic) or what not, but I know my pizza have anchovies on it I send it back or never bite into it. Because fish is fish no matter what you do to it...

Because he didn't want to have any more one night stands when he met me.
So you accepted it, and if you choose to accept something you shouldn't turn it into something else. It's just not fair.

[Kaylara]

I have seen that hunk of man. He is HOT! Almost Brad Pitt hot at that!
Oooo... He's going to be sooo flattered!

[Druchii]

What about you, Dru? :smoke:

No I tend to stay towards one. Mainly because if I embarrass myself why do it to a crowd. Pressure. It's all about pressure. I can say that I was already propositioned in a weird way. So although I know that its a possiblity, um no, just one heart to a heart for me. :lol:
Keeps me off of hit list and stuff too. :hehehehe:

[Kaylara]

lmfao!

[Ben Trismegistus]

Dave makes me feel like a princess for all the other aspect of our relationship, but when it comes to sex I just don't feel as special as I should. It's just part of who I am and he knew that before we started to date and have sex.
TOUGH LOVE TIME:

If you're with a guy who makes you feel like a princess, and who has promised never to cheat on you, you're a whole lot better off than a LOT of women out there, and trying to make him feel guilty for having previous sexual partners is completely unfair.

[Nighthawk]

Thank you, Ben... I did not know eactly how to say it...

[Phoenix Blue]

If you're with a guy who makes you feel like a princess, and who has promised never to cheat on you, you're a whole lot better off than a LOT of women out there, and trying to make him feel guilty for having previous sexual partners is completely unfair.
I agree with me completely. If both parties are disease-free, then sexual history should be largely irrelevant. It can be a point of conversation, but it should not be cause to inflict emotional blackmail upon your partner.

[Aidron]

Out of curiosity, let's do an informal poll. How often does everyone here regularly get offered to hook up, knowing it will be a one night stand or just sex?

Me... about once a week or every two weeks it seems lately.

[Druchii]

Out of curiosity, let's do an informal poll. How often does everyone here regularly get offered to hook up, knowing it will be a one night stand or just sex?

Me... about once a week or every two weeks it seems lately.

once in a lifetime incident here for one week solid about 1 month ago. 13 times. Did not take one chance on any of it. Didn;t want to...
But on the average ( mind you I work at a bar,... once a week)

[FestiveLeaf]

Out of curiosity, let's do an informal poll. How often does everyone here regularly get offered to hook up, knowing it will be a one night stand or just sex?

Me... about once a week or every two weeks it seems lately.

once in my lifetime :ahhhhhhh: :ack:

[LadyTrinity]

:fpompoms I was 19 at the time ( im 21 now ) and broke off a long term relationship because one day he decided to say.. This will be the last time we have sex because I dont want it to infulence my descision on weither or not I want to still be in a relationship with you.. I was mortified!!! :bastard: So I called him up and told him we were over. I was so hurt because I loved him alot and I decided to drink my ass silly :cheers: and party away my misery with my girl friends on the dance floor. One night I ended up making out with a hot italian guy on one of the club's lounge sofa's.. and regreted it ever since. It wasnt a one night stand because I didnt sleep with him. But If I had.. I would have regreted it because even though it can be my nature to be nauty but I would have felt so used. :strike:

[FestiveLeaf]

:fpompoms I was 19 at the time ( im 21 now ) and broke off a long term relationship because one day he decided to say.. This will be the last time we have sex because I dont want it to infulence my descision on weither or not I want to still be in a relationship with you.. I was mortified!!! :bastard: So I called him up and told him we were over. I was so hurt because I loved him alot and I decided to drink my ass silly :cheers: and party away my misery with my girl friends on the dance floor. One night I ended up making out with a hot italian guy on one of the club's lounge sofa's.. and regreted it ever since. It wasnt a one night stand because I didnt sleep with him. But If I had.. I would have regreted it because even though it can be my nature to be nauty but I would have felt so used. :strike:

Long term relationships and feelings seem to ruin everything.

[Bran83]

Out of curiosity, let's do an informal poll. How often does everyone here regularly get offered to hook up, knowing it will be a one night stand or just sex?

Me... about once a week or every two weeks it seems lately.


Hmmmm lets think....once in a blue moon plus never, minus a yes, divide by 50 wishes and multiply by "dear gods no!"= not a hell of a lot

[Aidron]

Hmmmm lets think....once in a blue moon plus never, minus a yes, divide by 50 wishes and multiply by "dear gods no!"= not a hell of a lot


:rotfl:

If it will make you feel any better...

"Hey baby, wanna hook up?"

:rollingla


Doing what I can to raise self-esteem everywhere. :D

[Bran83]

:rotfl:

If it will make you feel any better...

"Hey baby, wanna hook up?"

:rollingla


Doing what I can to raise self-esteem everywhere. :D



Yeah you want to raise something.... ;)

[Aidron]

Yeah you want to raise something.... ;)


:foh:

Raven WindSong, officially scared as of 7:43 p.m. EST. :lol:

[Romani Vixen]

Hmmmm lets think....once in a blue moon plus never, minus a yes, divide by 50 wishes and multiply by "dear gods no!"= not a hell of a lot
So, what do you drink? :D :smoke:

[Bran83]

So, what do you drink? :D :smoke:


Wel I would love a tall lengthy glass of you.... ;)

[Aidron]

Wel I would love a tall lengthy glass of you.... ;)


And here he is folks, Bran, the official wannabe charmer of MW. :lol:

I imagine Bran will be getting quite a few one night stand offers after all of this. :p

[Bainidhe Dub]

I'm officially a good girl *grimaces* I have never had a one night stand. Boy am I boring lol.

[gyroWang]

Out of curiosity, let's do an informal poll. How often does everyone here regularly get offered to hook up, knowing it will be a one night stand or just sex?

Me... about once a week or every two weeks it seems lately.

In my lifetime. You could count it up on one hand easily enough :(

[Aidron]

In my lifetime. You could count it up on one hand easily enough :(


Mine too, if I had 70+ fingers on one hand. Boy, that would be something to call Guiness over. :D

[ArKane]

This thread has certainly grown in the hours I was away.

So tired..my precious...to much LoTR and Final fantasy Grr...

Real World check.

:lol:

[Romani Vixen]

Wel I would love a tall lengthy glass of you.... ;)
But I might intoxicate you!

[Bran83]

And here he is folks, Bran, the official wannabe charmer of MW. :lol:

I imagine Bran will be getting quite a few one night stand offers after all of this. :p


Wait I have more.....lol

Girl I looked at you...and I had to look again....cause your to fine to pass up once.

<pass by girl and stop> Im sorry.... for second there I thought I was in heaven, and you were the angel to greet me <grab hand and kiss>. For I could not imagine such a fine beauty to be wasted on such mortal eyes when all of eternity could writhe in jealousy at such a site as you.



Yes..... they get cornier...

[Aidron]

Wait I have more.....lol

Girl I looked at you...and I had to look again....cause your to fine to pass up once.

<pass by girl and stop> Im sorry.... for second there I thought I was in heaven, and you were the angel to greet me <grab hand and kiss>. For I could not imagine such a fine beauty to be wasted on such mortal eyes when all of eternity could writhe in jealousy at such a site as you.



Yes..... they get cornier...


I think I'm going to throw up.

[Romani Vixen]

Hey, most men don't even bother with the corny stuff.... I take what I can get!!! lol

[Bran83]

I think I'm going to throw up.

Im sorry RAven... I dont hit on that many boys... I wouldnt know what to say.... although these are teh lines I got:

Guy: So, Whats your name?
Me: John
Guy: Ahh gods gift...
Me: Yes.... to women

The newest one

Boy you are hotter then lava flowing over a concrete statue.....


I nearly died laughing when I read that.

[Bran83]

Hey, most men don't even bother with the corny stuff.... I take what I can get!!! lol


You should see me on "liquid courage"....lol

[ArKane]

Is that all you got?

(Use index finger to call someone over then say) I made you come with one finger, imagine what I could do with my whole hand.

If I told you, you had the most sexist body, would you hold it againest me?

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.

[Bran83]

Is that all you got?

(Use index finger to call someone over then say) I made you come with one finger, imagine what I could do with my whole hand.

If I told you, you had the most sexist body, would you hold it againest me?

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too.

I love that dress on you.....though, it would even look better on my bedroom floor

[Druchii]

"Hey do you have any Hispanic in you? No? Would you like a little? "

"Hey you got something on your chest...Yeah you do, MY EYES!"

"Do the rest of the women in the world a favor and stop getting prettier..."

... I know, I know,... just shoot me... :lol:

[Melissa]

Ummm.......I wasn't trying to make anyone feel guilty because of past sexual partner.

I never said that I wouldn't have sex with him, that he was a jerk, or that I was going to break up with him becasue of his past sexual relatioships.

The thread is about one night stands, so I wrote exactly how I felt about one night stands. How is that making someone feel guilty because of something he did in the past?

My feelings on one night stands has nothing to do with making Dave feel guilty.

[Bran83]

"Hey do you have any Hispanic in you? No? Would you like a little? "

"Hey you got something on your chest...Yeah you do, MY EYES!"

"Do the rest of the women in the world a favor and stop getting prettier..."

... I know, I know,... just shoot me... :lol:


Girl you must be tired.....cause you've been runnin' through my mind all day

If heaven where to pick a vessel to pour all its radience in.....it would still be no comparison to you.

[WandererInGray]

Man, if I have anything to say about this thread it's this....

Dave, Melissa.....get a frelling room! :rolleyes: If you're about to be married you'd better learn that the finer arts of communication does not involve airing your personal issues on a public message board.

Yeesh.

All right folks, just had to get that off my chest, back to your regularly scheduled silliness. ;)

[Melissa]

What we choose to talk about is our buisness and no one elses. It so happens to be that we aren't ashame about who we are and we can admit to our mistakes.

What we choose to talk about when it comes to ourselves has nothing to do with anyone else. If you don't like it then don't read it.

I live America and people died in the Revalulition War so I could have the freedom to talk about whatever I damn well please to talk about.

If other people can talk about how they had one night stands, what they like sexually, and yada yada yada then I can certainly air my so called dirty laundry if I feel like it.

We are airing past dirty laundry not current dirty laundry, so therefore you shouldn't have problem with it.

[WandererInGray]

Past dirty laundry....current dirty laundry.

It stinks all the same.

[Phoenix Blue]

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Edited to add: Yes, rule number one even applies to your fianceé. What you discuss privately is your own business. Don't make it ours if you're going to break forum rules in the process.

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