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nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 06:01 PM
So I'm working on my divorce papers today, because we finally got a hearing date after four months. And I have some extra paperwork to fill out, even thought I know for a fact that I already filed these specific papers. But whatever. And I had to call my ex to discuss some of the paperwork so he wouldn't freak out because I knew he would. And he's tells me that he is intending to be at the court date.

:shaker:

WHY? After 4 months of not responding to the summons and all that good stuff. And insisting that he wasn't going to court and not helping me pay. All of a sudden he's going to court? And there went my good mood, right out the window. *waves to good mood*

LadyTrinity
May 25th, 2004, 06:02 PM
:hugz:

frigga
May 25th, 2004, 06:05 PM
Ouch! That bites hard! We'd better get the aloe before it gets infected! Those ex viruses are quite nasty once they decide to infiltrate! :blech:

nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 06:14 PM
Yeah it's pretty irritating.

Faeawyn
May 25th, 2004, 06:16 PM
:hugz: sorry hon. I'm sure everything will be fine. :hehehehe:

nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 06:18 PM
Yeah, I'm not really worried about him doing anything. I already have the default motion filed.. so it's a little late for him to try anything.. I just have no desire to see him and fail to see the reason why he wants to be there. He has all the paperwork and he chose not to respond.. :wtf:

dragonspirit 69
May 25th, 2004, 06:25 PM
Ex's like to show their a*** sometimes to see if they can still control you and make things hard on you . Hang in there it could be that he still not show up adn is just trying to rattle your cage. :geez:

soilsigh aingeal
May 25th, 2004, 06:26 PM
:hugz: I hope everything goes OK for you.

nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 06:27 PM
Ex's like to show their a*** sometimes to see if they can still control you and make things hard on you . Hang in there it could be that he still not show up adn is just trying to rattle your cage. :geez:

yeah, more than likely that's what it is. He liked to do that when we were together.. :blech:

Fairywolf
May 25th, 2004, 06:28 PM
He is a man. My ex took TWO years to get the court date! You are lucky for just 4 months. I am sorry you are going threw this and I will send you energy to help deal with this. If you need someone to rant to you can PM me anytime :hugz:

Madmartigan
May 25th, 2004, 06:29 PM
Sorry to hear that, hon. Ex's do like to play their little games, don't they? :flamer:

Bainidhe Dub
May 25th, 2004, 06:32 PM
*huggles* Stupid *beeeeeeeeeep*

Dumb boy. They do the stupidest things sometimes..

savannahrose44
May 25th, 2004, 06:32 PM
Awwwww ND! :hugz: Ex'x suck big time. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I'll send you some good old fashioned warm fuzzies ((((((((((ND))))))))))))

nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 06:39 PM
*huggles* Stupid *beeeeeeeeeep*

Dumb boy. They do the stupidest things sometimes..


ahhh the ode to divorce just about covers it all doesn't it..

Ode to Divorce ~ By ND
On top of Divorce, all covered with grime.
I lost my stupid husband, for having a brain.
I lost him with pleasure, I lost him with pride.
For how could I miss him, he was just a moron..

On top of divorce, all covered with paperwork,
I became all happy, for getting my freedom.
I got it with pleasure, I got it with pride.
I don't even miss him, he's caught in my gun sight.

savannahrose44
May 25th, 2004, 06:45 PM
ahhh the ode to divorce just about covers it all doesn't it..

Ode to Divorce ~ By ND
On top of Divorce, all covered with grime.
I lost my stupid husband, for having a brain.
I lost him with pleasure, I lost him with pride.
For how could I miss him, he was just a moron..

On top of divorce, all covered with paperwork,
I became all happy, for getting my freedom.
I got it with pleasure, I got it with pride.
I don't even miss him, he's caught in my gun sight.
:rollingla

blugirrl1
May 25th, 2004, 06:45 PM
Ouch! That bites hard! We'd better get the aloe before it gets infected! Those ex viruses are quite nasty once they decide to infiltrate! :blech:

:rollingla

GaiaDea
May 25th, 2004, 06:50 PM
:hugz:

charmedkisses1
May 25th, 2004, 06:55 PM
:rubhead: we love you ND!

Mab
May 25th, 2004, 07:00 PM
Am working on paperwork myself. Amicable, but still. I can't take that puppy-dog look in his eyes, so.....I keep putting it off. Even though I have a bf I love madly & am trying to start a family with.......that finality & fear of hurting the ex more is just...icky. Uncomfortable as hell.

Hugs, Sweetie Pie. hugs hugs hugs :awwman:

savannahrose44
May 25th, 2004, 07:07 PM
Hey I don't know where it is....but I heard there was a site where you can actually send someone a package of dog poop(anonymusly of course) :rotfl: Wouldn't it be funny to let him know what you really think of him? :hehehe:

nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 07:09 PM
nah.. it wouldn't be worth it.. i'd never sink to his level.

Gala
May 25th, 2004, 07:13 PM
Nope don't sink to his level.
I've been through a divorce. but he is the one that wanted it so he made it go quickly.
It still sucks.. all of it.
Good vibes for you and good luck...

Gracecat
May 25th, 2004, 07:19 PM
:hugz:

savannahrose44
May 25th, 2004, 07:23 PM
I apologize in advance for my weirdness today.....I'm not myself. :veryweird

nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 07:34 PM
righttt *snickers*

morrigen
May 25th, 2004, 07:56 PM
Hope it all goes smoothly, ND.

Don't let the sod get to you, it sounds like he's trying to be deliberately difficult.

His loss, hun.

nomadicdragon
May 25th, 2004, 07:57 PM
I'm sure things will go fine.. but him being difficult is nothing new..

Tabby
May 26th, 2004, 12:07 AM
Energy to you along with a hug to get through this!! :hugz:

Dextra
May 26th, 2004, 12:27 AM
I'm sure things will go fine.. but him being difficult is nothing new..

Oh, do I know how that goes :geez: It'll be fine. And once you get the final papers back, you can frame them. And then smash the frame with a biiiiig hammer. :bigblue:

Boogins
May 26th, 2004, 12:30 AM
Good luck and a quick dispensation, hon! :hugz:

nomadicdragon
May 26th, 2004, 06:16 AM
Oh, do I know how that goes :geez: It'll be fine. And once you get the final papers back, you can frame them. And then smash the frame with a biiiiig hammer. :bigblue:


that sounds like fun

lol :smash:

Bainidhe Dub
May 26th, 2004, 07:23 AM
You know.. I *really* like that idea.. *grins evilly*

nomadicdragon
May 26th, 2004, 08:00 AM
most definitely. :hehehe:

savannahrose44
May 26th, 2004, 03:32 PM
righttt *snickers*

HEY NOW! :eyez: