Lucidia
September 9th, 2001, 03:40 PM
forever.
sorry, i can no longer handle being a mod, or even a member of this commmunity.
most of you are great people. many though, with all due respect, have yet to learn what it means to be 'open minded'. Not really the mods/admins/owners here.... just some of the members, i'd rather not deal with them, and as a mod, i can't just block people.
You can say that i'm not "open minded"...but i've never said ONE SINGLE PERSON was WRONG for believing what they did. I just may have a different opinion about it. and that's my OPINION, which may very well be WRONG, or RIGHT, but why does anyone really CARE since it's only MY opinion, and therefore only affects ME unless you are so incredibly sensitive that you are actually offended by the fact that people THINK differently than you... and well that's your problem, so sorry, i hope you find a way to get past it.
I may have desperately tried to give people FACTS... but well.. i suppose that people just don't pay attention to those facts since i'm just far too opinionated and offensive
And even if i dropped my mod privaledges, and was just a member, the situation would remain. I'm just too "offensive" to people, and i refuse to hold back my true feelings just to make people believe the "facts" that I state in between my many opinions. If people want to judge my ability to KNOW something based on my PERSONALITY or PERSONAL beliefs, then well, sorry, too bad, i'm leaving, now you don't have to deal with me at all.
I'm tired of sitting here, trying to make peace, and keep the rules from being broken. too much pressure, cause if i state my opinion, even if i SAY OUTRIGHT that i am NOT PERSONALLY ATTACKING someone... i'm still apparently offending people.
don't try and convince me to stay. I stayed as long as I did because I think this is a great place, it's just that some of the people here are pushing my buttons and well rather than blow up and fight and lose sleep over this, i'm simply leaving. sorry if this bothers anyone.
mol, i'm sorry to leave you stuck to find someone to replace me in the forums that I was mod-ing in. You're a great person, along with Semele, and EW, and all of the other admins and mods that keep this place running as smoothly as possible.
Kaylara, thanks for showing me this place to begin with, I suppose that I have learned something here, just not what I was expecting to learn. You know i'm always going to be your sister *hugs*. You just have most patience in this particular "activity" than I do. You, and all the rest of the people that are my "family" in RL (away from all this online stuff), will always remain my family, and will always be in my heart. You know where to find me. *more hugs*
To everyone else, including people that get on my nerves, and people that i've offended and whatnot, I wish you the best. I have nothing against anyone here personally, since i don't know more than a handful of you personally anyways.
so well... good bye. if you need to find me, you know where i am. e-mail me, or IM me, i'd love to talk.
there is no need to respond to this thead, cause i'm not coming back. ever. If you really NEED to talk to me, as I said, my contact info is on every one of my posts, and i assume that my profile is gonna stay in the database, so the contact info is there too... so drop me a line if you truly feel the need to do so. But like i said, dont' convice me to try and stay here. I have made my choice, and it wasn't an easy one to make.
It is time for me to move on. Peace.
sorry, i can no longer handle being a mod, or even a member of this commmunity.
most of you are great people. many though, with all due respect, have yet to learn what it means to be 'open minded'. Not really the mods/admins/owners here.... just some of the members, i'd rather not deal with them, and as a mod, i can't just block people.
You can say that i'm not "open minded"...but i've never said ONE SINGLE PERSON was WRONG for believing what they did. I just may have a different opinion about it. and that's my OPINION, which may very well be WRONG, or RIGHT, but why does anyone really CARE since it's only MY opinion, and therefore only affects ME unless you are so incredibly sensitive that you are actually offended by the fact that people THINK differently than you... and well that's your problem, so sorry, i hope you find a way to get past it.
I may have desperately tried to give people FACTS... but well.. i suppose that people just don't pay attention to those facts since i'm just far too opinionated and offensive
And even if i dropped my mod privaledges, and was just a member, the situation would remain. I'm just too "offensive" to people, and i refuse to hold back my true feelings just to make people believe the "facts" that I state in between my many opinions. If people want to judge my ability to KNOW something based on my PERSONALITY or PERSONAL beliefs, then well, sorry, too bad, i'm leaving, now you don't have to deal with me at all.
I'm tired of sitting here, trying to make peace, and keep the rules from being broken. too much pressure, cause if i state my opinion, even if i SAY OUTRIGHT that i am NOT PERSONALLY ATTACKING someone... i'm still apparently offending people.
don't try and convince me to stay. I stayed as long as I did because I think this is a great place, it's just that some of the people here are pushing my buttons and well rather than blow up and fight and lose sleep over this, i'm simply leaving. sorry if this bothers anyone.
mol, i'm sorry to leave you stuck to find someone to replace me in the forums that I was mod-ing in. You're a great person, along with Semele, and EW, and all of the other admins and mods that keep this place running as smoothly as possible.
Kaylara, thanks for showing me this place to begin with, I suppose that I have learned something here, just not what I was expecting to learn. You know i'm always going to be your sister *hugs*. You just have most patience in this particular "activity" than I do. You, and all the rest of the people that are my "family" in RL (away from all this online stuff), will always remain my family, and will always be in my heart. You know where to find me. *more hugs*
To everyone else, including people that get on my nerves, and people that i've offended and whatnot, I wish you the best. I have nothing against anyone here personally, since i don't know more than a handful of you personally anyways.
so well... good bye. if you need to find me, you know where i am. e-mail me, or IM me, i'd love to talk.
there is no need to respond to this thead, cause i'm not coming back. ever. If you really NEED to talk to me, as I said, my contact info is on every one of my posts, and i assume that my profile is gonna stay in the database, so the contact info is there too... so drop me a line if you truly feel the need to do so. But like i said, dont' convice me to try and stay here. I have made my choice, and it wasn't an easy one to make.
It is time for me to move on. Peace.