Mate

[Duchess]

How do two people cope when one follows the light and the other follows the dark. That is what im in now. He has all the makings and props for the left hand path. me I follow all that is light. We now have 2 rooms that we use so that we dont cvarry over from each other. I would like to find a midle path for the two of us. Any sugestions.Duchess

[Tigerwallah]

Dutchess,
You both need to follow your own paths. I would suggest that this might not be something you want to do together. You are like Yin and Yang - the light and dark halves of the whole. It is tempting to want to share everything, but spirituality isn't something to compromise. Follow your instincts, and do not let love lead you off course. If it is real, you will find that this is not something you need to share...there will be so many other things.

Remain open minded about eachother's beliefs, as long as to do so doesn't jeopardize your own security and your sense of self. If it harms none, do what you will.

Best of Luck. Blessed be!!!

[Aurora]

I must agree with Tigerwallah.

My mate doesn't share the same beliefs as I but we have co-existed for over 10 yrs. He occassionally will question what I am doing and I'll explain it the best that I can and he just nods and leaves me to finish what I am doing.

Just because one believes something else than the other doesn't mean that you can't be together. Just remember to stay true to your beliefs and share the rest of yourself with your mate.