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HorseCrow
October 7th, 2004, 12:34 PM
What is the gender of your main/primary spirit guide?
And I mean spirit guide as in a human-like spirit, not an animal.
Earthy
October 7th, 2004, 12:36 PM
Female. She has never told me,i just feel it.
DixieWitch
October 7th, 2004, 12:36 PM
I'm really not sure. I get the feeling like its a male, but I'm really not sure!
Amadore
October 7th, 2004, 12:38 PM
I don't have a spirit guide... are they literally just spirits that guide you and help you out? How do you find/get one? I'm confused... :eyez:
luna rising
October 7th, 2004, 12:46 PM
She has never shown herself in actual form to me, but I know she is female.
WynnJera
October 7th, 2004, 12:55 PM
Male ... as it is a peacock .. not a peahen ...
Cadabuz
October 7th, 2004, 01:01 PM
I have a few and they are mixed some female some male and some I am not sure about.
CloakofStars9
October 7th, 2004, 01:05 PM
I chose other because I have a male native american warrior and and old native american woman watching over me:D
mara
October 7th, 2004, 02:35 PM
I don't have a spirit guide... are they literally just spirits that guide you and help you out? How do you find/get one? I'm confused... :eyez:
I am wondering the same thing.
Angelus_Errare
October 7th, 2004, 02:37 PM
Male. Its a baby chaos dragon from what I can tell ^_^ quite the character! I found him perched on the top of my head. While I was at the computer. ^_^ it was quite cool. His name is Rudy.
Angelus_Errare
October 7th, 2004, 02:38 PM
Rudy is the name that he said I could give to others :lol: quite socialable little fellow ;)
OKmagnolia
October 7th, 2004, 02:58 PM
I met mine the first time I did a Shamanic Journey. I knew that she was female before that but I found it really cool when I actually got to meet her. Her name is Anna. And she gave me alot of interesting information on that day. Now I look forward to talking to her each and every time i get to.
HorseCrow
October 7th, 2004, 03:12 PM
When I ask about spirit guide I mean human (or human like) spirits- not animals (totems, power animals etc).
RogueSpirit
October 7th, 2004, 03:20 PM
The only spirit guide I have presents herself as a dragon because at the time I wouldn't have trusted her as a human. I think she comes to me in the form I am most likely to accept and trust her in.
Fane Ayuma
October 7th, 2004, 03:58 PM
I saw him, he appeared to me.Pretty freaky until i understood who it was.
Teresa
October 7th, 2004, 05:19 PM
My main guide is an Older Male Native American .He was a medicine man when he last walked the earth.He has taught me many great things and restored my faith in people over the years.
Mau
October 7th, 2004, 06:58 PM
Male...also a soul mate. Know him from past lives, he must have just advanced faster than me :(
Memory's Flame
October 7th, 2004, 07:06 PM
Since I'm still new at this; I am not sure if she's a spirit guide (as I'm not really sure what that is)
But there is a woman, a young looking old soul; who appears in my dreams (both awake and asleep) and leads me to comfort... I've never actually seen her face; but I can feel her...
Kyra Kismet
October 8th, 2004, 03:48 AM
I think mines a guy.....dunno why...its just a feeling!
mama reflecting
October 8th, 2004, 04:33 AM
Err... I don't think I have a spirit guide.
LadyTrinity
October 8th, 2004, 05:16 AM
Anna debrough is female like my self
unicornlightining
October 8th, 2004, 05:42 AM
I chose other because my only spirt guild has always come to me in the form of a unicorn.
Njorun Alma
October 8th, 2004, 05:44 AM
I know I have more then one, but the one I've always felt near me, ever since I was a little girl, is male.
And he is quite protective and a loving person, although he likes practical jokes a lot. :razz: ;)
cyber_fairie_king
October 8th, 2004, 09:57 AM
Mine is female but she's a mute but I understand her completely
-Sky-
October 8th, 2004, 10:30 AM
The wolf is a male.I think that he balances me being a male since I project a lot my feminine side.
Then my other totem animal is butterflies but they don't have a gender.
~Anna
Lady Avalon
October 18th, 2004, 06:01 AM
Some of mine are males and some are females.
I don't know the sex of my animal guides and totems.
Shanti
October 18th, 2004, 12:26 PM
I have several...some male and some female and some that dont show a sex!
WolfWonderess
October 18th, 2004, 02:16 PM
And I mean spirit guide as in a human-like spirit, not an animal.
Um...NONE of my spirit guides are human, though. None that I have met, at least.
My primary spirit guide, a wolf, is female.
jinx1_2
October 19th, 2004, 01:02 PM
Mine is male. He showed himself to me a couple of times when I was a teenager, but I didn't know who he was and I just thought he was a figment of my own imagination. Many years later after I had left Christianity and started learning about Paganism I did a guided meditation to find my spirit guide and there he was!
jimm5454
October 19th, 2004, 03:00 PM
well I know I've several and recently was informed of a group of aliens?? ewho were going to work with me?? OK Now Yoda I ain't standin on my freakin Head!!!! LOL I am slowly growning in wonder at the vastness of joy in this Universe. Love Jim M
Wayfarer
October 19th, 2004, 03:35 PM
Im not sure if i have a spirit guide, however i have met more than one spirit or something on a number of occasions.
When i tried to contact a guide the first time (this was ages ago, probably well over a year) it was an old woman.
I remember walking down a lane or path and there were vegetation (trees or bushes) around me, i was following the direction of the moon, which was very bright. As i got deeper into the woods i came near a river and there was a bridge over it. As i got nearer i saw her. What was memorable about it was that she was calling me over, when i got to her she gave me a small golden box. I remember opening it and inside i saw the face of a clock. I cant remember the time but it was really vivid. She told me i had to go an i remember going back to the path. I still wonder what that meant.
On another occasion, this time with the aid of a CD of shamnic drumming, i remember as i was entering a hole at the bottom of a tree, i kept falling until i got very deep. I entered a white bright room, and as i went i came to an opening which led out to a very dark place. I was outside somewhere, it was a reddish blue sky and it seems rocky. There was a figure there, i assume it was male. He told me his name, and i saw him a couple of times, but i cant remember his name. Its so frustrating. I was told something, but being so early on in my awakening i never paid attention to it. Also why i cant remember his name.
Another spirit was mostly in my dreams. This time it is female. And she is so familiar.
However she comes in many scenarios and at different ages. What made me know it was the same girl as the other occasions was when in a vivid dream she came to my door. For some reason i was arguing with a neighbour, and i violently attacked him with a knife, i was so calm through this attack. It was so strange, because im sure there was a meaning to this dream. All throughout this she just stood there not part of the dream or the event, jsut watching. Any way i remember just accepting her there as if i knew her so well. Which is why im sure she has been around me alot.
However in that dream she was only about 13 years old. Other times she is about the same age as me. other times older. But im sure it is the same person.
So im not sure which if any is my spirit guide, whether they are all the same spirit with many guises. Or are totally unrelated or just a figment of my imagination. However my problem is i didnt stick at it. This has given me a good reason to try more often. Starting with tonight ;)
SacredWithin
October 19th, 2004, 06:04 PM
Female. She has never told me,i just feel it.
I was about to say that I don't know. But I feel my Spirit Guide is male. (Or at least one of them, who knows how many we have!)
halfwaynowhere
October 19th, 2004, 06:44 PM
i don't know if i have a human-like spirit guide, and i don't know the gender of my animal spirit (a hawk, by the way). I see my hawk guide on a regular basis, usually when i'm really stressed out about something.
Amethyst Rose
October 20th, 2004, 08:17 PM
Other. If I have a spirit guide, I don't know about it. It's not that I simply don't know the gender, I just don't know if I have a spirit guide, period.
PantherBaebe
October 21st, 2004, 02:23 PM
My spirit guide is male, he was a native american shaman in life. I met him at a house I used to live in when i was very little. Apparently (and this is the truth!) they built the houses over an old native burial ground! :S He wasn't mad about it though, I think he felt that it was the way things go... something is put somewhere and something else in time gets put over it. He's a very great guy:)
zakzekezedd
October 22nd, 2004, 10:52 AM
In all truth, I think my spirit guide appears as whatever gender it feels suits the moment. Sometimes it's a distinctly feminine presence, and other times decidedly masculine....most often it is really quite androgynous.
Lady Jade
December 12th, 2004, 05:16 PM
Originally, he called himself Dave, but that name has changed to one I can accept now...at the time I met him, I was not ready for the truth of his identity.
blindfaith^_^
December 13th, 2004, 07:16 PM
I have a lot of spirit guides, and Gods know I need them. My primary (and by primary I mean the one I've had since I was a child) appears to me in a female angel form. I also have a female tiger and a female woman of sorts along with a male wolf and a male guide. Each one focuses on aspecific task and lesson with me, and each means something different and special to me, their gender while interesting is basically irrelivant, except for in the cases of my primary angel guide and my male companion. My primary angel guide's gender has significance to me because she is strength and fairness. She shows me that women can and are strong. One of the greatest strengths is in one's ablity to have commassion and sympathy for everyone and everything, and not just friends and family but for enemies and those generally disliked too. My male guide is the one to teach me and remind me of unconditional love. He reminds me of what it means to love and care infinately and unconditionally. His gender is crucial to me because he came and reminded me of this lesson at a time when I was very nervous around men. He is a daily reminder to me of what exactly it means to be unconditional and he is the first to comfort me when I am in distress.
Tsuchimaru
December 13th, 2004, 07:22 PM
I don't have a spirit guide... are they literally just spirits that guide you and help you out? How do you find/get one? I'm confused... :eyez:
Ditto. :eyez:
Suzy-Anne
December 13th, 2004, 08:54 PM
Mine's the opposite gender. Male. I'm pretty sure its my grandfather, it just has the same sort of quality that he had when he was alive. I sure do hope it is him though, I loved him so much. Even though he'd pretend ot shoot me when I stole hiscashews. o_O;
XxAuroraxX
December 14th, 2004, 06:49 AM
Female. She has never told me,i just feel it.
yes, same here.
Fane Ayuma
December 14th, 2004, 08:46 AM
My main guide is an Older Male Native American .He was a medicine man when he last walked the earth.He has taught me many great things and restored my faith in people over the years.
exact same
Felidae
December 14th, 2004, 09:07 AM
Originally, he called himself Dave, but that name has changed to one I can accept now...at the time I met him, I was not ready for the truth of his identity.
Mine is male, and my original experience with him was strikingly similar to what Lady Jade said above.
Marishae
December 14th, 2004, 11:34 PM
I replied as opposite gender... but I guess it might be other... I believe that I have a spirit guide, who has a male presence... male voice, and when I visualize him, he's male... but, there's also a female voice that I get... but... I think that may actually be Goddess, and not a spirit guide... at least that is the impression I get...
~Marishae~
pathfinder
December 15th, 2004, 06:29 PM
I have two spirit guides, one is female and has revealed to me her name and that she is an elf/faery. The other is male, and human. His name I do not know. I gave my daughter, Sabra, my female guides name as her Spirit Name, or Secret name, whatever you want to call it. I believe that this guide has helped me in many, many times of need and dispair, and that she somehow brought me out of the hardest time ever and to my husband, which quickly resulted in our daughter.
Morrighan61
December 18th, 2004, 04:43 AM
I have several in various forms.
The main guy is named "Micheal" but the others come and go.
The human type ones from what I can tell are mostly "boys" as in male, and I believe mostly gay males at that...Don't ask me why but I get the distinct impression that I have a chorus of angelic drag queens looking after me...
They can hear them sometimes in my mind making these absolutely crazy comments. They all think I'm far too conservative and not nearly working hard enough on the "love" thing, but they all agree that I have excellent taste in men when I do happen to think about sex, dating, et all...
It's a little disconcerting because sometimes I think they are prettier and funnier and more "girly" than "I" am, but I can't quibble much because if nothing else they make me laugh, and I know they love me...
:)
Morrighan
Fang of Loki
December 19th, 2004, 02:43 PM
I don't know....
6th Angel
December 19th, 2004, 03:28 PM
Female, for some reason she looks a lot like this pic. I havenīt seen her perfectly, but when I found this on the web, I knew there was a similarity in her appearance.
donatello51
December 19th, 2004, 10:27 PM
I have not met them but I feel they are a she. A female to balance my being male in this life. One needs balance in ones lives and not only in terms of gender since in this life I'm bisexual. I feel the need to truely see from a different view point gender does enter into it. Also perhaps species and spiritual outlook as well. I feel more connected with a opposite to balance me. And as to only one opposite well its a misnomer to think there are only to poles. Two directions. Two ends to a path. I believe I travel many paths at once and each going in many directions at once. But always keeping balance in all things.
Rosana
December 22nd, 2004, 05:47 AM
Male. OMG, he's gorgeous! :loveduv: And very very sweet :) He hugs me (esp. when I'm feeling down, so I'm instantly cheered up by his playfulness!) and my friends and I always feel his presence whenever I need his help and love. My boyfriend can sense Grey (I call my spirit guide Grey, because I don't know his true name yet) and since he doesn't have his own spirit (at least he thinks so) he's jelaous ;)
P.S. Sorry for my grammar. Damn, I'm a student of the english philology at the University, but still, I hate writing lessons. I don't care much about grammar as long as I can speak fluently ;)
fangedeshana
July 11th, 2005, 09:54 PM
My Doorkeeper is a young asian woman, Chinese. I believe her name is Mai ling.
She is very much a green-lover. She is almost always wearing a dress made of green material. Suitable since her name means something along the lines of, "The Sound of Jade".
Auroro
July 13th, 2005, 07:35 PM
My guide is a fae by a name that she wishes me not to reveal. Something about opposing guides. Idk. She said something like that. Well, she has a golden glow and wears green clothing with green eyes and hair. In my past life meditation, I caught a glimpse of her in the "movie" of my past life in which I was a Fae. I asked her what she was doing in there and she told me that was for me to answer, not her. So, it's pretty interesting.
Blessed be,
Vedel
:elf:
Shadowsong
July 17th, 2005, 07:31 PM
Mine's a guy. *nods* Quite an interesting question, I might add.
Kiss of Flames
July 18th, 2005, 03:00 PM
Mine is male, he's just always been there and I've always known him to be male. He let me know that from the first.
AutumnRain
July 18th, 2005, 04:00 PM
Mine is also male. He's never told me, but I can just feel it.:)
BB
Autumn
enchancea
July 19th, 2005, 02:44 AM
Male
thecount692003
July 25th, 2005, 02:39 PM
Mine is male, I've never seen him but my psychic friend told me what he looks like, he's tall, about 50, long grey beard, wearing a white robe.
Sierra
July 25th, 2005, 09:04 PM
I voted other because I don't have a human spirit guide. Why are you only interested in human-form spirit guides? Just curious :).
Also, are you talking about gender or physical sex? The two are quite seperate (one a social construct and one a physiological one).
But, my non-human spirit guide, Bison is quite androgynous in all aspects. Sometimes I get the female vibe, sometimes I get the male. It encompasses both sexes.
StarCraftLia
July 26th, 2005, 06:13 AM
I don't think I've met a sticking spirit guide yet.. I use to know a dragon, she was a chick. Then I met a spirit friend, but not a guardian, it didn't have -any- gender. Then just a few days ago I dreamt about this sexy guy, who came in my dream again last night! I hope he sticks around.
wolfos3d
July 26th, 2005, 07:30 AM
Where do you meet a spirit guide??
thecount692003
July 27th, 2005, 08:53 AM
You can meet them by doing a path working from any of the books on the subject.
wolfos3d
July 27th, 2005, 08:55 AM
Ok, thank you.
Sierra
July 27th, 2005, 10:23 PM
There are lots of ways one can meet a spirit guide. You can do so purposefully (following a guided meditation, doing your own meditation, a ritual inviting your spirit, etc.), or it can be completely out of the blue. For example, with me it was completely out of nowhere. I was doing just a simple meditation to bring me down from the day, and there it came, out of nowhere, and it's been with me ever since and very strongly.
LadySnake
July 27th, 2005, 10:30 PM
My spirit guide is Male. He's from the Roman times; was a soldier. He has a long name that starts with the letter R. I could't hear the whole thing, so, I just call him Ray.
SilverWings....Spirit of the Butterfly
Agaliha
July 28th, 2005, 04:44 AM
Um, I don't know exactly if I have a spirit guide (Sylvia Browne says every does, is that true?). But I have a thing with the name Gabriel. It came to me in a dream oh about 3 years ago--Gabriel was a man (my age) and he just sat at a piano with me and talked...it was very calming. I thought he was an angel, so I got into the angel Gabriel after...I still love the name and I would even name my child Gabriel. So if that was my spirit guide (any thoughts?) than he would be a male.
Shadowsong
July 28th, 2005, 11:59 PM
Hmm... When I hear Gabriel I think angel, but I'm probably wrong.
Mine has been with me since I can remember... when I was younger I really thought I'd just made him up you know, like an imaginary friend... but when I read about spirit-guides I thought, "Whoa..." And lo and behold, there he was!
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