Advice on current situation, plz.

[Azul]

I have been haveing alot of trouble with three things latly, friends, love, and happiness... I have not been an active member for a long time, and i have noticed i have become very withdrawn and solitary to everyone. I have been trying to bring myself out to the world but it seems to just make me more depressed.

I was wondering if anyone who has the experiance and ability(my strong point is not divination) could help me out. I need advice from the spirit world yet i dont feel connected with them enough to communicate.

It seems my friends are all leaving me, and leaving each other.
Me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year but it seems like our relationships fading.
And the thing thats makeing everything else worse is that I cant seem to enjoy anything anymore. Its getting hard to goto anyplace public, just seeing other people will make me feel down and depressed.

i just dont feel i cant take it much longer, and last time i came here looking for help i found so much kindness and willingness to help a complete stranger and the advice from a single tarot reading helped soo much.

Just anything someone has the time to do would be great, and thank you for just the time to read this, i appreaciate it much.

Blessed be,
Azul

[morrigan]

the reading i did was pointing towards change and moving onto new things..
maybe the feeling you are having of being withdrawn/solitary is a sign that you need some time for yourself to do some soul searching.. i know i go through stages when i need time to myself to relax de stress etc..
when you go out anywhere it may pay to have some sort of amulet, crystal or pendant to guard against other ppls energies especially at this time of year.. alot of ppl get very stressed out this time of year and can effect those who are more open to it which i feel could be what is happening with you..
I think if you focus on yourself and look within yourself to find happiness everything else will fall into place in due time.. meditating each day will help also, it will help you be prepared for any changes that may come your way.. change isnt always a bad thing in fact it can be a very positive thing in our lives we just have to be open to it and willing to accept what comes their way..
I hope this has been some help..
Blessed Be ~Morrigan~

[Riverstone22]

When I first read your post I keept thinking change as morrigan said. this doesn't mean you will be changing into a hermit, but posibly that the friends you have may not be the best for you at this time. I have gone through a simular experience (as quite a fiew people have in their own way)where I moved to a new city with no friends. I grew away from my friends and family, getting really depressed (being the social creature I am) but I did make new friends, some that I feel more connected to than before.
Hope I clairified on what morrigan had said.

[moria636]

Ive been through something similar... I withdrew and was just in a stupor.... but after a while I began to really reflect and ask myself why am I here and what can I do to change everything because im the only one responsible for my life and how it is, other people did'nt make me this way I did... and I would find all the things I needed to change...attitude(its amazing how much in your life changes when you change your attitude)...views....etc... and would do it... I would break the ongoing pattern... I found my friends were no good for me... and just seeked out betterment in all areas.... sometimes when you withdraw from people as painful as it may be it just may be meant to be.... and with you and your girlfriend.... break your habbits and patterns... its normal for you relationship to feel like that after a year.... its the transition from going from new and exilerating...to being more comfortable.... its not the just meet happy strong passion feeling anymore... its new...all over again.... you need to seek out better comunication and just sit back and think about just why you think and feel the relationship is fading beyond it being just you or just her or its just happening.... im sorry I could'nt be more helpful... I hope things pick up for you....
brightest blessings....