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Tzhebee
October 20th, 2004, 01:37 PM
This was sent to me by a friend...I've modified it from "mom" to "parent" so that I wouldn't leave any of you dad's out. :)

Before I was a Parent - I slept as late as I wanted and never worried about how late I got into bed. I brushed my hair and my teeth everyday.

Before I was a Parent - I cleaned my house each day. I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby. I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous. I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Parent - I had never been puked on. Pooped on. Spit on. Chewed on. Peed on. I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts. I slept all night.

Before I was a Parent - I never held down a screaming child so that doctors could do tests or give shots. I never looked into teary eyes and cried. I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin. I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Parent - I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put it down. I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt. I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much. I never knew that I could love someone so much. I never knew I would love being a Parent.

Before I was a Parent - I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body. I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby. I didn't know that bond between a parent and their child. I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.

Before I was a Parent - I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay. I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Parent. I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Parent.

And before I was a Grandparent, I didn't know that all those "Parental" feelings more than doubled when you see that little bundle being held by 'your' baby...


And remember that behind every successful parent..........is a basket of dirty laundry. :p

Shanti
October 20th, 2004, 05:00 PM
_cloud9_

and how did you know my laudry is waiting? I told you to stop peeking through the pc!!! Back, get back...back in the pc with you!!

~turns monitor around so TZ cant see the laundry pile!~

Fairyelf
October 21st, 2004, 09:36 AM
thats cute

Thistle
October 21st, 2004, 03:26 PM
Cute. And so true! Especially the part about your heart walking around outside your body. Well, . . . the laundry, too. :D