Getting someone to do something by concentrating?

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Okay, this is stupid, but I wanted to know if you could make someone message you if you focus and concentrate.

There's this guy (lets call him Steve) and he liked me for so long, but I didn't like him, and he still likes me now, but he's sick of trying to get my attention. (Because I usually ignore) Well, little does he know, that I actually like him now, but I don't want to tell him myself. I want to be *prompted* a bit. Anyone who talks to me on this site, must be rolling their eyes right now, because every week there's a new guy who's on my mind! lol, but anyways~*

We talk sometimes during school, but because of our different class schedules, it's almost impossible. And we have each other's msn, so we usually talk on there, but like I explained above, he's basically stopped trying to get my attention.

Bottom line: is there anything I can do, which can make him think of me, or just make him wanna talk to me? Hopefully, without props, because I'm a total dumbo when it comes to those!

I know all of this could be avoided, if I had just talked to him on my own, but if anyone knows me, they know how stubborn i am. I'm not a shy person at all, but i'd rather him start pursuing ME again instead of the other way around.

[Rockprincess]

Do you actually like him now, or are you just annoyed that he's stopped paying attention to you?

It would be really unfair to indicate some interest in him, and then start ignoring him again.:awwman:

Examine your intentions. If you really do like him, and you just realize you were being snobby before, get over your pride and make the first move.

[Aleannah]

seems to me that the poor guy has been trying to contact you and you have, by your own words, "ignored" him...so, instead of trying to use magic to get him to muster up the courage to talk to you again, I think it's your turn to make the first move. :whatgives

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Well the main reason I ignored him, was because a lot of my friends didn't think we'd be good for each other...mainly because they have had bad experiences with him (he has a reputation of being conceited & rude) Now, I know you're probably thinking why would I want to pursue a relationship with such a guy, but I'll explain:

He added me to msn a few months back...(he's liked me for months before) and he started talking to me...we hung out a few times, because I'm friends with a lot of the guys on the bball team (and he's on it) and they're always inviting me to their events, or out of school stuff.

But anyways, he kind of grew on me, I realized that he's not as bad as people say...he has kind of a "shield" built around himself, because of the way he was raised, and experiences that made him that way.

At first I thought I liked him because he wasn't showing me attention, but I realized that even though I liked a bunch of other guys (and they liked me too) I STILL thought about Steve all the time....I really like him.

I know I should swallow my pride and talk to him, but I really don't want to be the first one. If he does message me, I'll admit it to him then, but i really don't want to be the first person.

[Aleannah]

well, if you're prepared to not hear from him and are okay with that, then you need to ask yourself why you want to hear from him. However, if you are not okay with that, then be the bigger person, and show that you honestly want to talk to him.

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I know....but i'm just kind of scared that he isn't interested in me anymore...like he's fed up of me....

You guys are all right, but I'm just too stubborn to ask! lol....

I don't know....I guess I'll try talking to him today..

Thx everyone :)

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Okay, I took everyone's advice and talked to him....

I'm pretty sure he isn't interested anymore, but oh well...what can you do, right?

But I agree w/ everyone...it was definitely better to swallow my pride and talk to him, if I hadn't, I guess I would never know what would happen.

Thank you.