teishabee
August 21st, 2004, 12:18 PM
Ok I see alot of people have been letting off some vent in this section and I need some advice so I think I will for once do the same.
Im quite calom about my situation but,excuse the language it has pissed me off!
Ok little bit of boring history to post but bare with me as I try not to ramble (this may be hard for me:woah: )
Ok so ive known my friend(sash) since we where young and she has been one of my best friends for like years. But since we left school, she has been distant and never answers my txts or comes out much. I ve sent her loads of txt saying hi and how are you, or are you coming out. Nowadays if I see her out then we chat but dont see her otherwise.
So another friend(carlly) of mine asked me to go to a dance festival with her. Im not big into dance but she said it would be fun to have a laugh and stuff. I said I would think about it. Knowing my (formally) close friend liked this festival I told her(sash) I was going. She said it would be fun and she was thinking of going her self.
I decided not to go to the festival becus of it being all night and the fact I dont know much dance music. But my friend(sash) txt me today saying are you going to the dance festival and have you got your ticket. As soon as I read it I thought bitch. She obviously has noone else to go with and now see me as last resort.
Anyways Im bad with keeping intouch as well with friends, but I have made more of an effort then her. All my friends have been at uni and I seem lost connection.
Anyways to get to point.I do love her as a friend, and might feel guilty if I dont go. I mean this would stop her if she hasnt got noone else to go with. Also Im trying to be better with going out with my friends and making an effort.
Should I go becus Im biting my own hand off being spiteful, after all we would have a good time or should I just make my excuses.
Thx for reading!
edited for not being clear about which friend is which.
Im quite calom about my situation but,excuse the language it has pissed me off!
Ok little bit of boring history to post but bare with me as I try not to ramble (this may be hard for me:woah: )
Ok so ive known my friend(sash) since we where young and she has been one of my best friends for like years. But since we left school, she has been distant and never answers my txts or comes out much. I ve sent her loads of txt saying hi and how are you, or are you coming out. Nowadays if I see her out then we chat but dont see her otherwise.
So another friend(carlly) of mine asked me to go to a dance festival with her. Im not big into dance but she said it would be fun to have a laugh and stuff. I said I would think about it. Knowing my (formally) close friend liked this festival I told her(sash) I was going. She said it would be fun and she was thinking of going her self.
I decided not to go to the festival becus of it being all night and the fact I dont know much dance music. But my friend(sash) txt me today saying are you going to the dance festival and have you got your ticket. As soon as I read it I thought bitch. She obviously has noone else to go with and now see me as last resort.
Anyways Im bad with keeping intouch as well with friends, but I have made more of an effort then her. All my friends have been at uni and I seem lost connection.
Anyways to get to point.I do love her as a friend, and might feel guilty if I dont go. I mean this would stop her if she hasnt got noone else to go with. Also Im trying to be better with going out with my friends and making an effort.
Should I go becus Im biting my own hand off being spiteful, after all we would have a good time or should I just make my excuses.
Thx for reading!
edited for not being clear about which friend is which.