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Storm Moon
December 29th, 2004, 04:21 AM
Well, week and a half...

Last week, I got into an arguement with a girl at work and lost my job today. I think she should have lost hers too cause she was just as at fault as I was.. but the manager and her are good friends so that probably had something to do with it... I feel I got screwed over just because the girl didn't like me. Her reasons were screwed up too...

Saturday night, me and my bf bickered at each other. We're both just so aggravated at this area we live in. No good jobs, people are rude and childish, etc. We have pretty much given up hope.

And this week, I have to give up two of my cats... I have 5 right now and live with my dad and he doesn't want more than 3 here, so I have to surrender 2 of them. I'm going to be very tore up watching them be put into the kennels at the Humane Society and I really hope that someone adopts them. I don't want them to be put to sleep.. :wah:

So I don't think this year's going to end very well for me. My dad's also not going to help me financially anymore. I live 10 miles out of town and there's no way I can go to school or find a job if he cuts me off like this. I don't know what I'll do if I don't find a job within the next 4 days...

HazeOak
December 29th, 2004, 01:45 PM
Wow,

You're definitely in a bit of a sticky spot. Don't allow yourself to get overstressed; stress just results in decisions that aren't the best. Just relax; even if your life seems to be falling apart around you it could be worse. You also need to hustle on the job think but stay cool and calm, bills take a while to add up, so for now you probably will be safe for quite some time. Your kitties, do you know anyone that would like to take them, or could you talk to your dad and ask him if you can put an add in the paper, or you can put up signs at your local pet store with the kitties pictures asking for someone to take them to a good home. I just avoid the humane society at all costs, since it is not fair to put animals to sleep because there is not enough room.

Have you tried to sit down and talk with your dad? Perhaps he feels that you are not appreciating what he is doing for you. Maybe he feels that the only way to help you is by cutting you off, and letting you learn some tough lessons. But I am sure that no matter what he would not allow things to get too bad for you. Perhaps you can work out a time frame with your dad. Let him know that you just lost your job and perhaps he can help you until you find a new one. Maybe you need to get away from that area that you are in.

Hope this helps:)
HazeOak

Storm Moon
December 30th, 2004, 11:39 PM
Thanks for the reply. I did talk it out with him about the cats, and he said if I keep them outdoors, I don't have to get rid of any of them.

BlessedByTheGoddess
December 31st, 2004, 10:27 PM
*hugs* It sounds like you are in a bad spot! But as we all know things will get better soon. I will keep you in my thoughts. I do hope that you find a job soon. And that someone adopts those beautiful kittys!