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maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 06:27 AM
I was just wondering what everyones views were on teen sex, place all ur opinions here, good or bad.
ty

M5 :woot:

Kyra Kismet
November 29th, 2004, 06:34 AM
Are we talking under 16...or over?

maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 06:47 AM
either, i just wanted to know anyones input, mainly btween ages of 15 and 19 tho

Kyra Kismet
November 29th, 2004, 06:49 AM
I think that it is the individulas choice, I personally lost my virginity a few months ago and it was my choice! (im 17 by the way)

maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 06:50 AM
i am 19 and lost mine when i was 18, my fiance lost hers when she was 15

Kyra Kismet
November 29th, 2004, 06:54 AM
Its a persons choice!

Eroda
November 29th, 2004, 06:55 AM
Im generally of the opinion that its a bad idea under the age of 16, i just dont think alot of people are at a mature enough age (even if they feel like that at the time) before then to really make a decision which isn't just based on lust. Guess it depends on how u view it, i tend to see sex as something that should happen between 2 people that care alot about each other rather than just physical pleasure. Obviously it doesn't always work like that but i think its best if thats the case.

Not something i have a strong opinion on really anyway, situation will be different from person to person and when it comes down to it, its their choice :)

mucgwyrt
November 29th, 2004, 06:56 AM
I lost mine at 14 and 6 years later I can honestly say I was ready - BUT not everyone is. It's personal choice.

PS, no, I dont see anything wrong with it.

maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 06:59 AM
well, i guess it depends on the maturity of the person, i didnt think i was ready but when those words were sed by my SO "i think im ready" i knew then tht i was ready

pawnman
November 29th, 2004, 07:04 AM
Well, I can't say that it's entirely bad, and for some people it works. HOWEVER, most teens are completely unprepared for the emotional changes that accompany sex, and even fewer are prepared to deal with the consequences.

maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 07:06 AM
i aggree, alot of teens aren't prepared to deal with either!
luckly we were, has anyone had trouble with having sex to early

FroggieThePunk
November 29th, 2004, 07:08 AM
Wear a condom. And make sure that it is consentual and that neither you nor she/he is currently under the influence of any kind of mind affect substance.

maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 07:11 AM
ty froggie, thts a valid point!!!! cheers

Sasha318
November 29th, 2004, 08:32 AM
Well, I can't say that it's entirely bad, and for some people it works. HOWEVER, most teens are completely unprepared for the emotional changes that accompany sex, and even fewer are prepared to deal with the consequences.

I have to agree (it makes me feel so old, too). :ugh:

I started having sex at 15. I was ready, but I sure picked a loser to do it with. Just make sure that you are protected and that you don't forfeit any of your identity to this other person.

Scarlet
November 29th, 2004, 08:56 AM
I am 16 and I lost mine a couple months ago when I was 15 going on 16. I think it is a personal choice as long as you are mature enough to deal with the consequences if anything happens.

Fane Ayuma
November 29th, 2004, 09:06 AM
I think that it is the individulas choice, I personally lost my virginity a few months ago and it was my choice! (im 17 by the way)


lost mine when i was just 17 too.


I think sex is great at any age(Within reason abviously) but it really depends on the persons.
like, i know a guy who is 13, and i would know that he is ready to have sex if he chose too, bu then again my cousin is 15, and i know that he isnt, and wont be for another few years.

Scarlet
November 29th, 2004, 09:09 AM
Yeah. Everyone is different and becomes ready at different ages. When I was 14 I had a chance to have sex for the first time and looking back now I am so glad that I waited a year. Within that one year I matured so much and when I actually did do it I was able to deal with it.

Tsuchimaru
November 29th, 2004, 12:15 PM
It depends on the individuals involved....

Tullip Troll
November 29th, 2004, 12:18 PM
You do it when your ready and to please yourself...most importantly to please yourself...I am tired about hearing from so many women and girls that they did it to keep or impress their guy.

Mhera

IndigoMoon
November 29th, 2004, 12:24 PM
I was 16. Because of the circumstances and the way that things worked out later in my life, I am comfortable with that decision. But I was lucky. I also think that I wasn't ready to deal with any consequences that I could have come up. So yeah I think the longer that you wait (within reason of course) the better.

Faeawyn
November 29th, 2004, 12:29 PM
Im generally of the opinion that its a bad idea under the age of 16, i just dont think alot of people are at a mature enough age (even if they feel like that at the time) before then to really make a decision which isn't just based on lust. Guess it depends on how u view it, i tend to see sex as something that should happen between 2 people that care alot about each other rather than just physical pleasure. Obviously it doesn't always work like that but i think its best if thats the case.

Not something i have a strong opinion on really anyway, situation will be different from person to person and when it comes down to it, its their choice :)
I agree with Eroda.

BabblingImp
November 29th, 2004, 01:49 PM
I think overall sex is taken too lightly by most people, it is something that should happen between two people who love one another, even in the end it doesn't work out. And as far as teens go I think it depends on the teen and who the parents were, if the paretns wern't good and the teen had sex then there is trubble, that teen is most likly looking for something that isn't there. My mom told me when I was 16 that it was my chocie but she advised against it. I also think that it is a maturity level too, and if a teen has sex they had best know that they could get illnesses and maybe a baby too, and that is a tough thing to think about in the heat of the moment!

arctic splash
November 29th, 2004, 01:57 PM
I don't think I can write about my opinions on teen sex until we address the issue of how our entire society's view of sex and sexual relationships is warped... or at least, that's how I see it... I think, if we as a society had a more healthy conception of sex and sexual relationship, teen sex wouldn't be a big deal. I don't think it would happen as often, but even when it did happen, it wouldn't be so big a deal.

This is my uninformed and not very well thought out opinion!

Rævyn Cigány
November 29th, 2004, 02:35 PM
I think overall sex is taken too lightly by most people, it is something that should happen between two people who love one another, even in the end it doesn't work out.

I agree completely, Imp. I lost my virginity to my high school boyfriend (come to think of it, my only REAL boyfriend) and I have since married him and had three children by him. Sex, I believe, is meant as a union between two consenting adults to express love...if not for one another, at least for one's self, in the presence of the Gods. But that is my opinion only, of course ;)

B*B

Rae )O(

Ramarious
November 29th, 2004, 02:41 PM
Only the individual knows if they are ready or not. But every thing has it's pros and cons.

HolographicJoe
November 29th, 2004, 02:46 PM
Yes, please.

HDS
November 29th, 2004, 03:12 PM
depends from person to person AS SHOULD THE LEGAL DRIVING AGE :sadman: :sadman:

Moonlight's Daughter
November 29th, 2004, 03:17 PM
I believe that between 16 and up is fine if your ready, however most people under the age of that limit are not ready nor are there partners.. believe me, its better when you are older, your partner is most likley to know what there doing later in life..LOL

wakywitch
November 29th, 2004, 03:23 PM
I was a teen mom with my first child. I was 19.
My daughter who is now 20, told me she waited until last year.
If teens are going to do it, Make sure they have access to supportive parents, access to birth control.
Make sure they are aware, most importantly.
That is my 2cents on the subject. :D

Psyche Ague
November 29th, 2004, 03:45 PM
As long as it's consensual, I don't really have a problem with sex.

When I was a teenager (a whole year ago! lol) I definitely was having lots of sex. It was consensual, safe, and really really fun. As long as you're mature enough to handle the consequences (both mental and physical), I would generally give the advice to go for it.

I was 16 when I lost my virginity, but I knew people who lost it earlier and are still going strong and are doing great. I know virgins who are 21 and who aren't ashamed of waiting. :)

Condoms and birth control are essential at all ages.

Moon Daughter
November 29th, 2004, 04:48 PM
used to neutral to it.
until my little sister turned 16.
she now disappears and hangs out with much older guys whom none of us know.
and she carries condoms with her... i'm worried, since she's hanging out with diff. people all the time and gets home drunk..2 days later.

Earthy
November 29th, 2004, 04:54 PM
Something close to my heart,especially as my daughter is only 14 and hangs out with older guys.
i don't think she has actually done anything but the fear is still there.
Personally,i think she's too young but then there's peer pressure and she's easily led.
I was 17 which is legal age in the UK.
I have spoken to her about it,and if she's gonna do it,it doesn't matter what i say..she'll do it..i just pray she speaks to me first so she can get advice about contraceptives.

Threase
November 29th, 2004, 05:10 PM
I'm 18, I have sex, I'm always safe, and I love it. There, that's my view :D

lol honestly, as long as the teen's over 16 and is safe, I think it's all good... (unless they're whoring around...)

WingedTigerChild
November 29th, 2004, 05:52 PM
Honestly, as long as you're prepared to deal with the consequences, have all the sex you want. Just use a condom.

SilverNightShade
November 29th, 2004, 06:14 PM
personally i'm 18 and am still a vigin. I'm not ready to handle the responsibilities that come alone with that pleasure. I don't know when i'll be ready, but i won't be having sex until i am ready and when i'm with somone i know and love.

Aedrais
November 29th, 2004, 06:31 PM
You know... when I was young, I wanted to wait until I was married until I lost my virginity. Not because of any religious backing, just because I wanted to wait until I knew I was really, really in love with the person. ;) I'm 16, not done anything yet, and I'm perfectly happy waiting for a loooong time. I've changed my views slightly-- I wouldn't mind if I had sex before marriage-- but I'd want to be with a person for awhile, first.

And personally, I just don't think that sex under 16 is the best idea. I mean, it does vary from person to person... but... one of my closest friends is really messed up because of some things she's done with a guy that she deeply regrets. She thought she was ready, and she's a wreck inside now, though she's pulling through. So from a personaly viewpoint, I think sex under 16 is a bad idea. Older than that, I think a majority of people are ready.

halfwaynowhere
November 29th, 2004, 06:49 PM
well, i'm 16, still a virgin. I'm not opposed to teen sex completely, but i do think people need to be a lot more careful. several people i went to junior high with already have kids. luckily most of them have parental support and have stayed in school. anyways, i believe that sex should be shared between two people who are commited to each other. age is less important, but still a big factor. i think 17 would be a good age.

Sothis*Crowfeather
November 29th, 2004, 06:56 PM
I am 19 and I've never had any desire to do it. In my opioin I don't think that most teens are ready for all the consequiences that may be involved with it, but that again depends on the indivudual. Most of the time they end up regreting it, but then again whenever I make that decsion, I'll probley regret it as well. Everyone seems to....dating is a harsh thing nowadays.:(

Jackiedanielz
November 29th, 2004, 07:27 PM
Well, I was 16 when I first started having sex. Now that I'm 27 I look back and realize that there's no way I could have dealt with the consequences. I should have waited until I was older & with someone who actually cared about me. I can't say I haven't ever regretted it, because I used to, I'm just glad I made it through without any consequences.

I think it all depends on the maturity level of the person & how they view sex. Age has nothing to do with it.

maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 07:34 PM
All very valid points.
I have no problem with teens who want to wait until they are 30 to have sex and i also have no problem with teens who choose to have it when they are teens.
But i also cannot share my thought of my son or daughetr having sex at 14 because i i have said i am only 19....My SO and i were carefull when we first had sex...she had an implanon or whatever it is in her arm and i was using condoms....though, we didnt really use them because they were too small...im not trying to brag or anything but they were too small, so we relied heavily on the hpe that the implanon would work. Anywho, a week later she tells me tht she has been throwing up in the mornings....i got sooo scared, i mean the thought of me becoming a father at my age is weird...and wrong i mean i am so immature at the mo...i can be mature but i like being a kid, ANYWHO we got a pre test for her and it ended up being sort of inconclusive so we got another one tyhe next week(when we could afford it, very tight budget) and it said she wasn't...we were both so happy but also a little upset, beacause the thought of a little me running around kinda grew on me, but it was for the best....................................hmmmm, there was a point somewhere in here, if you find it please let me know...lol

M5

lilromantyc
November 29th, 2004, 09:21 PM
I see no problem with it if the people involved are truly mature and completely ready to handle any and all consequences that could accompany it. I'm personally not going to be jumping into bed with someone anytime soon, even my boyfriend, because I've seen too many friends do it and regret it soon after. One was 13 when she lost her virginity, one was 16, and the other was 17--and she's the only one who doesn't have a problem with it.
I had a friend ask me today at lunch why, if I've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months, I'm still a virgin (He's not from around here, and he sees Americans as very loose and open about having sex--"very horny" as he put it). I blushed, but told him it's not about lack of desire, it's about lack of readiness. While many of our friends have taken that step, me and my boyfriend just aren't ready to yet. And that's fine with both of us.

maroon_5
November 29th, 2004, 11:35 PM
As i have said before....(at least i think i have sed it)...DO NOT GET BULLIED OR PUSHED into having sex!!!
Thats a big big BIG no no!
Trust me you and ur SO will both know when the time is right....how old are you by the way lilromantyc?

lilromantyc
November 29th, 2004, 11:36 PM
I'm 16...almost 17.

Know Your Rights
November 29th, 2004, 11:55 PM
I am 19, and have never had sex, and can, honestly say, I would not be ready for it at a younger age than I am, nor am I ready for it at this point in time. I've never been in a comitted relationship, or any relationship, in my life, and I believe that to be a necessity and prerequisite to having intimate relations, a comitted relationship with someone that you really care about, be you a teenager, or an adult, it doesn't matter. You have to really really love the person, and yourself. I also believe that you must respect yourself and not be having sex to keep your guy/girl...

ragnarok0mega
November 30th, 2004, 12:13 AM
being as i am 17, of course i am naturally gonna say i feel there is nothing wrong wtih teen sex, WHEN and only when they are mature enough to handle it, as was said a million times in this thread. however i do see many other teens running around getting pregnant finding themselves infected with STDs, and STILL sleeping with more people. i personally find this disgusting. everyone has their own beliefs and morals concerning sex, but when you find yourself pregnant, go out sleep with another guy, get an std and go and sleep with another guy, i feel horrible. because the guys that this person has slept with have now found themselves dealing with a huge change in life, and this child has to grow up with this person. but i suppose that rant could be said to be true even for people 15 years older than her. i suppose what im trying to say, has been said, in that if your not old enough to stop and think about wether this is right or not, then your not old enough to pull your underwear down in front of anyone else.

EarthWhispers
November 30th, 2004, 12:26 AM
I think you should wait until you are mentally and financially ready for the consequences. If you can't afford to buy your own condoms or your own birth control pills you shouldn't be having sex. If you are not emotionally ready to raise or child... or financially capable of supporting a child, then you should not be having sex.


I guess I'm just tired of seeing parents having to raise their grandkids and kids missing out on their childhoods because they are raising children of their own.

Edited to add: I was 24 when I lost my virginity.

SamTheBlob
November 30th, 2004, 12:32 AM
for some reason i never saw virginity as a real importance... When i gave mine, i looked at it as i like this guy so much i didnt care if we ever saw each other a agian.. i just wanted to be one with him for a few moments of my life... I look at it more as he broke me in so to speak... I think that after 16 they can make apporperate deciesions.. I never felt my virginity was special because ive been raped so many times... so it wasnt really there... it was more emotional i geuss.. like an emotional virginity hahaha

maroon_5
November 30th, 2004, 03:42 AM
Sam the blob im sorry about what has happened to you in the past, i really am.
I dont understand how people could do that.....a few months ago i read in one of my mothers diaries(i know i shouldnt have looked
) that she had an argument with my step father (now my ex step father) and he said " you let mark(my father rape his kids) so yeah i dont know but yeah

maroon_5
November 30th, 2004, 03:45 AM
i wrote a really big reply to your post sam but my comp froze so i wont writ it now but i have to say that that is awfull and dont understand how someone could do tht. i have been through similar...my father actually....and im a guy so..i dunno, i was really really young when it happened like under 8 yrs old :sadman:

maroon_5
November 30th, 2004, 03:46 AM
well i thought my post afetr sam didnt work so i re done it, sorry y'all

DarkDancer
November 30th, 2004, 03:47 AM
What I told my step brother was, "Don't have sex until you are emotionally and financially ready to raise a child." He hasn't done it yet.

enchancea
November 30th, 2004, 06:29 AM
I was just wondering what everyones views were on teen sex, place all ur opinions here, good or bad.
ty

M5 :woot:
I think it depends on the maturity of the person. I lost mine when I was 14 and I was sooo not ready for that. But I was 14 and wanted to be "cool". I do wish I would have waited for someone I actually loved to do that with. But I really think under 15 is to young but then again I never met any 14 yr olds who were ready to deal with that kind of thing

maroon_5
November 30th, 2004, 06:52 AM
true true, again i thank you for your input...um, i havent a whole lot to say so i guess ill wait for some more posts from others


M5

Xentor
November 30th, 2004, 07:08 AM
Admin mode

Moved to Family and Parenting

Xentor
November 30th, 2004, 07:16 AM
Something close to my heart,especially as my daughter is only 14 and hangs out with older guys.
i don't think she has actually done anything but the fear is still there.
Personally,i think she's too young but then there's peer pressure and she's easily led.
I was 17 which is legal age in the UK.
I have spoken to her about it,and if she's gonna do it,it doesn't matter what i say..she'll do it..i just pray she speaks to me first so she can get advice about contraceptives.

Earthy, don't wait for her to come to you. She'll come to you after the deed, when it's too late and a problem exists. Go to her now, take her aside and tell her all about contraceptives. Tell her what to expect.

Xentor
November 30th, 2004, 07:23 AM
My SO and i were carefull when we first had sex...she had an implanon or whatever it is in her arm and i was using condoms....though, we didnt really use them because they were too small...im not trying to brag or anything but they were too small, so we relied heavily on the hpe that the implanon would work.

Dude, they make condoms in various sizes. If you are really afraid about getting pregnant, go get yourself sterilised. For men it's a simple, painless procedure that can be easily undone. (In contrast to the procedure for women, which is invasive and permanent.)

The condom thing really isn't about babies, it's about diseases. You don't want to get sick because of a moment of fun, do you?

Anywho, a week later she tells me tht she has been throwing up in the mornings....i got sooo scared, i mean the thought of me becoming a father at my age is weird...and wrong i mean i am so immature at the mo...i can be mature but i like being a kid, ANYWHO we got a pre test for her and it ended up being sort of inconclusive so we got another one tyhe next week(when we could afford it, very tight budget) and it said she wasn't...we were both so happy but also a little upset, beacause the thought of a little me running around kinda grew on me, but it was for the best...

I can understand the anxiety. I know lots of people who aren't ready to raise kids. As I said, get yourself sterilised or use a combination of contraceptives. The pill works better than a condom, and together they are quite effective, but not 100%. Sterilisation is the most effective (yes, at times the procedures fails and you turn out to be fertile after all).

damnyana
November 30th, 2004, 08:24 AM
i believe that sex is a thing thats is shared between two people madly in love with one another, i orefer to seeit as making love. i made the mistake at 14 of letting an older pushy boyfreind take my virginity and have regretted it ever since. me and my boyfreind (we are both 17 ) have both sworn to selabacy until we feel we are ready to cope withthe consequences, if any ofd our actions

maroon_5
November 30th, 2004, 10:00 PM
hey xentor what is the actual procedure for male sterilization? (s/p?)

any who, i know condoms come in various sizes i was just stating the truble sum ppl can have with sex, and when u r in the moment you dont want to have to run down the road to the chemist and get condoms, so yeah....

M5

evie_mun
November 30th, 2004, 11:42 PM
Lost mine when I was 17. My boyfriend, also 17 at the time (though 6 months older than me) and I had been together for almost a year. We both had talked it through and were both virgins, and we both agreed completely that if either one of us felt ANY sort of discomfort (physical, emotional, or mental) that we were to tell the other and stop immediately. I can say that losing my virginity was one of the best experiences of my life in terms of how well thought out it was and how nice it was. Seriously, we made an event of it. We lit candles, took a nice bath together beforehand, and when it actually happened it was truly an expression of love. I'm happy to say that I've still been with him ever since (2 years later) and I couldn't be happier. We're planning to marry after college.

I think that some teens may not be as lucky as I was, and may not be mature or have a mature enough partner. I do know for one thing that it should be something that is VERY well thought through. And ALWAYS use birth control, no matter WHAT.

QUEEN OF THE DAMNED
November 30th, 2004, 11:43 PM
I think it's a natural thing, your hormones are telling you to do it. But dont just do it for that reason. and try to maintain self respect and not get a 'name' for yourself. Not because of what others think of you (who cares), but because it affects the way you view yourself.

I had some great experiences with teen sex, and some bad experiences with teen sex which I regret. I think it depends on the individual and when you feel ready, truly ready, not scared and 'in love'. Dont ever let anyone pressure you into sex when you dont want it, likewise dont let yourself talk you into having sex to prove something either.

If anyone wants to talk about this feel free to PM me.

QUEEN OF THE DAMNED
November 30th, 2004, 11:47 PM
hey xentor what is the actual procedure for male sterilization? (s/p?)

any who, i know condoms come in various sizes i was just stating the truble sum ppl can have with sex, and when u r in the moment you dont want to have to run down the road to the chemist and get condoms, so yeah....

M5

ahhhh remember the scouts motto :geez: ...be prepared!!! Always carry a condom! :crazy:

Xentor
December 1st, 2004, 01:21 PM
hey xentor what is the actual procedure for male sterilization? (s/p?)

any who, i know condoms come in various sizes i was just stating the truble sum ppl can have with sex, and when u r in the moment you dont want to have to run down the road to the chemist and get condoms, so yeah....

M5

You should've had the condoms before even thinking of going down. As the Queen stated: be prepared! Take time to try several sizes so you get one that fits and doesn't hurt.

The procedure involves snipping and tying up the line that delivers the sperm. It's still being created and will be "ejaculated" on climax but it'll never get out of your body. Inside your body it will dissolve in a few hours. The rest of the genitals stay intact.

It's entirely undoable by connecting the two ends. Hey presto, fertile.

misschief
December 1st, 2004, 01:32 PM
you know.. seeing a thread called 'teen sex' is disturbing. just thought i'd add that...

maroon_5
December 1st, 2004, 09:16 PM
Bump!

EarthWhispers
December 1st, 2004, 11:05 PM
you know.. seeing a thread called 'teen sex' is disturbing. just thought i'd add that...
Is it the fact that we're discussing it here... just the concept of teens having sex... or something else entirely?

maroon_5
December 1st, 2004, 11:46 PM
anything st all to do with teen sex, the facts or anything

maroon_5
December 1st, 2004, 11:48 PM
I have heard of that process but i thought there was like a 30% chance of it not able to be undone....
and i had the goods befor we 'went down'
I thought they would fit but they were to small.


M5

maroon_5
December 2nd, 2004, 12:03 AM
Bumpety Bump!!!!!!!

maroon_5
December 2nd, 2004, 12:26 AM
BUmpety bumpety bump!!

sorry i like this being up the top....lol


M5

maroon_5
December 3rd, 2004, 05:43 AM
Bump, im bumping this because i think its a secure topic to discuss.


M5

WingedTigerChild
December 3rd, 2004, 06:53 AM
you know.. seeing a thread called 'teen sex' is disturbing. just thought i'd add that...
Why?

pawnman
December 3rd, 2004, 07:03 AM
Bump, im bumping this because i think its a secure topic to discuss.


M5

Dude, you've bumped your own thread three times. That should probably say something about the level of interest that people on the boards have for teen sex as a topic of discussion.

Kyra Kismet
December 3rd, 2004, 07:41 AM
So true!

soilsigh aingeal
December 3rd, 2004, 08:04 AM
I have heard of that process but i thought there was like a 30% chance of it not able to be undone....
and i had the goods befor we 'went down'
I thought they would fit but they were to small.


M5Than you should go to the store and buy the kind that say extra large and if you still think you're too large for them, buy some female condoms, or saran wrap and spermacide or just get the heck over yourself :rolleyes:

pawnman
December 3rd, 2004, 08:43 AM
Than you should go to the store and buy the kind that say extra large and if you still think you're too large for them, buy some female condoms, or saran wrap and spermacide or just get the heck over yourself :rolleyes:

Yeah, I'm not buying the story either. We had a health teacher at our high school who demonstrated that condoms are very seldom too small by taking a standard Trojan and pulling it over her hand up to her elbow.

soilsigh aingeal
December 3rd, 2004, 08:58 AM
Yeah, I'm not buying the story either. We had a health teacher at our high school who demonstrated that condoms are very seldom too small by taking a standard Trojan and pulling it over her hand up to her elbow.Yeah, they had a similar demonstration in my health class, using a standard sized condom and stretched it out using both hands, to the width of the my teacher's head, maybe not literally, it was at least 7 years since I took that class but it was stretched out farther than I'd like to imagine the girth of any guy's penis. PLUS haven't you ever seen one blown up? They can get pretty big... and I've never seen one pop.

maroon_5
December 3rd, 2004, 09:33 AM
god im sorry if i bought the wrong size but i dont exactly go into the chemist rip opena pack of condoms and roll one up my arm!!!!!!
geez!!!!
it was the first time i had ever had sex and i had no idea what size i was!!!!
So maybe u shouldnt tell me to fucking get over myself!!!!!!!!!
You have no idea what size my C*c* is so maybe u should just shut the fuck up!!!!
And for peets sake can we not make this about the size of my penis!!! This thread was not made for that purpose!!!! Geez!!!!!


M5

maroon_5
December 3rd, 2004, 09:36 AM
And i dont think my c*c* is so big but u have to bloody remember that not all brands of condoms come in the same size!!!!!! DUH!!!!!
And plus i live in a completely diff country to u all and i may not be using the same brands as u!!!!
Frigen think about it!!!!



M5

soilsigh aingeal
December 3rd, 2004, 12:30 PM
Someone's getting defensive.... Condoms STRETCH, like pawnman and I both mentioned, a GREAT deal! I doubt that condoms sold in other countries are of that much difference, but if they are excuse me for my ignorance. But, I've used a number of different brands and never noticed a difference in any. My ex is on the large side and we used the regular kind and he never complained of them being too small.
Maybe, since it was your first time using one, you just need a little practice with putting them on because they can seem to be a little 'tight' but that's how they're supposed to be, otherwise they'd fall off and get stuck somewhere they shouldn't be stuck.
And you're right, I don't know what size you are, nor do I want to know what size you are, but give me a flippin break, read my post, if you are bigger than someone's head, I don't even know.

But really, if you think you're mature enough to be having sex, don't you think you should be able to contain yourself a little better than that? You're the one who bumped your post 4 times because no one replied after you said that, what did you really expect? Someone to say "aww you poor thing, you can't wear condoms, I feel so sorry for you?" No, no one is going to say that, they're going to say suck it up or abstain.

Oh yeah, I forgot about those one condoms you buy at joke stores but I've never seen those at a pharmacy :whistle:

pawnman
December 3rd, 2004, 05:47 PM
Someone's getting defensive.... Condoms STRETCH, like pawnman and I both mentioned, a GREAT deal! I doubt that condoms sold in other countries are of that much difference, but if they are excuse me for my ignorance. But, I've used a number of different brands and never noticed a difference in any. My ex is on the large side and we used the regular kind and he never complained of them being too small.
Maybe, since it was your first time using one, you just need a little practice with putting them on because they can seem to be a little 'tight' but that's how they're supposed to be, otherwise they'd fall off and get stuck somewhere they shouldn't be stuck.
And you're right, I don't know what size you are, nor do I want to know what size you are, but give me a flippin break, read my post, if you are bigger than someone's head, I don't even know.

But really, if you think you're mature enough to be having sex, don't you think you should be able to contain yourself a little better than that? You're the one who bumped your post 4 times because no one replied after you said that, what did you really expect? Someone to say "aww you poor thing, you can't wear condoms, I feel so sorry for you?" No, no one is going to say that, they're going to say suck it up or abstain.

Oh yeah, I forgot about those one condoms you buy at joke stores but I've never seen those at a pharmacy :whistle:


Yep. You know what you can wear that's even better birth control than condoms? Your pants.

soilsigh aingeal
December 3rd, 2004, 06:23 PM
:achug:

Tsuchimaru
December 3rd, 2004, 06:46 PM
Yep. You know what you can wear that's even better birth control than condoms? Your pants.

:D _handclapp

maroon_5
December 13th, 2004, 06:47 AM
You know what???? I really dont give a shit what Pawnman says because IT is obviously a lonely old senile pathetic useless waste of space if all IT can do with ITS time is ridicule and demine others....so i say this....get a bloody life



oh yeah, i like a comfortable fit btw..i dont like being snuggly and warm i actually like to feel somthing.....FYI...piss off losers

Xentor
December 13th, 2004, 07:14 AM
You know what???? I really dont give a shit what Pawnman says because IT is obviously a lonely old senile pathetic useless waste of space if all IT can do with ITS time is ridicule and demine others....so i say this....get a bloody life



oh yeah, i like a comfortable fit btw..i dont like being snuggly and warm i actually like to feel somthing.....FYI...piss off losers

You are the weakest link. Buh-bye!