Major Rant!

[aluokaloo]

:rant: I was stupid enough to believe her dad when he said he would come visit her today. Did he come? No! So much for wanting to be there, so much for buckling down and taking care of his responsibilities! Didn't call, didn't do nothing. I have half a mind to put that little :bastard: on notice! But I really want to do is pour some scalding coffe on his crotch and give him a piece of my mind! :G :needcoffe maybe that'll teach him not to go around having kids and then deciding all of a sudden he doesn't want to take care of them! Hello a******! Kids aren't some kind of mail order where you can get refunds and return them! I have been so angry and dissapointed and sad all day! For myself and for her too! I don't really have any friends half of the time, no way to really take it out on him, because he rarely calls. Maybe her birthday party should be his last chance! Maybe that'll get his pathetic a** moving! I haven't hated like this for at least a month and all of a sudden boom!

[Romani Vixen]

That so sucks.... I'm assuming that you're the mother....

Just remember to calm down... What's the legal status? does he have regularly scheduled visits or what?

[Blondie]

Hope you feel better baby.
:hearthear

[charmedkisses1]

I'm so sorry honey

[earthprincess]

I am sending you patience and a lot of love... This is going to be a long hard road... I have gone thru a similar situation... He did what he wanted when he wanted... I would get so upset and cry and get so angry... my stomach would turn and my chest would get tight.... ever time he didnt show up or had something better to do... I couldnt understand... how this was happening to me and my son... what in the name of all good things did we do to deserve this a**. I beat myself up over it... i actually made myself physically sick over it... I also ran away from it... In the end... I had to accept it and let it go... He is what he is and there is nothing you can do about it... Dont invite him to parties or ask him to take the baby... Dont give him room to hurt you or that child..You both deserve better. In the end he is the one missing out. Live your life everyday to the fullest.. enjoy that gift the gods have given you... Move on... find someone that will treat you and that baby with all the love and respect they can!
You are worth so much love and attention! Dont let him bring you down

[ravynbynorthwynd]

I am sending you patience and a lot of love... This is going to be a long hard road... I have gone thru a similar situation... He did what he wanted when he wanted... I would get so upset and cry and get so angry... my stomach would turn and my chest would get tight.... ever time he didnt show up or had something better to do... I couldnt understand... how this was happening to me and my son... what in the name of all good things did we do to deserve this a**. I beat myself up over it... i actually made myself physically sick over it... I also ran away from it... In the end... I had to accept it and let it go... He is what he is and there is nothing you can do about it... Dont invite him to parties or ask him to take the baby... Dont give him room to hurt you or that child..You both deserve better. In the end he is the one missing out. Live your life everyday to the fullest.. enjoy that gift the gods have given you... Move on... find someone that will treat you and that baby with all the love and respect they can!
You are worth so much love and attention! Dont let him bring you down
right on.

[Nighthawk]

Wow... sorry... what a bad thing to do. The child will remember...

[aluokaloo]

Thanks for all of your thoughts, no he doesn't have scheduled visits, but still I don't want my daughter growing up with nothing empty promises ringing in her ears. I grew up in a similar situation and I don't want to see it happen to her. I have already known that if he can't be man enough to act like daddy, the way he told me and everyone else, then he isn't worthy of my sweetie girl. But still it makes me mad, he wasted my time, I mean even though she won't remember, after I told her he was coming to see her, she toddled around saying da-da all day.