Hugs

[cyber_fairie_king]

I'm feeling like shite. For no apparent reason. I just want to be depressed without reason. I feel alone in this world at the moment and I do not know what to do about it. I don't have a partner and most of my mates seem more like people in a croud really. I should be happy because I got a job and I'm earing a few £££ but I sit here at the computer almost in tears for a reason of which I don't know. I'm currently thinking of my grandma who's dead now....the loss of my daughter as she has moved away....thinking about how I've been used by my so-called mates.....this is all too much...I think of what should become of me in 1 years time and I see myself being the same way I am now. I just need a hug, thats all. I'm in need of a physical hug....a shoulder. Truth is....I have no-one to turn to.
:sadman:

[Mad Dame]

If I were in the UK i'd give ya a hug, but i'm on the other side of the world *pouts* :hugz:

[Erites]

:hugz: from one Brit to another. Take care.

[Fairyelf]

Im am far away from you,
but I will still give you a big hug!!
_pounce_

[cyber_fairie_king]

I'm giving a little bit of a smile now :wave:

[~*Ginger*~]

:hugz:

[Raven_Darkstorm]

*big burly totally normal man hugs* :cheers:

*grunts alot and wanders off to watch... like.. football or something*

p.s. Take care of yourself. If ya need ta rant , chat, scream, yell , mumble , or otherwise at someone.. shoot me a pm.

[Earthy]

I'm in the UK but still far away,so here's a cyber hug instead :hugz:

[Aleannah]

:hugz:

[Zoritsa_Nepenthe]

:hugz:

[Dove]

((((((((((((You)))))))))))) ... I wish it were a real hug.
But know that in spirit .. it's real, and it's warm, and it's sincerely caring.

I know you said that you "Just Need A Hug" .....
But .... please forgive me here ...
I've got these things inside my head just screaming,
And if I don't say them ... I'll Go Mad!!
(well more mad then I already am)

You know ….
When your heart gets broken,
It suddenly seems that you can see the cracks in everything.

But You Can, and You Will
(if you just let yourself, and help the process along)
Get through what ever is going on in your life right now.

Don’t let anything (or anyone) chain you to the place where you now find yourself.
Don’t allow ANY negatives to hold you down, or hold you back!!

Be careful of the words that you speak.
Try to keep them, and your very thoughts, more positive.

When you’re feeling really down …
The thoughts you allow to run through your head,
The words that you speak …
Can and DO enhance your emotional outlook.

For instance …
If you say … “Life really sucks, and I have No One to help me get through all this” ….

You breath life into, and strengthen, the negative things you‘re feeling.
Instead try saying something like …

“Life is presenting me with some valuable lessons and challenges right now,
But I have the strength to learn, and over come, and grow from all of this”

If you’re seriously feeling as though your mates aren’t “there” for you …
It could be one of two things.

#1 - Maybe it’s you that’s closing yourself off from your friends,
By not letting them know what’s up in your life,
And that you need some emotional support right now.

Or …
#2 - You honestly do have some worthless mates, in which case …
It’s time to get out and meet some new folks!!
Be happy about it, because it’s Another Wonderful Opportunity!!

Get some new things going in your life.
Develop some new interests, find new hobbies, join clubs or groups,
Put yourself into situations where you can find, and make new friends!!

*sending lots of positive energy your way*
Brightest Blessings :hugz:

*edited to include*
... okies ... thanks for your patience ...
the screaming has given way to a need for a cuppa ...
hmmmmm ... do you suppose I'm getting too much caffeine?*