Succubus help....

[anagarically]

Well, I just need some information on Succubi. My best friend has had problems over the last year and a half with his relationships and love life. He keeps putting himself into relationships that are not right and he knows it. He keeps getting into high-emotional relationships, where there is strong emotions and feelings, both good and bad. It is a pattern. The first one, was a very serious relationship. He knew something was wrong then. All during the relationship, he kept trying to stop the relationship, but he could not. It was a very dramatic relationship, up and downs and such. Also, the sexuality, he did not want to take into the relationship. He wanted to keep it slow, but he could not. He would find himself just doing it. He continually felt drained, all the time. Finally, the woman he was dating split that relationship. Ever since then, his love life has been one emotional pain after another. He gets with one girl, who he knows is not right. He seems to push the relationship, without wanting. He traps himself almost. He knows kindof what is going on, but he can't seem to stop it all. It seems to me that something keeps guiding him into these relationships, where there is going to be high emotions, and sexuality. He has even tried to go without, and just have friends, but he can't. If he doesn't get into a relationship or get into high emotional or sexual situations, he gets VERY drained.

To me it seems like he has a succubus, guiding him into these situations, so it can drain the energy from him. I want to help him. He realises something is wrong, but doesn't know what or how to stop it. He is rather perceptive to pagan ideas and such, and I would like to try to help him as much as I can. Does anyone know any type of ritual or spell for banishing a succubus. I have tried protection spells on him myself, without his knowledge, they seem to help, but there is always a relapse. I would like to take the issue to him, and walk him through a spell or banishing. I think it would be best if he did it, or participated in the ritual. As at that point, his own self can then adopt the energy to defend against the succubus. So... any ideas, or information, or reading would help. Thank you very much...

[BabblingImp]

I'm kinda new, but I will send you energies to help you find something! Maybe he can try changing the energy that srounds him, I have done that when creepy guys would come up to me, and I didn't know why then when I did that they stopped. as for spells I don't know of any at the moment, but try that see if it works! ((((((Good Luck energy)))))) :colorful:

[anagarically]

Well, I am trying to get him to that point. He has a problem of not really believing in very much at all. He was raised christian, but of course, because of rebelion went against that. Now he is at point of non-belief. I have been working with him for a bit now. He is starting to understand and see certain things, but he does not yet have much control. What I am scared of right now, is that if he tries to change his energy, or to banish the succubus himself, it may up hurting him. He does not have much control, and if he tries to change his energy surrounding himself, he may actually project his energy outward, and lose it. Or he may change his energy, closing himself off from the succubus but opening himself up in other ways.

My beliefs on things are slightly different. Me myself, I can just visualize my energies and control the flow. My beliefs are on the point of myself. He on the otherhand, needs some type of focus, or pattern to follow, or guide to go by in setting up his energies. I can try to lead him through some practices in doing so.. to setup his energies and such, but he will not have the understanding. Really, all i need is either a good way that i can banish out the succubus, or a good ritual that i can guide him through, that will center and correctly setup his energies... so.. i don't know.. it is kindof strange.

Thank you.

Anagarically

[Pol]

Some people are victims. Some people are foolish. It's just as likely he is one of these two than being preyed upon by a succubus.

[Pol]

Let me clarify a bit more: Instead of finding an outside reason for your friends failures and mistakes, why not realise that he is human and likely to do such things of his own free will because of it, and support him and help him and counsel him?

[anagarically]

Well, I have tried the counsel and helping so far.

When i say succubus, well, i guess i should explain myself alittle more. I really don't believe in succubi myself. What I do believe in, is that his psychic and ethereal aura's are inbalanced, in such a way, that he is drawn into high emotional situations. The way he is balanced currently, he loses his energy very quickly. He needs to have energy, emotional energy. He is putting himself into situations where is he likely to get extremely high emotions, either good or bad, and also, where there is likely sexuality, which has extremely high releases of energy. In a way, it is almost like he needs the energy, like kindof a psy vamp. But, he needs the energy, because he is letting it all go. I can feel it from him.

I used the succubus idea mainly, because that is how it is preceived normally. And there is a lot of ways to go through banishing a for a succubus. Pretty much, all that a succubus is, is just the misbalanced energies. Unless you have a REAL issue with some type of ethereal being. But that is different. I am just wanting a way for him to re-balance himself. I cannot really teach him all that I know and how I go through balancing and centering. He is just beginning. Most rituals and spells though, are basically ways of balancing, and centering. It is set of practices that help a person focus and direct their mind and energies to accomplish what they are wanting. I have set him about already learning meditation and self-learning exercises, but he is still having problems with inbalance. When I said that I tried to banish it, well, i tried to help move his energies and aura around, trying to help shape it more balanced, but it didn't hold.

He is working his way to a point where he can very easily balance himself out, but he still has work to get there. I am just scared that he may destroy his life before that point, somehow. I would like to be able to walk him through some type of ceremony, setup so that it can help him focus his energies correctly so that he may balance himself.

Sorry for leading alittle off with the succubus idea. I don't know really how most people feel on here about certain things, or peoples beliefs. My ideas about things are a rather simplified view and it seems that people always try to start going off on that point instead of helping with the problem. I thought that a succubus banishing ritual would be relatively easy to come by, but.. lol..

Well, please yell at me now. Lol... oh well...
thank you though, for all of your time

Anagarically

[alesay]

you can find a succubi banishing... You just need to look in the right places. First i have to say the obvious "we're not supposed to do spells without permission or approval from the other person" ok. now that my Jimminy cricket naggin conscious is out of the way. His imbalance.... Well let me explain how i've been in a situation like this. Someone i know, too has a "Succubi" figure following him. Very jealous woman type entity that not only makes her presence known, but will mess with any female around. ESPECIALLY ones that he is particularly interested in. I know because she tried to bug me. ANYWAY, you can't do anything to a person, or for a person if they themselves don't want to change it. We were ready to banish this entity, but he didn't want to. Come to find out, as a sick mental thing, he invoked her himself. SO he could feel love or somethng from someone when there was no one there... After figuring that out, there was nothing we could do. She retreated her presence a bit... and well, i don't know how "they're" doing now! HAHAHA
SO what i'm saying is you can banish do whatever you want, but if he doesn't want out, nothing you do will help. But this is probably stuff you already know. I have no idea what i'm saying. But you can find a ritual to do that... but keep in mind when you do, and when you take his problems upon yourself, you might be messing with something you can't handle... Well by yourself :) Anyway, the point of my ramblings is that you can't help him if he doesn't really want help, or if this has nothing to do with all that has been mentioned and is instead just his sub conscious wanting crappy relationships... You never know... BUt any way, sorry for the rant, i hope you can get something out of my ramblings! HAHA

[anagarically]

Yes, your ramblings have been rather helpful. I do understand now that any changes to I made to his energy would not hold or last, as he would just fall back into the same energy patterns over time. He does not really have an entity after him. It is alittle bit psychological, but he has moved past that, just his energy, his psychic and ethereal patterns have not caught up with his psychological patterns. He wants to get past this issue, but is in need of some type of pattern he can follow, or focus on, to help him adjust his energies or center his energies to his psychological patterns. lol.

Thanks a lot though everyone... you have been extremely helpful.

Anagarically

[morrigan]

so far i havent been able to find anything in any of my books on this, however as far as i know incubi and succubi attack on the astral planes so the best bet would be a psychic protection spell of some sort.. may also pay to look into the possibility of the drain coming from a psychic vamp.. maybe one that has tapped into your friend and finds that the best time to get energy from your friend is when his sexual energy is high.. excessive drainage when hes not in a relationship etc could make him think that he needs to be in a relationship to stop the drain.. either way a psychic protection spell would be a good place to start until you know whats going on for sure..
Blessed Be ~Morrigan~