My daughter feels a presence with her

[Venus]

Ok I'm not sure what to make of this so I'm posting this here, my daughter 14 has been feeling a presence with her for a while now, she says it doesn't scare her & she feels comforted by it.
She doesn't feel it when I'm around so I think that it's not comfortable with me.
I* think* I have an idea who it is but I'm not sure can anyone give me some insight into this?
I believe in gardian angels, could this be her angel?
Thanks!

[Myst]

Could be a guardian angel. Could be an ancestor protecting her. Could be a ghost who protects her. One of my best friends' eldest daughter has a protector who doesn't like her (doesn't like the mother I mean).

[Venus]

I forgot to add that her father & I have been estranged for years ( he never had anything to do with her) We never spoke after he found out about her.
I found out by accident that he died in Sept '99 of a sudden heart attack. She knows nothing about it, he wasn't part of her life so I see no need to upset her by telling her.





I wonder if it could also be an ex boyfriend that she loved dearly who was tragically killed in a car accident in '96?
Any ideas guys?

[bloodstone20]

maybe you should light a candle for it? It comforts her after all, and if need be, you can always ask it to leave if you are still uncomfortable. The veil is thinning, tomarrow is specail. try it then.
O yeah, when you light the candle, thank it for watching over her, and ask it to contact or make itself known to you. Meditate on it.

[Myst]

Who knows. Most importantly she feels comfortable with him/her/it....

[bloodstone20]

i agree whole-heartedly

[Dria El]

Originally posted by Venus
Ok I'm not sure what to make of this so I'm posting this here, my daughter 14 has been feeling a presence with her for a while now, she says it doesn't scare her & she feels comforted by it.
She doesn't feel it when I'm around so I think that it's not comfortable with me.
I* think* I have an idea who it is but I'm not sure can anyone give me some insight into this?
I believe in gardian angels, could this be her angel?
Thanks!

If she doesn't feel threatened in any way by it, I wouldn't worry too much. I might ask her about it every once in awhile like I would a human friend of my childrens but keep it light. If you're truly worried, don't let her catch on cus she might start to worry too. No need planting things (ideas) where they don't need to be planted.

I hope this helps...

[bluecat]

All of the folks here have made some good points and given some good advice. Too many folks are afraid of what they do not understand and allow that fear to consume them and others around them.

Perhaps if you and your daughter learned a bit more about this kind of thing it would help. Also, like the others said, it sounds like a benevolent spirit and you may be correct in your thinking about the identity of the spirit. Like the ohers said, thank the spirit and show it that you are not afraid, it just may be afraid of how you will react if it is "around" while you are present.

Blue

[slvr_phoenix]

If your daughter's life is improved by this presence being there, then it sounds like a good thing to me.

If her life is complicated or led astray by it though, then I'd worry.

The fact that she doesn't feel it's a bad thing is a good sign. However, not all evil comes in a nasty package. Sometimes evil is a sweet voice that leads us down dark paths we would never have journeyed alone.

So while her not being afraid of it is a very good sign, I'd also make sure that her life is benefiting as a result of this presence, or at least not affected by it. If her life is being affected by it in a bad way, even if it comforts her, then it might not be a good thing to keep in her life.

Oh, and I'd like to add a piece of my own personal opinion: If she doesn't know that her natural father is dead, then I'd tell her. I've seen plenty of kids who don't know all of their family to look for them when they grow up because they realise that it's a hole in their life and / or their identity. If you tell her then, she may be angry that you kept it from her or she may not even believe you. To avoid a possible future pain, I'd at least tell her the truth now or soon. (Basically, when you think she's ready for it.) That's my advice. Take it or ignore it as you see fit. :)

[Venus]

Thanks for the advise. I've been really torn as to if I should tell her or not. I had not seen or heard from him in over 12 years & had no idea that he died & wasn't sure if I should tell her, but since she told me about the presence I've been really thinking about telling her about her dad. So when the subject comes up about the presence that would be the perfect time.
Thanks for the advise guys!

[bloodstone20]

love and light your way.

[slvr_phoenix]

Love and light.

And luck. :)

Here's hope that all goes well.