serious emergency

[halfwaynowhere]

my friend was "going out" with a guy, and my parents made some dumb joke about them having kids or something, she told him, and he said that that couldn't happen because they didn't have a relationship. so she met a guy online in an 18+ chat room (she won't be 18 until february), and now she thinks they are engaged and getting married on halloween. i don't think he's serious, but she is, she keeps telling me how he really appreciates her. I think she's just upset because she thought her previous boyfriend was her soul mate. please, send some energy to help knock some sense into her, and maybe some for me to prevent me from knocking her unconscience for an eternity.

[Ice Rose]

i dont know how much help i personally can be, but you have my energy. i pray to the Goddess that she does come to her senses before she gets seriously hurt...

[Ahautenites]

She's jailbait. Tell her parents and let them throw the dweeb in jail.

[halfwaynowhere]

i know that she can't legally marry the guy yet, but we don't know for sure if he's who he says he is, and whats to stop her from running away to be with him? When she first emailed me i thought she was kidding me, because she knows that i want to get married on halloween, but then i talked to her on the phone, and she's a terrible actor, but she was dead serious. I need to talk some sense into her, but i didn't want to do that over the phone. i think tomorrow i shall have to visit her and try to discuss this with her.

[twister]

I'll keep her in my thoughts. I hope she doesn't do anything that she may regret.

[Teresa]

sending energy !

[Aleannah]

sending energy...

[Phoenix Blue]

:wtf: She's old enough to make her own mistakes. Instead of trying to force your viewpoint on her (and your energy), how about just being there and supporting her when (or if) the relationship breaks apart?

I'm going to send energy to see this situation resolved in the best and most peaceful manner possible.

[magick_faerie]

i hope she sees sense, it would be sad if she got hurt again, she is lucky to have a freind to look out for her, but she needs to realize that she needs to see the world how it really is. I hope it doesnt hurt her too much when she realizes.

fae

[OriginalWacky]

Candle lit here.

[AuntBooPeaceFrog]

I will send *Rose Quartz* loving energy to her, maybe it will help some... _witchball I have found from my own personal experience that when you look that hard for love, you almost always end up accepting whatever comes your way in a desperate attempt to belong to someone or something, just so you'll feel anchored. Sometimes the only way to get over feeling this way is trial and error, and she might just have to keep getting hurt until she figures out that she is special enough to love herself, and then everything will probably fall into place. I agree with your concern over the internet guy, because it is too easy for someone to be a fake online, and/or stalker or predator...she probably won't listen if you try to tell her, though, because she wants to believe this is all true. Maybe just keep a close eye on the situation so that you can help if it looks like she is in real danger; if you try to tell her what to do she might get mad, and if she stops talking to you then she's really going to be worse off, because you won't be able to help her. Don't take it personal if she does get mad, because deep down she probably is unsure about the relationship herself, and doesn't want to admit it. She is lucky to have a friend like you who cares. :smile:

[~Elise~]

:wtf: She's old enough to make her own mistakes. Instead of trying to force your viewpoint on her (and your energy), how about just being there and supporting her when (or if) the relationship breaks apart?

I'm going to send energy to see this situation resolved in the best and most peaceful manner possible.

I agree with Phoenix_Blue on this one. Sending the best resolution energy myself.

Elise