Have you ever had...

[BluDreamer]

...a guy really, really like you... and you did have mutual feelings at 1st, but then after time the feelings... not really fade- but changed into a more "friendly" feeling?

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Blu

[Raven Reed]

Yep, I've had it happen... I have even had the feelings turn to "Ick, what on earth was I thinking?" feelings.

[Vimilanda]

yup. I think it's just part of dating. I've had it happen both fairly quickly in a new relationship and after long term relationships.

[Infinite Muse]

no.
downer moment coming up ......
here it is .. never had a guy like me

[BluDreamer]

It seems to happen all of the time... It's like I'm on a roller coaster of love... I fall in and I fall out... I gain interest quite easily then I lose it.

I've gooten to the point, where I can't even look at a guy, or talk to a guy who may like me... cuz then I'll get swooped up into a romantic cloud- and then soon enough my heart will grow cold and i'll end up hurting who ever. Why?

[Dr. Doom]

There ar at least two types of Love.

Infatuation and Agape.

Agape is the love of committment. You agree to go steady or engage or marry, and the love is a committment to make things work, and limit contacts with others. Boundaries are developed and agreed to.

Infatuation or the feeling of love is transitory, and comes and goes, rises and falls, and is ruled by the feelings of the moment.

It sounds like you are focusing on the feeling of love, infatuation. Certainly we should pay attention to decreases in the feeling of love. If I have a decrease in love in my marriage, I take the responsiblity to find words to express my desire for improvements.

Right now I am asking for W to give me more consideration in the arrangement of the house we occupy, and a bigger feeling of trust for consideration into the future.

Is there a guy you can tell him what you want changed? Have you thought of loving phrases for asking for the things you want from a guy? Have you written down any apparent reasons for your disappointments?

Have you looked at http://www.marriagebuilders.com ? What were the boundaries broken in your marriage? Have you looked at Boundaries by Clound and Townsend? What is a path to get your marriagfe back together? What are some possible steps? Have you looked at 180 dgree Divorce Bustters?

I was just searching Love in Just Talk, and your Avatar caught my eye.

Blessings