I don't know what to do....

[Hazel BlueMoon]

I am so stressed out about work. I just recently had 5 day's off in a row! I mean, yeah the break was nice, but I'm not getting the hours I need. And then all of my coleagues are acting wierd towards me. This one guy who would flirt with me all of the time, and call me "hun" and stuff, has been really cold to me (I'm guessing it's because I don't flirt back - I'm married!) and this other girl, well, last time I did work, we worked together and I made one tiny mistake (the position I have is fairly new to me) and she called the boss and bitched at him about me, and then talked shit about me to our other co-worker working, and she just kinda (didn't really yell) had an attitude with me about the whole thing. And then this other coleague is usually always sweet to me, and she walked in one day and I said "hi" to her and she didn't respond. I just don't get it. And I had a check in the cash drawer (kinda hidden), that no one told me about, I had to find it. And tonight I finally go back to work, and I work 4 pm till midnight. And then saturday morning I work 7 am to 3 pm. And, it takes me 45 minutes to commute to work. I really don't know what to do. Should I take a hint? I mean, what the hell is going on? I work with all of these hungover college kid's too. They are such a pain in my ass! My main boss is a sarcastic asshole, he has an attitude about everything, and everyone say's that's his way of joking....well, it's mean. and my other boss is gay...which is cool, but he always judges me about everything (personal stuff), I mean, he actually is the only one I really like. He say's I'm doing great at my job, but he's also the one to make the schedules, I'm going to talk to him the next time I see him. I mean, I never call in (unlike my drunken coleagues), I come into work if called in, I do my best all of the time, I always try to make everyone's job a little bit easier. And what is this? I'm so stressing out...does anyone have any questions, or commit's? Please, Please, let me know what to do...what is a poor witch to do? Turn them all into frogs. lol. I'm not very funny when I'm stressed. ;)

[mucgwyrt]

If I were you, I'd be looking for a new job with a better working environment.

[Aelfoak]

Hazel,

This is just typical office bitching, i get it all the time where i work, which is also a very stressful environment as i work in boring I.T. All i do if people are like that is i just give as good as i get, as i don't take any shite anymore from anyone at work, i used to because i was a soft touch, but i have learned to toughen up and now some of my colleagues respect me for that, just don't take no crap Hazel, if your other boss is saying that your doing ok then take it as a bit of encouragement, you'll have to update us about how things are getting on.

Were your work colleagues ok with you before you went on your break?

[Hazel BlueMoon]

But, the thing is is that I work for a hotel, and a Marriot company. And when my husband get's out of school, it'll be breeze to transfer somewhere. I need to stay with this company and this job because I want to own my own Inn one day. And the economy is so shitty right now, it's really hard to find a job. Unless something get's way out of hand, I will have to stay. Thank you though. Blessed Be.

[Hazel BlueMoon]

...Okay with me before break. This all started, maybe, a week and a half ago. The last time I was at work, it was last saturday, and everyone was just cold (except for my gay boss.) I'm really dreading going to work, and even though I know I'm going to be tired tonight and definetly tomorrow, I can't sleep right now, it's 7:00 am where I am. I'm so stressed. Thanks for commenting!

[mucgwyrt]

Could you complain to someone?
Or ask them what their problem is with you?

[Hazel BlueMoon]

Actually, the last person I saw was that guy who use to flirt with me, and he was relieving me. And I had, had it with that girl all day flipping out. And he made a comment, "Is there anything you'd like to tell me, because I don't want any surprises" (As if I messed up and didn't tell him somthing important last time) and I asked him why he would say that. And what was his real reason. And he said "nothing, I would say it anybody." I asked him if I did anything wrong, and why everyone was being wierd, and he smiled and said I wasn't doing anything wrong. I don't know....I wish this stress would just go away. Blessed Be.

[mucgwyrt]

Ahh. Drink lots of tea then, and mentally tell them to sod off when they get on yuor nerves ;)

[Hazel BlueMoon]

I just felt a little bit of happiness, I thought, "Hey, I don't need to impress these losers, I have a husband at home who REALLY adores me and loves me" and it made me feel like I could take on these people. But, that's if me and my hubby remain on good terms, or if he doesn't start stressing out on something. Then I just completely shut off. I just hope tonight goes well. I'll be working tonight, and I'll hopefully will log on (if it's not too busy) and I'll update you all, and tell you how I'm being treated. Oh.....

[Aelfoak]

It sounds as though your working with a bunch of wierdo's to me Hazel, just have the mentality that your going to work to earn your pay packet, and when you get home you can just forget about work, thats my attitude anyway to my job; go to work, do what i've got to do and then go home, except i don't have a loving partner to go home to, so your lucky there :0)

[mucgwyrt]

It sounds like you're getting stress from all sides :(
Have you considered seeing the doctor, and enquiring about mild anti-depressants? They may help you cope :whatgives

( :hugz: we love you! :D )

[Hazel BlueMoon]

That makes me feel so much better. Oh, you are all so very sweet. Thank you. I feel alot better, knowing my witchy friends are there when I need to vent. Thank you all for reading my long thread and helping me out...well, I gotta go for now (get ready for work) but once I'm there, I'll try to get back on and update you all on what's up with my workplace since I've been gone for 5 days. It's so crazy. I feel like I don't work there anymore, or something. lol. Thank you all and Bless you all!!!!

[Nighthawk]

It is a job... do your best. Realize why you are there.. RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!! see if you can ask why there are problems..and if all else fails, THEN turn them into frogs... THEN teach me the trick. I would pay to know how... he he

[Lady Jade]

When I get that icky feeling from my coworkers, I know it is time to move on. Maybe you could make a half-hearted effort to watch for new job openings and send out a few resumes. At least then if the unexpected would happen, like getting canned, you would already have worked toward another job. I always seem to know when it is time to move along in the job world, much like your situation, coworkers get crabby and there is a sick sense of things being off for no reason. Hope things work out for you

[Hazel BlueMoon]

Things aren't as bad as I thought they'd be! I can't talk too much...very busy. But thank and bless you all so much, for helping me!