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Dria El
August 2nd, 2001, 04:33 AM
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE

...one old love she can imagine going back to ...and one who reminds her how far she has come...

...enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to...

...something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

...a youth she's content to leave behind...

...a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age...

...a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

...one friend who always makes her laugh ... and one who lets her cry...

...a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...

...eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored...

...a feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

...how to fall in love without losing herself...

...how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship...

...when to try harder ...and when to walk away...

...that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents...

...that her childhood may not have been perfect... but its over...

...what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

...how to live alone...even if she doesn't like it...

...whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...

...where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table...or a charming inn in the woods...when her soul needs soothing...

...what she can and can't accomplish in a day... a month...and a year.

reanna
August 2nd, 2001, 04:35 AM
Wow! Boy! you are sure a busy little bee poster tonight.:):):)

They are all fantastic though. I like this one very much too:):):)
Thanks for sharing

Rævyn Cigány
August 2nd, 2001, 04:45 AM
And so am I....this is probably my 30th post tonight ;)

And I just LOVE this...I sent it too all my friends at work and around the area...thanks for posting it, hon!!

BB

Rae )0(

Dria El
August 2nd, 2001, 04:46 AM
Guess I'm feeling a little sentimental tonight. :)

Very welcome :)

SimplyStrange
August 2nd, 2001, 04:50 AM
Originally posted by Dria El
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE

...a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

...one friend who always makes her laugh ... and one who lets her cry...

With me these are both important....I like being handy enough to work with tools and do things like that for myself...but sometimes it's nice to be girly. My mom has taught that to me. I look up to her. She's one of those moms that will help you pick out a Winter Formal dress and give you advice with colors. She'll help you get ready and do your hair, but will also change the flat tire you got on the way to the dance...

That goes along with number two. My mom is my friend that makes me laugh AND the one that lets me cry...I've been so lucky to have a mom like that, but it's too bad that not everyone can be that lucky. My best friend's mom is totally the opposite. For 15 years she didn't even want to be a part of her life, and now she's trying to shove her way into it. But all she does is try to remind her of "how big of a screw up" she is...it sucks...

~SS~

reanna
August 2nd, 2001, 04:51 AM
Originally posted by Rævyn Cigány
And so am I....this is probably my 30th post tonight ;)

And I just LOVE this...I sent it too all my friends at work and around the area...thanks for posting it, hon!!

BB

Rae )0(



And so you are!!! What has got you all so busy??? :):):)

Dria El
August 2nd, 2001, 05:04 AM
Originally posted by SimplyStrange


With me these are both important....I like being handy enough to work with tools and do things like that for myself...but sometimes it's nice to be girly. My mom has taught that to me. I look up to her. She's one of those moms that will help you pick out a Winter Formal dress and give you advice with colors. She'll help you get ready and do your hair, but will also change the flat tire you got on the way to the dance...

That goes along with number two. My mom is my friend that makes me laugh AND the one that lets me cry...I've been so lucky to have a mom like that, but it's too bad that not everyone can be that lucky. My best friend's mom is totally the opposite. For 15 years she didn't even want to be a part of her life, and now she's trying to shove her way into it. But all she does is try to remind her of "how big of a screw up" she is...it sucks...

~SS~

How lucky you are to have a mother like that!

It's too bad about your friend. I can definitely sympathize. :rolleyes: