Climaxing in Dreams?

[BluDreamer]

I've often felt like my soul was making love, not actually dreaming of making love with someone else, but like maybe I was having an out of body, soul-love making expierence- and as I awaken I would be climaxing and I'd have an actual, physical orgasm.

Is that "wet dreaming" or could my spirit be making love with other spirits? I've had these experiences for 5 years now. (???) Has anyone have any similar dreams/experiences?

I'd feel really weird if I was the only one. But I think not, there has to be someone out there who knows what I'm talking about! :gagged:

[Ahautenites]

I've never experienced what you wrote. I've orgasmed in dreams, but not the way you described. Mine have been where I'm dreaming of the sexual act and orgasm in the dream, but when I wake up, my body doesn't show any of the usual signs that I've just been sexually active.

I was under the impression that wet dreams were when a person's physical body reacted to a dream love-making session, not an OBE orgasm. Maybe someone else will have more information for you.

[Avalon]

I've gotten these before. I just always assumed they were the female equivalent of a noctural emission. :whatgives I don't really have much info, sorry. Just know they're common. :)

[Druchii]

If these other spirits of mine look like Christina Ricci and her twin sister, then yeah.
Otherwise, I was just blaming it on me being a man. :D

[Terestai]

Oddly enough, never... :eek: I never dream about it either.

[teishabee]

Do you feel drained after these experiences?

[Phoenix Blue]

I guess I'd have to ask, why ask how or why? **Grins** As long as you don't get stuck to your sheets like guys do, just enjoy it. :p

[teishabee]

Hey Im all for the finding out why, maybe I can have some "experiences" of my own.

[Ahautenites]

**looks at her bro with acute amusement** Guys get stuck to the sheets? That never occurred to me.

[Avalon]

I guess I'd have to ask, why ask how or why? **Grins** As long as you don't get stuck to your sheets like guys do, just enjoy it. :p
Ewww. :lol:

[Terestai]

Wow... this thread is full of too much information! :thumbsup:

[BluDreamer]

When I'm having an out of body expierence, It used to be very scary at first, but it's gotten much easier... My body used to feel like that sleepy- foot feeling, and I was becoming unattached. Now it's sort of like dreaming, but when I wake up I feel that sleepy feeling just for a moment and it goes right away, and my whole body is limp, so I have to shake my arms and legs to get the feeling back. I do feel drained.

I don't get an orgasm after each time, but out of most of the experiences, yes. Sometimes I'll be so happy and I'm not sure why. Like I've seen an old friend or maybe- I don't really know. Sometimes I'll remember. Like one time I asked who this spirit was, he was, like, there with me... and he said "You know me." I know it was a he because it was a man's voice. But that stumped me.

Maybe in the spirit world. :smooch:

[Druchii]

Wow... this thread is full of too much information! :thumbsup:

!? You don't sleep commando? 4 sheets to the wind nakey!? In the B-Day suit!?!
For me there is nothing like the feeling of nothing between me and my Calvins so why not sleep with your bits free? :)

[Xentor]

OK

Keep it clean.

[Druchii]

OK

Keep it clean.


Sorry! :D Terestai made me do it! :lol:
Will do Xen. :)

[Ben Gruagach]

What you've described is definitely a "wet dream" or "nocturnal emission." Some people have it happen regularly, some have it happen once in a while, some people never do.

And it happens for both guys and girls. It's perfectly natural.

[Ahautenites]

Sounds like a wonderful experience, BluDreamer. It kind of reminds me of one time I had a dream where I was married to the man in my dream, and I felt so wonderful that night. Loved, cared for, empassioned, truly blessed. It felt so real that when I woke up, I genuinely expected to see him there beside me. It's the only time I've ever felt so.... bereft. I cried that morning from the sense of loss. I have every intention of finding that man again some day.

I do wonder if disembodied souls really do feel a sense of pure bliss such that they feel literally orgasmic when they return to their bodies.

[BluDreamer]

I do wonder if disembodied souls really do feel a sense of pure bliss such that they feel literally orgasmic when they return to their bodies.

Maybe it is a sense of pure bliss! :rotfl:

[Nuiket]

Wow... this thread is full of too much information! :thumbsup:

I have to agree way to much info is in this thread non of it's dirty but it is stuff that I did not need to know!

[Ahautenites]

True, but you should have both known what you were in for the moment you read the first post. ;)

[Raihn]

This entire happening is completely normal. What I believe to be going on is that as you are dreaming of these erotic things, you awaken upon what would be the climax.

Now, everyone has at least one sexual dream a night...the thing is that most of us just don't remember them by morning. And why you do remember these dreams is because you wake up during them.

I don't think that this is an actual out of body experience, but instead your own, unique fantasy...and I must say, making love with spirits is quite an erotic picture to paint indeed.

What's amusing to me is that many-a-year ago, your dream would be described by the public as an Incubus, or a sexual demon visiter who's soul purpose is to attain energy by way of love-making with sleeping women. At least you won't have to spend twelve hours praying for your eternal soul as ordered by the general population. :)

[Terestai]

Sorry! :D Terestai made me do it! :lol:
Will do Xen. :)

They call me "The Great Corrupter" in eight different languages, you know? :D

[BluDreamer]

Within Sleep...

Whispered secrets are revealed
of deep hidden desires
giving new memories
of fantasies fulfilled.

Traveling to a distant land
swallowed in a field of fruits
forbidden.

Yet I return each night
feeding this addiction
of sensational being

as a rose so beautiful
bearing bleeding thorns
needing another one's touch.


SZ aka BluDreamer

[DraconisArcanus]

This entire happening is completely normal. What I believe to be going on is that as you are dreaming of these erotic things, you awaken upon what would be the climax.

Now, everyone has at least one sexual dream a night...the thing is that most of us just don't remember them by morning. And why you do remember these dreams is because you wake up during them.

I don't think that this is an actual out of body experience, but instead your own, unique fantasy...and I must say, making love with spirits is quite an erotic picture to paint indeed.

What's amusing to me is that many-a-year ago, your dream would be described by the public as an Incubus, or a sexual demon visiter who's soul purpose is to attain energy by way of love-making with sleeping women. At least you won't have to spend twelve hours praying for your eternal soul as ordered by the general population. :)
Wow...didn't know about the Incubus stuff...thanks for sharing!

Peace

[halfwaynowhere]

I was gonna say the incubus thing.... oh well. Anyways, I haven't had that type of dream yet, but I have had dreams where I was really in love with somebody, and we would kiss, and I could actually feel it, and then when I woke up, I had this pleasant feeling... Those dreams are nice.

[HeavensHope]

Thank god I'm not the only one having these kinda dreams. More often then not..they feel a little TOO real...when I say FEEL...i mean actual "feeling" *cough* stuff...hehe dont wanna go into detail...so keeping it PG13. I've been really really tired lately actually for a while now, even when I get enough sleep..I feel so worn out...but occasionally when I have these dreams..I feel really well rested, full of energy.

When I was younger for a period of about 7years a had this daily reoccuring dream about a guy, it was an older version of me...because when i first had this dream i was about 6 or 7years old. In the dream I was in my 20's and every time I dream of him...I feel so happy, so complete, so loved, felt great...but I dont remember him ever speaking, except in the last dream I remember having of him. I told myself (in my mind) that i'm dream, and he's not real. The only words I've ever heard him spoken in those 7years were spoken in that dream, he said "This is real". I too cried and felt a sense of lost, that's actually what brought me to this site; I was hoping to find answers.

[~*Ginger*~]

I've had these things happen and not be asleep...

[BluDreamer]

I don't know why or how, still- I'm also here to look for answers. I know they must be somewhere - anteint books or whatever... I even asked the spirits for help, I was feeling so helpless and clueless, alone. I asked for someone to be sent to me and guide me through this so that I can learn and discover what things are and what they mean. I need to do some practicing and learn how to focus more.

Then I had a dream, my friend (someone came to me in the form of my friend at work) but it wasn't really her- she looked at me and said "So you're the game player!" And I looked at her surprised and said "You are the game player!" We hugged so embracingly and I really felt conforted. Then she looked around in the dream (I knew it was a dream) and she said "This IS a game!" And we laughed... Like any of it made any sense, right?? Lol. Well, then I looked around and it was a sort of turning "amusement park"- then I woke up... Thinking my friend Nicole was my guide... Well, it didn't make sense to me.

But then at work, I felt bored and alone, I decided to try to email someone I met only a couple of times, just for conversation. Working on 3rd, y'know... I couldn't remember the name so- I thought it was "Jeremy" Bring it up- I found 3 Jeremy's who worked in the company> I picked one...

He wasn't who I thought he was... Yet, turns out we have alot more in common than I expected. It's only been a couple of days and we are so alike- with what we are going through relationship wise, we like the same music etc... weird- and he's a neo pegan! Weird, right? He's done research and stuff into it... Stuff I don't know yet. So he's willing to help. And get this- He's "The Game Player!" He plays paintball, poker, any kind of games- he plays alot of them. Hence, where "Game Player" came from.
_travolta_

[savannahrose44]

You are not alone....

[RogueSpirit]

I hadn't considered that I may have been OBE, which I have been known to do when I'm sleeping... but I've had orgasms in my sleep. I think for women it's so unusual because this is something we think of as a guy thing. But I figured I was just really in touch with my masculine side in my waking life, why not in my dreams, too. I'll have to pay more attention the next time it happens to see if that's what it is. I will say that I don't recall actually having sexual dreams when I've been awakened by orgasm.

[Hellenic_Witch]

1. This happens to me all the time. Just enjoy it!

2. Here is something so funny! While I was reading your question, The Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue Johannson is on TV. A caller just called in asking if it was possible for women to orgasm during dreams! How's that for fortuitous? The answer was an emphatic YES! It may not be widely discussed, but women can get aroused and actually climax during their dreams! So, if I were you, I would consider myself lucky and hope for another one!

[Hellenic_Witch]

If these other spirits of mine look like Christina Ricci and her twin sister, then yeah.
Otherwise, I was just blaming it on me being a man. :D
Really? Christina Ricci?

[xxxenophobe]

Hello.. just thought id post and say hello... i am the one she met at work... the more we talk.. and hang out.. the more i feel like there was a reason or some thing guiding our encouter as well... i must say.. i am verry happy with whatever the guiding force that made her chose my mail.... but i had a great time with you last night blu... hope to here from you again soon....

[misschief]

i have them... but i have umm... a piercing, and i can't stand my knees to touch when i sleep.. so i shove the blanket between my legs.

so you see... i don't have to wonder why i have mine. lmao.

[atropa]

Sounds like a nice dream to me! I have heard of pregnant women having physical climaxes during dreaming.

[SilentDreams]

I have yet to experience a "wet" dream. Thats probably due to the fact that I "relieve" myself in other ways *blushes*. Um anyways... I did read on a few sites some time ago that people can experience something called "astral-sex" apparently to astral entities have sex on the astral plane. The effect has a instant effect on the physical body resulting in orgasm. But since you describe acctually "making love" in your dreams then it sounds more like a "wet" dream.

[skatha_mare]

You're not alone. Mine actually have physical manifestations too.

[BluDreamer]

I have yet to experience a "wet" dream. Thats probably due to the fact that I "relieve" myself in other ways *blushes*. Um anyways... I did read on a few sites some time ago that people can experience something called "astral-sex" apparently to astral entities have sex on the astral plane. The effect has a instant effect on the physical body resulting in orgasm. But since you describe acctually "making love" in your dreams then it sounds more like a "wet" dream.

I don't actually "recall" making love in my dreams. I refer to it as "making love" because I result in having an orgasm, so I thought that's what it was... but wouldn't "having sex on the astral plane" feel in a way like making love... just not like the physical feeling, but more in the emotional feeling of "making love"? The way I feel, it is more spiritual and emotional... but it results in a physical reaction of orgasm. I don't dream of anything physical at all. Does anyone feel that or know what I mean???