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Jaroson
June 28th, 2004, 10:50 AM
Ok, I lied. Sue me.

Who do they think they are? They come into our homes fetching nothing more than asda teatowels and critisising looks then go away and tell your ex exactly what they think.

Of course, they don't tell you, oh no. The petty tittle tattle is reserved for the one person in the entire world you don't want to know about your life details. Of course, the ex then gleefully tells said offspring and the parent's tittle tattling is exposed.

If people want to be nasty about your life, they should at least have the decency to do it to your face. I'd expect this kind of behaviour from my enemies, not my parents who are allegedly supposed to support their children's decisions.

Ah well, I suppose it goes to show that they are human and prone to err just like the rest of us but there's gonna be fire in the old town tonight, I can tell you!!

I'm tired after having only 3 hours kip last night and my aggression and adrenalin are pumping through my nicotine tightened veins. Will life ever smooth out, because over this last year I have had nothing but a white knuckle rollercoaster ride which for some reason still shows no sign of stopping!

Stop the world, I want to get off!!!!!

{Tigress}
June 28th, 2004, 11:25 AM
Not enough info to really give you an answer, but I don't suppose you were honestly looking for one.

Get some rest and if you feel the need to talk some more, PM me. I'll try to help in any way I can. :hugz:

Boogins
June 28th, 2004, 11:30 AM
Oh, dear... did your parents stumble across pagan items?

Jaroson
June 28th, 2004, 11:50 AM
No, my parents are fine with me being wiccan. I have my own house and am attempting (after a story which is too large to go into here) to build a new life at 30!

My parents, are 'supportive and you are our son' which is what I really needed after some of the mess I've caused over the last year it's just that I don't think they are being as loyal as family should be and their gossip is causing me problems. I'm just tired and ranty and I'm hoping things won't seem as bad when I've had some kip. Cheers for the concern though!! :)

Deranged Hermit
June 28th, 2004, 12:05 PM
I let very few people in my house anymore. After hearing both my father and my MIL talk at length about other people, I'm not willing to give them ammo. (This is a strange, unhealthy, and unsociable way to live, and I'm not recommending it....lol)

samiaminsane
June 28th, 2004, 12:09 PM
Kudos to you for starting your life over!
*please don't shoot me for using the word kudos*
I dont really know enough to give advice, but I'd suggest talking to your parents about it, since you said they are supportive. Perhaps this is all some giant misunderstanding. I hope it is. *keeps fingers crossed*

Pesha
June 28th, 2004, 01:28 PM
Ah life can be nasty at times. I hate it when people come into my house and just stare at my stuff. My witch stuff........But sometimes all you can do is take a deep breath and let it go. A rant is bloody good for the soul however. Good on you mate for letting it go and I do so hope you feel better for it. HUGS!!

BB
Ds.

Mab
June 28th, 2004, 02:27 PM
Hugs

Jaroson
June 28th, 2004, 03:09 PM
Cheers everybody. I had a kip on the train on the way home and now it doesn't look AS bad. I basically just ranted like Basil Fawlty. LOL. Which is nothing compared to when I had the fight with British Telecom......!!

{Tigress}
June 28th, 2004, 03:30 PM
Cheers everybody. I had a kip on the train on the way home and now it doesn't look AS bad. I basically just ranted like Basil Fawlty. LOL. Which is nothing compared to when I had the fight with British Telecom......!!

Glad to hear it! :hugz: If you still want or need to talk, I'm here. :)

HorseCrow
June 28th, 2004, 03:41 PM
Sleep has a way of doing that... glad you're better :hugz:

Jaroson
June 28th, 2004, 03:48 PM
and the ant infestation has gone. Still sleeping on an airbed though! See? Rollercoaster!

OriginalWacky
June 28th, 2004, 04:58 PM
Cheers everybody. I had a kip on the train on the way home and now it doesn't look AS bad. I basically just ranted like Basil Fawlty. LOL. Which is nothing compared to when I had the fight with British Telecom......!!
Isn't it funny how things can look much better after just a short while, and some minor change? I know that there are times when I'm very stressed and upset, and a good cry will let me expunge some emotion, and then I deal with things better. Now if I could just make it so I don't start crying at places like work... things would be much better. I hope everything gets way better for you.

Deranged Hermit
June 28th, 2004, 06:06 PM
and the ant infestation has gone. Still sleeping on an airbed though! See? Rollercoaster!

We used to have a bed. And a bedroom. It is a very long story. I know the rollercoaster feeling. :bigblue:

Black RiverWolf
June 28th, 2004, 06:30 PM
hope that things go better for you. or if anything have a nice drink then relax

Kyra Kismet
June 29th, 2004, 03:56 AM
Aww poor baby, PM me if you need to chat! I feel the anger even from where I live.....

mucgwyrt
June 29th, 2004, 04:51 AM
Biiiiiig :hugz: for stressed out Ginger-Plaything :smile:

Jaroson
June 29th, 2004, 06:30 AM
Ok, I've slept and now the hot irate anger which was on the surface yesterday has sedimented into a brown sulky looking sludge. Had another bad night on the airbed (am decorating the bedroom and awaiting delivery of a bed). I haven't spoken to those concerned about yesterday's rant and again find myself an insomniac!

Thanks for your replies and your support!!

mucgwyrt
June 29th, 2004, 06:51 AM
Alcohol - enough of that, and you'll sleep through anything ;)

{Tigress}
June 29th, 2004, 09:36 AM
Just keep hanging in there, everything is vastly exaggerated when you suffering from lack of good sleep. :hugz: