relationship with friends

[Sweet_Crazy_Angel]

I have this problem with a friend and he told me that he was in the army and that he wanted to be with me and he wanted me to go to his house and pick him up and he would spend time with me last weekend, but i got a call stating that he was shipping out to Iraq and instead he was going to another girls house who is married and has 3 kids and is still with her husband. What should I do about this situation. :wah2: :confused: :confused: Should I confront him and her? Or what should I do?

[GaiaDea]

Run very very fast.
You don't need a "friend" that lies to you, period.

[Rockprincess]

I don't understand why you wanted to spend time with this other man when you have "I miss my fiance" written in huge letters in your signature? And if it wasn't a romantic get-together, why are you worried about him spending time with another woman who is married?

[samiaminsane]

^ Yea, what she said. Besides, you dont even know what's going on. If he suddenly learned he would be deployed to Iraq, he probably forgot about your plans together (as im sure there was alot on his mind). I wouldn't worry about it.

[Pesha]

Think about this hun. Now walk away from this other guy.

BB
DS.

[OriginalWacky]

I'm going to go with what the others have told you. Of course, you may want to keep in mind (IF this was a friend thing, and not romantic) that he could easily have blown you off from stress of being called to duty, but even that isn't a very good excuse, if he is really a friend.

For example, I had plans but my Grandpa died, but I at least called the ones I had plans with and let them know why I couldn't make it. It's common courtesy IMO.

[Sadb]

To me (just my opinion )it seems like he just wants to be friends with benfits . Most of the time all that does is add more problems and it doesnt seem like that is the type of relationship you want with this "friend" . But of corse I dont know the whole situation so my advice is limited .

[Hope]

how about send him positive thoughts to be safe and achievel clear thought and balance :)

love
hope

[Aleannah]

run away....he's playing you.