help, I need a reading

[Sequoia]

my boyfriend and I have been having a lot of dissagreements lately, and although I'm trying my very hardest, there's still problems (I know I'm being vauge), and he is doubtful that we'll work out (I know that we will, I'm pretty darn certain, but he's so pessimistic about it at times. . . ), and I was curious if anyone'd do a reading for the two of us? I'm a female scorpio, he's a male libra, if that helps.

thankies

~Puma Hime

(btw: more than one person's views is always appreciated! ;) )

[rantnraven]

..the deck, Sister. Hang on.

RnR

[rantnraven]

I did a simple three card spread and must say that it isn't very positive.

The Star - Past - You are somewhat of a dreamer placing your emotions on your sleeve. You realize this and have gotten a handle on it by...

Ten of Shield - Present - ...surrounding yourself with friends and family. This could be the issue at hand. There could be a threat to your boyfriend in this manner. He may feel shut out and not included in your life. This may not be the case but, this could be how he feels. Talk about it.

Five of Swords - Future - tough card. Lonliness and wandering come to mind. This does not mean a break up but, I feel that someone needs a little space to think about the situation. I felt bad about this card and pulled a clarifier: Page of Swords. Sorry, two in a row. Things might get a little bitter, I think but it is not unfixable - if that is what you want. Search yourself, I think you want something more and, he just might have it to offer.

Love and light. Your color is Yellow. Burn a candle, of that color, tonight while the moon is full. Something will present itself. Can't say what, exactly, the clarifier was a bit nasty.

Walk with Her,
Rant

[Sequoia]

rant- a lot of what you said was fairly accurate. I have been trying to convince him that we do need some time apart, because we're together so much that it's driving us apart. I recently went on a vacation where I didn't see him for close to a week, and I felt very refreshed and very happy to see him, but it seems he was brooding over an argument the whole week, while I had tried to forget about it. . . I did some medatating by the ocean, which helped a lot. I think we both might need space, but somehow I can't get this plan off the ground. Coming fall, we won't be able to see eachother more than once or twice a week, and I think this may help, we've just been discovering things about eachother that are hard to adjust to and are stressful. We're dealing with them, but you know. . . tends to strain things.

the funny thing about the ten of shields. . . lately I've been feeling like my "family" has gotten pretty distant. There were arguments (my "family" is my closest group of friends), and now things are pretty formal and distant. . . on the other hand I just spent close to a week with most of my dad's side of the family ^^; that could account for the card. I had wanted to take Brandon with me but my dad wasn't for it (it was my grandma's 80th, so it's understandable.) but my uncle invited my boyfriend down with me in about a week or two, so maybe that'll be ok. So far as I know, he doesn't feel bad about it, but I'll be sure to ask him.

Lots of things I've been looking at seem dark. . . different divination stuffs (heck, even my d&d dice which like to joke a lot but are often fairly accurate), but I remain optimistic. I still have good feelings about he and I in the future. I have known for a while now that it's going to be one hell of a path for us to stay together, but that I think if we can make it, it will all be worth it.

thanks a lot for the reading, rant *huggles* it helps

[rantnraven]

for the "huggles". I could use those every now-and-again.

Blessings to you, for just being YOU,
Rant

[Sequoia]

you brought a smile to my face, rant. Thanks :)

[rantnraven]

That's were Smiles belong - on the face.;)

RnR;)

[Sequoia]

where else would it go? ;) hehe

[Sequoia]

hey rant, how did you find out my colour was yellow? I'm curious. . . is it a set thing? or does it change sometimes? Is it based on the zodiac?

(btw, don't tell my father, but I managed to get ahold of a yellow candle -_-; hehe bit late. . . technically he doesn't want me burning candles ever since he saw my alter. . . oi.)

[Myst]

Originally posted by rantnraven
Your color is Yellow.

My question is the same as Puma's, how do you know what colour?

[rantnraven]

Colors seem to just POP out at me. I ussually include them in readings. Colors, as they come to me, are color's of the "Now" and are not general "what your fav color is". It is more symboloic in what may apply for the moment.

I dunno. Just happened,

Rant

[Sequoia]

ah okees ^_^ thanks