I dont know

[LadyTrinity]

I am speaking about me personally :megaphone
I feel like I NEED to have a man in my life.. Why?
I dont get it? Is it low self - esteeme...
I know Im probably not the only one who feels like its wonderful
to have someone to get up with and go to bed with too but
I long for that and no one in my family understands why?
I dont even understand why? What's so wrong with being 22 and
completely single? :ugh:

[Wolf O Volos]

I don't know what to tell you Trin. As someone going through divorce right now, I can understand the need you feel, but cannot understand why family doesn't get it. And is anyting wrong with you? Not from where I stand.

[LadyTrinity]

It's normal to feel needy? Im not even sure needy is the word.. Im not obsessed. It just would be nice.
I didnt know u were going throu a divorce. I am sorry to hear that.
I have so many mixed emotions. Im kinda depressed that my son wont have a full blood brother or sister.. maybe that doesnt matter.. but its a crappy state of mind I have to get over :hrmm:

[Fane Ayuma]

thought you had a date coming up or something??


And i think you feel that way because,As far as i can remember you said youv just come out of a long-term relationship??, your just not used to bieng single.

And the thing about, half-beother/sister? dont matter, i have three brothers.Not half brothers, Just brothers.None of them have both my parents, but there still my brothers.

[Wolf O Volos]

Of course it is normal. Everybody needs to feel loved and wanted... and it is always helpful to have someone in your life to help with the responsibilities of raising a child. I wouldn't assume that you were *obsessed* with the idea of having somebody, but I know first hand right now, that lonliness is a very powerful and horrible place to be. You and I, we'll just have to chat and keep one another company a bit til it rolls over, eh?

[Tsuchimaru]

I neeed someone too....and I'm a loner! *sigh* I just feel empty....

[LadyTrinity]

Yes I was asked out but that guy hasnt called me.
I think its a guy thing. Either way doesnt hurt me none.
I live for my son.
Any lonely people and non lonely msn me hehe :hahugh: I could sure use a friend :hugz:
witch_Trinity@hotmail.com

[Fane Ayuma]

:hugz: dont have msn, but ill hug you anyway...

[Wolf O Volos]

Any lonely people and non lonely msn me hehe :hahugh: I could sure use a friend :hugz:
witch_Trinity@hotmail.com


Message and ((((Energy)))) sent. :hugz:

[Dove]

I am speaking about me personally :megaphone
I feel like I NEED to have a man in my life.. Why?
I dont get it? Is it low self - esteeme...
I know Im probably not the only one who feels like its wonderful
to have someone to get up with and go to bed with too but
I long for that and no one in my family understands why?
I dont even understand why? What's so wrong with being 22 and
completely single? :ugh:

Awwwwwww Trinity …
(((((((((((You))))))))))

First of all …
There’s Absolutely Nothing in the world wrong with being 22 and single!!
In fact …
Here’s me thinking that at 22 …
Single should be a Very Good thing to be!!

You say that you feel as though You NEED to have a man in your life.
And you wonder why.
You’ll seriously have to look with in,
To find “your personal answers” to that question.

Truthfully …
The first thing that comes to mind is …
If you can’t find happiness with in … You’ll NEVER find it With Out”

* sending “caring” positive energy your way *

[Patriciaj]

I am speaking about me personally :megaphone
I feel like I NEED to have a man in my life.. Why?
I dont get it? Is it low self - esteeme...
I know Im probably not the only one who feels like its wonderful
to have someone to get up with and go to bed with too but
I long for that and no one in my family understands why?
I dont even understand why? What's so wrong with being 22 and
completely single? :ugh:

:hugz: to you dear lady. I relate to what you are saying. I have been in 2 long term relationships that have covered a span of the last 20 years, and have now been "single" for the last 6 months or so. It is wonderful to have someone beside you sharing time with, sharing laughter and tears, sharing conversation and silence. And I do miss that greatly. But for me, it just hasn't been the right person yet. And maybe there won't be a "right" person in this lifetime for me. I am beginning to come to terms with that and accepting the fact that if I am going to be without a partner it isn't going to be the end of the world, so to speak. I am going to learn how to enjoy doing things without someone or maybe with just a friend. I am learning to enjoy myself. I am learning that I don't need to have a partner to enjoy life, that I can enjoy it just fine all by myself.

There is nothing that can take the place of the body next to you, but for me it cannot be the focus or necessity of my existence. If it should happen again for me I will embrace it with everything that I have and live moment to moment. _inlove_

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single, no matter what your age is. That is an individual choice, and one that is truly no one elses business. People comment to me, also, about being single, I just tell them that I am perfectly happy with my hand held, pulsating action, shower head massager for the time being, and if the time should arise when I no longer am happy with it, I guess I will have to buy a newer version. :awilly: :abanana:

I just want you to know that their are many people that feel like you do and everything will be all right. If you ever want to talk, you can pm me also. More :hugz: for you. :hahugh:

[soilsigh aingeal]

:hugz: I know how you're feeling, It took me a few months to get used to not having someone there. I don't have any "half" siblings myself, but I know a lot of people who do and they are their regular ol' brothers and sisters. They don't use that term. :hugz: You'll feel better, you just need to give yourself time to heal.

[morrigen]

:hugz: Being single is still new to you...it'll get easier with time...

And then, when you least expect it *Boom!* Mr Right will sudddenly appear :)

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[Xentor]

:hugz: Being single is still new to you...it'll get easier with time...

And then, when you least expect it *Boom!* Mr Right will sudddenly appear :)
I'm 31 and have been single for about a decade. My s.o.'s have been few and far between. I had already given into the idea that I would never be together with someone on a permanent basis. Just this year I found someone new.

If you've been in a relationship for that long, you will not be used to spending time alone. It's OK to feel that need. However, it's up to you to decide what you do with it: give in and have another relationship, or ignore it and stay single for a while?

There's lots of good arguments to do both, as far as I've seen.

[Ceres]

i have been there trinity! i split from my first husband when i was 20 and we had been trying to have children before we split. i had wanted a family so bad! not just kids, but the lifestyle. i wanted to have a home and a husband and children and all that goes with it - but i had no need for any PARTICULAR man at that time. looking back, i would have tried something different. i wanted to move far away, maybe overseas and try out living life elsewheredoing other things, but i allowed family influence to change my mind. in the end, i kept looking for a man, found one and settled downto the family plan. i dont regret it, but i think one always wonders what could have been.
think of it as an opportunity to change direction.

[Ben Trismegistus]

Trinity, you just got out of a REALLY psychologically manipulative relationship (judging from your posts as you were leaving him). It's only natural that you should be a little messed up in the head for a little while. Just fight the urge to start dating immediately, and find some hobbies. You'll feel better soon enough.

[FlyingBear]

I agree with Ben on this one. Give yourself some time to rediscover you. The last thing you need is to be caught up in a rebound relationship.

There's no hurry, no rush. Get friendly again with the face in the mirror!


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