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RubyRose
April 20th, 2004, 07:50 AM
I hate her. Seriously I'm probably going against everything I believe in right now, but I wish she'd die I really really do.
Okay my mother's just been verbally ear bashing me for the last half hour from anything from Rhyce to my Wiccan stance.
So anyway, she's reduced me to tears twice, maybe three times tonight. I'm really sick and tired of this crap
Phoenix Blue
April 20th, 2004, 07:52 AM
:hugz:
RubyRose
April 20th, 2004, 07:54 AM
Thanks Pheonix Blue
mucgwyrt
April 20th, 2004, 07:54 AM
:hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:
RubyRose
April 20th, 2004, 08:02 AM
Thanks guys.
Thor
April 20th, 2004, 08:25 AM
sorry to hear about this again
RubyRose
April 20th, 2004, 08:28 AM
sorry to hear about this again

Yeah exactly ... again. Its so annoying.
fireswimmer
April 20th, 2004, 03:28 PM
I am so sorry! My mother and I did not start to see eye to eye until I moved out of state unexpectedly. After a year or so of bein gout of state we began to put things together between us. One basic thing I did is simply not talk to her if she hurt me. If it was too much I backed away. The last gap was about weeks and included her birthday. Now we have a nice loving relationship.

Fireswimmer offering hugs
MerrisHawk
April 20th, 2004, 03:43 PM
Sorry it's going so hard for you. Wish your mom could try and understand how you feel or the hurt she's causing. I know a mom is suppost to be the person who loves you best, maybe she needs to be reminded. Can you ask her?
Shanti
April 20th, 2004, 03:44 PM
Sorry
Deranged Hermit
April 20th, 2004, 03:48 PM
I was verbally abused by my father, almost daily, until I was 18 and moved out. I learned 2 things from it though. 1. I never let anyone else talk to me that way again. 2. I have never treated my kids that way.
Hang in there. :hugz:
RedCelt
April 20th, 2004, 04:14 PM
Oh RubyRose! I wish I could be there to give you a huge hug. I hate when people are hurting and I can't do anything. You know we all love you and would do anything we can for you. I wish I could do more than just send you hugs:hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: and lots of strengthening thoughts and energy. Hang in there sweetheart!!


RedCelt
DraconisArcanus
April 20th, 2004, 04:22 PM
Sending you energies for healing and strength!

Peace!
savannahrose44
April 20th, 2004, 04:35 PM
I have a close friend who shares your problem...her mother is extremely judgemental and christian too. She has done this to her several times and Rachel called me in tears. I wish I was there to give you a great big hug and a sholder to cry on like I have done for her on many occasions, but this will have to do instead. :huddle: From both Rachel and I. Sending warm fuzzies your way, hang in there.
Jenne
April 20th, 2004, 04:37 PM
:hugz: Hon...hang in there...
Vanessa TPD
April 20th, 2004, 06:28 PM
:huddle:
Kalika
April 20th, 2004, 09:32 PM
:hugz:
dragonspirit 69
April 20th, 2004, 10:31 PM
:hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz: :hugz:

So sorry to hear about all your troubles. I hope you can find a way to get out of it adn still keep some lines of comunications open with your mom.
Faerie Hollow
April 20th, 2004, 10:34 PM
You poor thing. It can really be a drag when someone confuses opinion with a right.
She might not agree with your path but it doesn't mean she has the "Right" to abuse you.That really sucks and you deserve better (I KNOW that and, heck, we've never even met!) I hope that you will find the solace you need and the support you deserve. If no where else...than here where we understand.
blessings and peaceful dreams