Gracecat
December 1st, 2004, 02:55 AM
Well.... A few of the chatters have listened to me talk about my brother in law having a daughter. Most of my worries have been concerning his mental health and how he's going to be handle being daddy to a daughter so soon after the accident of our own daughter. For those that aren't aware.... My BIL was the driver that day.... (no he's not blamed)
Well, another mild worry, understanding the *idea* behind it, and possible intent and how I'd deal with it and whathaveyou... was the name of their new daughter. I was afraid of having to hear an "In memory of" or "in rememberance of" explanation. In short, I was terrified they would name their daughter after Eve. It may have seemed petty to some, and a few family members (namely my spouse) was probably not interested in hearing me fret over something that... in the end wouldn't have brought our daughter back and accomplished nothing to worry about but, worry I did.
At any rate, for those that have hung with me since the beginning of those ramblings I've had... her name is Sydnie Kade.... I think. Spelling may be off as well as a slight pronounciation variation. I tuned out after I heard the name the first time ;). It had ceased to be a worrisome issue with me.
Well, another mild worry, understanding the *idea* behind it, and possible intent and how I'd deal with it and whathaveyou... was the name of their new daughter. I was afraid of having to hear an "In memory of" or "in rememberance of" explanation. In short, I was terrified they would name their daughter after Eve. It may have seemed petty to some, and a few family members (namely my spouse) was probably not interested in hearing me fret over something that... in the end wouldn't have brought our daughter back and accomplished nothing to worry about but, worry I did.
At any rate, for those that have hung with me since the beginning of those ramblings I've had... her name is Sydnie Kade.... I think. Spelling may be off as well as a slight pronounciation variation. I tuned out after I heard the name the first time ;). It had ceased to be a worrisome issue with me.