Grrrr...familys!

[Kyra Kismet]

:rant: I have decided that familys are too much hassle. My mum keeps complaining that i spend to much time in my room and that Im antisocial. But when I come to spend time with her she says that Im being clingy and that I should be out with my mates! Grr I cant win! :rant:

[Pan]

It can seem that way. I used to have that problem with my mom until I moved out. Now, she can't see enough of me, nor can my dad. I do miss my parents, though. When living with them, try to spend as much time with them as you can. Introduce your mom to some of your hobbies and let her know that she's one of your mates, too. I wish I had done that with my mom. Sometimes I feel like it's too late.

[Kyra Kismet]

My mum isnt my mum shes my stepmum and she only 32 whereas my dads 42, Im 17 so she not that much older, she does most of the hobbies i do and is currnetly training to be a wiccan as I am! She says that we will get on better when I move out but I really want to spend time with her now but we are always fighting!!

[Pan]

What're you always fighting about? I didn't know she was your stepmom. My parents are both my biological parents and have been married for a long time. 20-something years.

And what does your dad say about all of this?

[Kyra Kismet]

My dad thinks its funny! You see my stepmom has been more of a mom to me that my biological mother ever was! My stepmom was my babysitter and had an affair with my dad! My real mom at the time was having 3 affairs with men and women! My stepmom really does love me its just we always argue!!

[Kyra Kismet]

We argue about everything, niether of us start out trying for an arguement but it always ends up as one!

[ArKane]

My parents are great. There the best things that could ever happened to me. LoL. My sister on the other hand, I have nothing to do with. Biggest bitch you ever would see. I'm sick of it. Grr. What do they say? You can choose your friends but not your family?

[Pan]

haha. Yeah. You can't really choose your family sometimes.

I don't understand why your stepmom would pull you close one minute, and push you away the next. Maybe you should try and talk to her about it? Just tell her how you told us.

[Kyra Kismet]

Maybe that will work! Thanks! What do you reakon to the background story though! sounds like a soapopera! No??

[Pan]

Somewhat. There's worse at my workplace. ;)

[Black RiverWolf]

my mom is more of a friend than a mom. but that because she ans dad split up when i was a munchkin. so everyother weekend and 1month out the summer . now that im grown up i can go see her when ever i wanna but we used to fight like cats and dogs too. then she gave a room in the basement at her house where i could get away from everything and everybody and i was happy. but things do get better. my step mom was very abuseive to us so dad got rid of her hehehehehehe happy dance