could someone please do a reading?

[tigger759]

I wouldn't ask but the last couple of nights my hubby has been staying up late on the puter? Well needless to say he's not doing just reading? He can't answer my questions and just ignores the subject? I would like to know if we are ever gonna resolve this?
Thanks in advance!

[Lilu]

Well my divination tool of choice lately has been the Sacred Scarabs. I hope I'm not out of place posting a reading here, because it is the Tarot Forum.

Current Situation: SET

Set is representative of a negative situation causing problems in the relationship (which basically confirms what you've already said).

Action: LOTUS

"Rough or dark beginnings followed by positive outcomes"

Final Outcome: BAST

Bast is good for short-term or uncommitted relationships, but could indicate that there is trouble in the long-term due to lack of permanent committment from one or both partners.


I would read the scarabs that there will be a resolution to your current problems, but that it might just be the tip of the iceberg. It's possible that there are deeper issues that are not being analysed here that will cause problems in the long-term future, which unless they are dealt with, may cause the relationship to head down a negative path again.

REMEMBER, these are just GUIDES, you make your own future, but my advice would be to sit down and confront your husband with your troubles, and get him to talk (don't take no for an answer). If he refuses to talk to you, perhaps consider counselling of some kind to get to the root of all issues. It's possible that there are things he is also hiding (feelings etc) that he's scared to bring up in case it causes problems in the relationship. But the scarabs indicate that if you don't get to the root of the problem, there may be bigger troubles down the path.

Good luck!
Lilu

[Silver Venus]

Sorry about your troubles.. I will draw you a few cards later on today :D

[loopy]

I drew three cards for you... didn't really designate them until after I'd drawn them, but I'm pretty sure they went:

1) Describes him
2) Describes her
3) Assesses situation

I don't know though; it was kind of a spur-of-the-moment thing. The first two were pretty much just describing what you've told us.

1) Trickster: the trickster can mean a few different things, but I got the feeling it's indicating that he is hiding something. It may not be what you think it is, but I think there's something there.

2) Virgin: Describes someone (you) who feels vulnerable, exposed. Also might mean that you can't see something that's there. Like you might already know more of what's going on and don't want to admit it. But I got a stronger feeling about the vulnerability part, that you're feeling deceived.

3) Lightening: All I got from this card was the feeling that something's gonna go down. Either you're gonna confront him, or there'll be some sort of argument that may lead to some resolution.

Good luck, and I'm sorry for your troubles! {hug}

[Silver Venus]

Ill read for you in the Star spread hun.. please go and check that thread for your reading :D

[tigger759]

Loopy
your reading was right on!! i confronted him last night! or afternoon!! then i ended up in the emergency room. though he feels he did nothing wrong!!
Needless to say it was a long night!
thanks alot!!

[loopy]

Whoa, that's terrible! Are you all right?? :(

And np, anytime. :)

[tigger759]

I"m fine!! He pushed me as my keys were in my hand and they ended up going through my hand not all the way but left a nice hole! But after waiting so long they couldn't stitch it! so i'm on some pain medicine and antibotics. I'll live!! thanks so much for the reading!

[loopy]

Oh, it's no problem; I enjoy it, really.

Feel better; hope that heals quickly and with as little pain as possible. :) Sending hugs your way. :)

[Silver Venus]

Tigger thats terrible ~ I felt I had to write back and express my feelings also .. Im so sorry about your hand, I hope it gets better real soon and that you are not in pain with it. I dont want to tell you how to live your life ~ but I feel you must air things again and sort it out with your husband so you can be at peace and happy ~ i hope this happens for you very soon.
Big hugs and love :sunny:

[tigger759]

I've tried he doesn't care to take any blame so it's all my fault you know!! He's going on like nothing happened! He doesn't want to believe we have a problem that life is just fine! who knows i'm going to see a counsler for me! He will have to do as he pleases since he doesn't see us having a problem.
thanks for all your help!