silly question

[~Macha~]

I am so embarressed to ask this question- but does anyone have a "love potion" recipie? The husband and I have been going through a lot of romantic withdrawl since the baby was born... even before that...
anyway-
does anyone have anything for helping "boost" love between two people who already love one another? Also, is this concidered unethical? Could it be concidered I am going against his will? Cause, he is non-pagan and really has no belief and wouldn't take something like this on his own, so I am gonna kinda have to sneak it to him...
anyway-
any and all help is appreciated!

[mucgwyrt]

Do you mean for love, or lust? :smile:

[CalisticSunrise]

hmmm maybe instead of a love potion you need a rekindle the romance spell or something of the sorts.

[~Macha~]

CalisticSunrise- you're right, a romance spell would be better- do you have one or know of a good one?

macha- a good bit of both, we haven't had any "lust" in a good long while (if you know what I mean)

[DandelionDame]

LittleWitchMama, there is an herb called Damiana that is great as a tea, or can be steeped in wine and then strained (I haven't done the wine thing, but I'm told it's lovely). Damiana gives you some fire and one of its biggest traits is aphrodisiac-tastic!

[~Macha~]

LittleWitchMama, there is an herb called Damiana that is great as a tea, or can be steeped in wine and then strained (I haven't done the wine thing, but I'm told it's lovely). Damiana gives you some fire and one of its biggest traits is aphrodisiac-tastic!

Where would I find that? I live in a little town w/ no herbal apothocaries and no credit card

[HolographicJoe]

Well, you could try the local nursery. I'm going to my herbal store today and I'll look around for you. If I find some I'll send it to you.

Cheers!
Joe

[misschief]

i have a whole bunch of spawns... the best cure really is a couple days WITHOUT kids. lol. the first day you sort of lay around and not want bothered.. but the second day probably gets something started._travolta_

[DandelionDame]

Oh, I gotcha. Are there any organic food something-or-others in your area? We only have 1 in my area, and it's not extensive by any means, but they have Damiana in the bulk herbs part, so I'd think anywhere that carries bulk herbs for teas would probably have it. I hope you get to try it and hope it helps!

Oh, and here's a link telling a little more about it:
http://botanical.com/botanical/mgmh/d/damian05.html



Where would I find that? I live in a little town w/ no herbal apothocaries and no credit card

[Amadore]

Where would I find that? I live in a little town w/ no herbal apothocaries and no credit card

Hmmm.. I suppose you can get somebody else with a credit card to order the herb online for you, and then have you pay them back? It's a lot of trouble, but hey, if it's necessary, then it's necessary.

(err.. did I even spell necessary right?)

[violet rain]

Well have you tried good old sedusing? _pino_ :uhhuhuh: :fpartyfav :abanana:

[CalisticSunrise]

yeah sorry i have no spell, but myself need one too... but it's not him that needs it, its me. With my vuvlodynia i have no interest in being "lustful" and he has a lot. lol...

[~Macha~]

Well have you tried good old sedusing? _pino_ :uhhuhuh: :fpartyfav :abanana:

i walk around naked and he still stares at the playstation or goes off to be with the baby. I am beginning to feel undesirable...

[spooky]

oh no!!! but you are! you're very desirable! maybe he's tired with the new baby.

[~Macha~]

he's tired????? who stays home with her all day and gets up in the middle of the night to feed her... me!!!! *sniffle* it's not fair... i am tired all the time and i still get lustful for him...

[fireswimmer]

My husband used to be addicted to video games. He would ignore me naked and everything else. We also had huge fights over the issue. One day he told me that he had been on the game "for just a little bit" and had missed the fact that it had been about 6 hours.

I got romance back in my life by declaring that he needed to ration the game time or lose me. It was horrible and hard but I needed more of him and things were sliding in life because he would do nothing but plays those darn games.