Having dreams of herpes..

[*GrumpButt*]

The past couple of nights I have had 2 dreams about herpes....

The first one, I dreamed that i had herpes in the vaginal area, but later in the dream it turned out to be spider bites.

The second one I had last night, I had herpes sores all over my lips, they were all crusty pussy and yellow... And In these dreams I am disgusted and upset.

A bit of info.
I am 23, single mother, And I have had no sexual contact with anyone in around 4 years, Not even kissing.

I hope someone can help me!

[Faeawyn]

:foh: :whatgives

[*GrumpButt*]

I don't know lol.
But it is quite nasty isn't it?

[Xentor]

I'd say get your blood tested anyway, just to be sure. Then when that checks out OK, see whether or not that dream repeats.

[*GrumpButt*]

I have had by blood tested, when I was pregnant and after I had Kylee, b/c the baby and I had Jaundice. And have had regular exams, but nope, nothing comes up, I am clean each time I go...

[*GrumpButt*]

So I dont know why these nasty dreams keep coming around, but I want them to stop S-T-O-P!

:shaker:

[Xentor]

Anything upsetting you that is related to your sexual behaviour? Don't go into details, please, just think about it.

[*GrumpButt*]

No, same ol'' same ol'. Nothing new, nothing changed, still not having sex....
have not met a new parter or anything.
Nothing has changed at all..
i don't know maybe I am just nuts lol.

[Xentor]

Perhaps not. Perhaps you want to find a partner? Maybe this is your unconsciousness signalling a need that your conscious mind didn't handle yet?

[*GrumpButt*]

That could be it Xen, but why would it have herpes?

Maybe it is telling me to be careful if I do?

[RelicRavenEye]

If there is no link to herpes in your physical life than you might want to stop looking at this dream literally. Herpes is a life long illness, but not one that will truly harm you. It is a constant nuisance, embarrassing, and a hassle during relationships. Now put those things into your present life. Look for something that may e holding you back from relationships, I would say a trait within yourself. Maybe self confidence, or sexual inhibitions, or a fear of being let down or disappointed. Something along those lines. Whatever it is, it is probably something that has started relitivly recently in your life, but hasn't gone away since, or is constantly reoccuring.
When you figure out what it is you are halfway there. The next step will be defeating whatever it is so you can move on with your life. Back to the dream imagery, you can't cure herpes, but you can learn to live with it, and take certain steps to make it come back less. Also, if your mate truly cares about you, it will not even be a nuisance to them. It is a very livable problem.
So anyhow, find what it is that is standing in your way, and eaither learn to adapt to it to a point where it isn't noticable, or find someone who cares about you enough that it doesn't bother them. Then you have found your cure.

Brightest Blessings,
--Relic

[*GrumpButt*]

thank you!

[RelicRavenEye]

No problem...I hope that I waqs helpful. Good luck WhiteDragon.

Brightest Blessings,
Relic