hi! new here and a question abuot dreams..

[dreamerkel]

HiYa! I'm new here.. :) I am very interested in learning more about divination and stuff.:) Anyways I have a question that i hope someone can help me with.*LOL* Anyways ever since I was 5 years old I have been dreaming about this one guy that grew up with me in dreams and we've been talking to one another in dreams... Occassionally we won't communicate in dreams for a while and I'll start to forget him but before i can totally forget something always pops up that makes me remember him.. I don't know who this guy is though I have my suspicions but I also get this very strong feeling that he and I are connected in some way and that I'm suppose to know how to either help him or meet him in this lifetime. But it's been disturbing me very much lately as i've been communicating more often nowadays in dreams than before as well as getting such a stronger sense of feeling that something will happen soon.
I also have interest in past lives and would love to know mine but don't know how to access them.:( I get a strong connection to the Arthurian period but am not sure if it's just in my head:)
IF anyone could help me I'd greatly appreciate it.
Thanks,
DreamerKel

[Lilu]

I would think that this person may be a spirit guide to you. Or it is possible that the two of you are meeting on the "spirit plane" are and incarnated right now, though I haven't heard of that happening too much between strangers before. Is this person helpful when you are chatting? Does he give you messages relevant to your life? Perhaps he is a guide.

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Lilu

[dreamerkel]

Hi Lilu,
Thanks for answering...
Actually I get this feeling that he's not a spirit guide as he hasn't really said anything useful in relation to my life per se.. Basically in dreams what we talk about are what's either bothering us or our everyday lives...We know each other well by dreams and usually whenever I dream of him I always remember what we talk about.What was really weird was that I used to know this friend that really knew this guy in real life and one time I'd told her about the layout of his house or what his likes and dislikes were or what he collected and she
ended up being shocked and told me that she used to have a childhood friend that was excatly the way i told her but that he lived out in California or something like that though I couldn't remember what she said... This is all definately very weird though.*LOL*

Take Care,
DreamerKel

[reanna]

Welcome:):):)

[Silver Venus]

Hiya Dreamerkel,
I'd say the same as Lilu ~ even though you just speak about irrelevant things he is helping you in some way in these dreams by being there & as he is reacurring Id say its deffinately something wierd and wonderful ;).. Just what and why?

Its really interesting about your friend too.. Have you known this friend since youve been dreaming these dreams? Maybe you spoke about him years ago and your subconsious took it in?

Try to ask him why he comes into your dreams? If you can be aware in dreams. This takes practice but can be done easily too form time to time (ive only achieved it by chance several times).. Once you know you dreaming.. and you do because you say it to yourself then.. say to him "Why are you here?" Or whatever you want to ask him.

Maybe try meditation aswell thinking about him and try to meet him in your imagination.

Your past life questions could be something to do with this man too! Have you thought about that before?

:sunny:

[dreamerkel]

HI Silvervenus,:)

Hmmm I have thought about the possibility of him being a part of a past live and that maybe we're meant to meet again either in this live or another live. I've asked around and people mentioned 2 possibilities.. one he could be a spirit guide even though he's alive now or 2 we're supposed to meet.

Hmmm i don't think i've ever talked about this guy as i tended to keep a close lid on my dreams and stuff as most of my family and friends aren't very much into dreams and i felt they probably wouldn't have understand .*LOL* which is true if you knew my parents.*G* anyways thanks for suggestions.. I will try them later in the week.. I have a roommate who does mediations and she has promised to help me mediate so that we can figure out why he's recurring in my dreams.:)

Thanks again,
DreamerKel

[Silver Venus]

I know what you mean about not having many people to talk to around you about 'crazy' things like that :) Dont worry it sounds like youve got a cool room mate there...

Can I ask ~ How do you knwo he is alive? If you have just dreamt about him.. is it just a gut feeling? What are your gut feelings? Go with them!!! :D

[dreamerkel]

Hi Silver Venus,

I know this is going to sound crazy and probably a bit weird but you're right it's a strong gut feeling that I have that he's alive because this is going to sound even crazier but ever since I was little I've always liked this one young actor that I've grew up watching with and every time I see him on t.v. my gut feeling grew and grew saying that this was the guy that was communicating with me in my dreams but I know that's got to be crazy as I normally don't like guys that are soo far out of my reach but there's that pesky gut feeling that always said no there's something there a connection or something... shrugs.. that's why I said this was all soo very weird.*LOL*

take Care,
DreamerKel

[Silver Venus]

..not at all! Well maybe just a little ;) .. like us all!
Sounds like you are getting nearer to finding an answer ~ I really hope you do soon :)
Im sorry I cant help you any more ~ id just say ~ meditate and try to communicate with him through this and with dreams.
Bright blessings,
SV