Love spell gone wrong

[butterflydreams]

I have a question that's been on my mind for a while. For those who believe that there is someone who we are meant to be with (romantically) - say we do a spell or practice some form of magic that imposes on that specific person's free will, to speed things up for example. It goes wrong obviously and we have to deal with the karma that we created for ourselves. Is there any way for the karma to be cleared? Do we get our threefold share and then have another chance without being affected by the same karma any longer? Will you be lead back to that person if you were originally meant to be with them? Or is that shot blown and now you can maybe just go on to have a chance with someone else?

I'm just curious because I was told once by a trusted psychic that I was with the person that I was meant to be with. However things were not going along as fast as I would have liked. So in my immaturity I decided to try the latest new thing I was reading about - affirmations. I put that I am married to so and so (insert name) (in the present tense). A few months later in January 2003, everything went completely wrong in our relationship. I now feel like I'm where I belong reading about magick and all but I realize that what I had even then was focused intent, a desired outcome, and lots of energy put into what I wanted. Magick, but obviously was wrong in what I did with it. I had no idea exactly what I was doing at the time. I thought we were meant to be together so what harm was there.

So now how do I make sure that all of this gets cleared away and I can go on however I'm meant to without any more nagative effects from my bad choice.

Okay sorry so long but I couldn't figure out a short way to fit all my questions and explanations to make sense of those questions. I've not been able to find any info on this one.

[butterflydreams]

Okay so now I feel pretty embarassed. I guess I'm the only one who has screwed up this way. :oops: Either that or maybe I read too much into things and didn't do a darn thing.

Either way I guess I over complicated things in my post but basically I was just wondering if there is any way to reverse negative affects of a spell or any kind of magic that you did wrong. I'm not sure that happened but I'd rather be able to be prepared if so. If anyone has any links to any kind of information that would help, I'd be really grateful!

[LittleRhiannon]

Well, I might not be *the* best to help since I don't really believe in karma or follow the three-fold law, but I'll try.

I personally don't think it's karma, ect. that is the problem. When you do something like that and it screws up the relationship, it was probably the spell itsself backfiring, or maybe even the recipient realizing that you did something and becoming angry/freaked out. Obviously this may not be the case since I have no idea what happened between you two.

As for two people being meant for each other, well, I personally think that it's possible for two people to be "tied" together sort of, a little like soul mates. However, that doesn't mean you will definetly end up with them. If you screw it up, then you might have to live with that and just settle for less or stay alone.

Who knows though, perhaps the psychic was wrong. In my experience it's one of those things you can only really tell for yourself.

I would try talking to the person and trying to fix things - without magic.

[Silverfire Darkmoon]

*snort* I wish that mine would just plain work, let alone backfire!

[butterflydreams]

Thank you for your help. It's very possible that she (the psychich) could have been wrong. I didn't mean to make it seem like I was going to try to do a spell to heal the non-relationship that he and I have. We do have a child together but he avoids me completely for that reason. There is a whole lot to the story of what actually happened. I'm sort of looking for some kind of spell that will release any bad affects I might have caused myself to as to avoid any problems in the future with the person I am meant to be with - if there is such a person, whether it is him or not. I just don't want to be carrying around bad energy from that. So I guess it would be more something for just my personal growth.

[dr_zeus440]

the best spell to get rid of bad energy and help you get on with your life is done by not worrying about bad energy, and getting on with your life.

[juelle]

This is just a little thought.

Perhaps you 'were' meant to be with that bf. Perhaps at the time the psychic read your cards, he was the one you were suposed to be with and learn from. Now maybe that doesn't neccessarily mean your meant to be with him all your life, afterall life is about choices and change.

I personally believe in kindred spirits as opposed to one soul mate for a person.

I also tend to go overboard, and am doing so now with my last bf, so convinced i am that i should be with him. I too have done the panic speed things up, and it never seems to do much other then cause him to go through griefs, and could very well be what led to our break up this month. The fact of the matter is, everything happens for a reason, including time and emotion... and everything is a lesson, so if the two of you are breaking up, or fighting, or ending your relationship, there's a lesson to be learned in that too, and what happens down the road will vary according to how you handle it, not what is predicted.

When really stressed and upset, i tend to just light a candle and say a little prayer that things will be at peace and balanced karmically for myself and the other involved in the future and that we will learn what we can. You could try that, it always makes me feel better.

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