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Darakash
December 30th, 2004, 01:54 PM
I do not know what is going on lately, but it seems everywhere I look, someone is attacking the beliefs of Satanists; it strikes me, that in the larger societal picture, the only group which it is entirely acceptable to attack is the white male, and in Pagan circles: Satanists (hence the title of this thread). I am just amazed at the venom and misconceptions and nastiness that is spewed forth by some Pagans to and about Satanists....one group that I belong to, which is SPECIFICALLY dedicated to the freedom of ALL religions and religious practices, has recently had a thread of conversation going in which a person slams Satanists and says they are all evil because they worship evil....I just don't get it! I mean, if I said "Wiccans are all lesbians because they worship a goddess" I would get bitch-slapped! As well i should!

And this attitude that Paganism and Satanism must be kept separate, so as not to sully the reputation of all of us white light pure-hearted worshippers of goodness just makes me want to vomit! I am not a Satanist; however, my matron goddess nearly wiped out mankind until she got drunk on what she thought was human blood! I mean, not so white, not so pretty and certainly not in the eyes of many something they would support or understand. However, I am a Pagan, and damned proud of it, and I sure as hell don't think I have a right to dictate to someone else what they may and may not worhsip. And whether or not their worship is distasteful to me should NOT affect their right to be proud of their religion, nor to discuss it in what are supposed to be open-minded forums. I am not saying that any practice that is illegal should be condoned, nor that sharing one's opinion about a given practice is wrong; however, one should KNOW what one is giving an opinion about, and an opinion should be given as just that, and not as if it were fact, and any opinion given, especially one that slams another religion should be at least capable of being backed up by logic and facts, and not just "I don't like this because it is WRONG and EVIL and that is my HOLY WRIT!"

I never intended this to be a rant, it just turned into one. I just keep seeing these HUGELY judgemental comments made about Satanism and it seems, the posters (not just here at MW, but in a lot of places) are not called on their comments as much as it seems they would be if they made similar comments about more "acceptable" religions.
:rant:
DK

semi
December 30th, 2004, 02:05 PM
I agree. My path (not Satanism) is also misunderstood and I've recieved some nasty commenets here. But pagan communities are just like any other community. Some people are openminded and becoming enlightened, others are not.

Darakash
December 30th, 2004, 02:13 PM
I agree. My path (not Satanism) is also misunderstood and I've recieved some nasty commenets here. But pagan communities are just like any other community. Some people are openminded and becoming enlightened, others are not.

True, I guess I am kinda having to knock "Pagans" off that pedastle (sp?) I had us on....every human has the potential to be closed minded, and I should know better!

:megaphone Again, I want to make it clear that my first post was a reaction to posts I have seen in NUMEROUS places, not just at MW, and I should also say that I actually see more satanists and people who support them here, than any other forum I visit....so I want to be very clear on thta point, that I am in no way suggesting that there is less tolerance here or anything of that nature....I just had seen my 10th conversation (complete with misconceptions) about the "evils" of satanism, and I had a meltdown.
dK

KEishin
December 30th, 2004, 02:47 PM
Well think about it - so many people new to Paganism come from religions that preach "the one true way" (snort, chuckle, laugh, whatever). It's hard to overcome that conditioning. I'm *not* making excuses for that type of behavior - discrimination is discrimination.

In addition, Satanism is so misunderstood my many of us, that we only have what the media reports about it. When was the last time the media in your area got Witchcraft/Wicca right?

Darakash
December 30th, 2004, 02:51 PM
In addition, Satanism is so misunderstood my many of us, that we only have what the media reports about it. When was the last time the media in your area got Witchcraft/Wicca right?

I know *sigh* which is I guess exactly why I was sooo taken aback by these nasty descriptions, and negations of Satanism. I would think that as many of us are so hugely misrepresented, we of all groups should kinda know you can't count on the press or other biased media to inform you about someone's beliefs....again, I think I had Pagans as a group up on an unrealistic pedestal and DUH, forgot that most of us are human(well actually I think all of us?) with our own prejudices, etc. OHHH, I am just so articulate now...NOT :bangyourh

KEishin
December 30th, 2004, 02:55 PM
:bangyourh

Right there wit' ya sistah

Aleigh
December 30th, 2004, 03:01 PM
I know *sigh* which is I guess exactly why I was sooo taken aback by these nasty descriptions, and negations of Satanism. I would think that as many of us are so hugely misrepresented, we of all groups should kinda know you can't count on the press or other biased media to inform you about someone's beliefs....again, I think I had Pagans as a group up on an unrealistic pedestal and DUH, forgot that most of us are human(well actually I think all of us?) with our own prejudices, etc. OHHH, I am just so articulate now...NOT :bangyourh
:rubhead: It's always frustrating when people spout opinions about things they obviously don't understand in the slightest. I'm not a Satanist either, and I admit I don't know much about it, but I hate it when people form strong opinions/prejudices about something without taking the time to learn about it first.

You're being way more articulate than I am when I'm mad!!!

Invidosa
December 30th, 2004, 03:03 PM
I agree. My path (not Satanism) is also misunderstood and I've recieved some nasty commenets here. But pagan communities are just like any other community. Some people are openminded and becoming enlightened, others are not.

I think that it is never cool to bash anyone for the path that they choose. I mean most of us have probably had to defend our faith at least once to someone, we all should know better . btw, what is your path? just curious

Darakash
December 30th, 2004, 03:06 PM
I think that it is never cool to bash anyone for the path that they choose. I mean most of us have probably had to defend our faith at least once to someone, we all should know better . btw, what is your path? just curious

Hey, yeah, thanks for asking this, I was curious too, and then got so worked up about other sillyness i forgot to ask, so thank Invidosa!
DK

Darakash
December 30th, 2004, 03:13 PM
:rubhead: It's always frustrating when people spout opinions about things they obviously don't understand in the slightest. I'm not a Satanist either, and I admit I don't know much about it, but I hate it when people form strong opinions/prejudices about something without taking the time to learn about it first.

Yes, as a very wise person said to me recently "Opinionated ignorance drives me nuts! Ignorance is okay, informed opinions are fine, but highly vocal opinions based on apparent complete ignorance of a subject, and refusal to learn anything about it... :grrrrr: "

Now THAT is articulate ;)

Djiril
December 30th, 2004, 08:20 PM
I think the easiest seeming way to feel better about yourself is to find someone to compare yourself positively to so you can say, "Well, at least I'm not like them!"
Many people do this without bothering to find out the truth about the people they are talking about.

I must admit that I wanted to do this at first, but I insisted on doing my homework, and I found out that while I do disagree with the Satanic philosophy it is not evil and does make some sense.

AdNoctum
December 30th, 2004, 08:46 PM
As much as it pains me to say it, I think this attitude towards Satanism on the part of some Pagans is somewhat natural. I once heard someone say that Satanism is like Paganism's younger sibling who wants to tag along, now that Paganism is getting cool friends (mainstream acceptance). Paganism, thinking only of its reputation, just kicks down Satanism to make itself look better in the eyes of the mainstream.

I'm not saying it's right, of course, that just seems to be how it is, unfortunately. :twitch:

Suzy-Anne
December 30th, 2004, 11:02 PM
People bash me for being a Satanist quite frequently. Pagan or not. THere are jsut so many misconceptions of it due to all the satanic panic. Ch'yeah, who in their right mind would believe that I, a thirteen year old girl, would "conjure up the dark lord satan via sacraficing a goat and impregnating women with the devil's seed"?

Loopaleigh
December 31st, 2004, 12:15 AM
I agree that people should reserve judgement and opinion about a subject until they have all the facts.

But what about individuals that have taken the time to become educated about something, yet conclude after study, careful thought, and experience that they don't agree with it?

Should they not give their opinion because they aren't in the majority or don't hold the popular view point? Should we draw and quarter them for being odd man out? Accuse them of being "intolerent"?

This doesn't happen to me to often because I avoid posting to much of a contrary opinion from the majority. (Until now.)
But, I see this happen over and over....Majority says "Dog" and the lone voice comes along and says "Cat" and before you know it the "Cat" is dead.

I get so tired of reading someone have a different opinion from everyone else's and their reward for sharing is getting bashed and flamed.
One person jumps on them and then lots of other people jump in to and the thread becomes all about picking on that one person. Satanist call it "Herd Conformity".

Should we require everyone to post a disclaimer and credentials along with their opinion?
Wouldn't it be better to just say "I don't agree with you, and here's why"....minus the personnal attack?

I don't agree with Satanism. Here's why....I think it focuses to much on the Self and not enough on the world around them and trying to make it a better place. I don't find it to be a balanced enough worldview for my taste.

Disclaimer- This doesn't mean I don't respect their path or their right to believe what they want...some of their beliefs make perfect sense to me, other things I don't agree with.

Credentials- I have read the Satanic Bible, the Satanic Witch, been to the Chruch of Satan Website and had lengthy conversations with several Satanist both Theistic and LeVayen.

P.S....This isn't meant to be a personnal attack on Darakash who I adore, just me being the lone voice and playing "Devil's Advocate." I have been needing to get the "let's pick on the odd man out" rant off my chest for a long time.
P.P.S...Darakash, I hope I'm still on your "been good" list. Sorry if I hijacked your thread.

Pure Ahimsa
December 31st, 2004, 12:22 AM
I notice a lot of people saying bad things about Satanists, we all need to keep an open-mind. Sorry for your hurts,
Yannai

Zophael
December 31st, 2004, 03:18 AM
I have to agree with Loopaleigh. I was a Satanist for quite some time. LaVey was overly reactionary because of his poor experience with Christianity. The Setians (Temple of Set) arose in response to LaVey's emotionally based views. Both groups fail to be deep enough to acknowledge how selflessness can be as rewarding if not more so than constantly satisfying our ids.

Darakash
December 31st, 2004, 07:26 AM
I agree that people should reserve judgement and opinion about a subject until they have all the facts.

But what about individuals that have taken the time to become educated about something, yet conclude after study, careful thought, and experience that they don't agree with it?

Should they not give their opinion because they aren't in the majority or don't hold the popular view point? Should we draw and quarter them for being odd man out? Accuse them of being "intolerent"?

This doesn't happen to me to often because I avoid posting to much of a contrary opinion from the majority. (Until now.)
But, I see this happen over and over....Majority says "Dog" and the lone voice comes along and says "Cat" and before you know it the "Cat" is dead.

I get so tired of reading someone have a different opinion from everyone else's and their reward for sharing is getting bashed and flamed.
One person jumps on them and then lots of other people jump in to and the thread becomes all about picking on that one person. Satanist call it "Herd Conformity".

Should we require everyone to post a disclaimer and credentials along with their opinion?
Wouldn't it be better to just say "I don't agree with you, and here's why"....minus the personnal attack?

I don't agree with Satanism. Here's why....I think it focuses to much on the Self and not enough on the world around them and trying to make it a better place. I don't find it to be a balanced enough worldview for my taste.

Disclaimer- This doesn't mean I don't respect their path or their right to believe what they want...some of their beliefs make perfect sense to me, other things I don't agree with.

Credentials- I have read the Satanic Bible, the Satanic Witch, been to the Chruch of Satan Website and had lengthy conversations with several Satanist both Theistic and LeVayen.

P.S....This isn't meant to be a personnal attack on Darakash who I adore, just me being the lone voice and playing "Devil's Advocate." I have been needing to get the "let's pick on the odd man out" rant off my chest for a long time.
P.P.S...Darakash, I hope I'm still on your "been good" list. Sorry if I hijacked your thread.

Hey, don't get me wrong! I LOVE a good debate, and I also enjoy a good thread-hijacking! Makes for much more interesting conversation....And, I will defend to the death (quite literally) your right to disagree with anything that you have come to an informed conclusion about. I definitely did not write my original post to state that we should all roll over and agree with Satanists about everything or to state that they are "right" about their beliefs, one of the reasons that I am not a Satanist is that i do not agree with many of the things that I have read, also, I am a person that thinks that by using the name Satanist, these groups have created more problems for themselves than using the name may be worth, but hey, know what? That realy IS an opinion!

I have some of the same issues with the general tenants (as I understand them) as you do. (or as your Devil's Advocate voice does). I do not think a person has to list their credentials, but when they ARE making statements of opinion, it should NOT be presented as fact, and when they are making INCORRECT statements of "fact" they should expect to be corrected by people who know better....make sense? I mean, if an uniformed person came to this thread, for instance and jumped in saying something like "All Satanists are evildoers who sacrifiice babies to Beezlebub and fornicate with jelly beans while dancing naked with virgin pigs and THATS why I hate them..." I think, that even the most anti-Satantist-minded Pagan would have the responsibility to correct that person, and say, "You are wrong you are misinformed and if this is the reason you Hate satanists, then you neeeed to get educated!" Now that person who spouted that hate, CANNOT justify their statements by saying "well, we all have opinions, and this is my opinion and you won't ever change my mind about that!" THE ABOVE was NOT a statement of opinion and it was waaayyyy over the line of respecting other paths.

I have just been surprised at the level of actual faith-bashing attacks I have seen leveled at satanists in many places recently. I don't mean, "I disagree with these beliefs" statements...I mean "This is/They are wrong, evil, they should not be welcomed into Pagan midsts, they are some how less deserving of their right to participate in discussions, they are less deserving of religious rights protection," kinds of comments I have been reading in many places lately!

By the way this concerns me "I get so tired of reading someone have a different opinion from everyone else's and their reward for sharing is getting bashed and flamed." I certainly hope that my posts to do not appear to do this, I have tried to keep all of my responses as clear and supportable as possible, and I never attack anyone for having a DIFFERENT opinion than mine, just for the above issues, if I have done this, I was not aware that it was perceived that way and I would certainly apologize, if you show me anywhere I have done it!

DK

Darakash
December 31st, 2004, 08:22 AM
P.S....This isn't meant to be a personnal attack on Darakash who I adore, just me being the lone voice and playing "Devil's Advocate." I have been needing to get the "let's pick on the odd man out" rant off my chest for a long time.
P.P.S...Darakash, I hope I'm still on your "been good" list. Sorry if I hijacked your thread.

Oh, and by the way... :hearthear so nice, and yes, absolutely you are still on my "been good list!" I love a person who speaks his/her mind and do not feel hijacked at all, the reason I come to message boards at all, is to have good well-thought-out debates.

Darakash
December 31st, 2004, 08:51 AM
I have to agree with Loopaleigh. I was a Satanist for quite some time. LaVey was overly reactionary because of his poor experience with Christianity. The Setians (Temple of Set) arose in response to LaVey's emotionally based views. Both groups fail to be deep enough to acknowledge how selflessness can be as rewarding if not more so than constantly satisfying our ids.

Makes sense to me, again, I am not saying that anyone has to agree with what Satanists believe, but I am saying that rather than presenting a totally logical and informed statement as the one you have submitted here, if a person attacking an entire group (which of course, is made up of even more and differing groups) with blanket statements that said person presents as fact, and at the same time, asserting that as a result of these "facts" that group is EVIL and should not be allowed to particpate in the Pagan community or to have equal religious rights under the law...well, I find that offensive. Satanism does not work for me, neither does chaos magick, neither does Wicca(at least not the forms that I know about), neither does Christianity or Judaism, or Islam....however, I believe it is my responsibility when discussing these faiths to share what it is that I disagree with about these faiths and practices in a respectful and clear manner. I would not, for instance, make the statement that Christians are a bunch of Sheeple who only practice their religion because they are afraid of Hell and don't want to have to take any personal responsibility for their actions, so they hide behind their God. I would be slammed and should be, and by the way, I really don't believe this! I personally don't find Christianity a comfortable path for me because in view of some of the tenants of the religion(s) and my perceptions/personality, I would feel that I was acting in the above way if I tried to conform to that path; this does not mean that I am at all opposed to Christians sharing their beliefs with others, with Pagans, with me; this does not mean that I think that the rights of Christians to practice their religion are any less valid under the law.

When I wrote this post, as I have already stated, I was reacting to what I saw in various places, as a complete lack of the kind of respect that most of us always grant other religions in our discussions about them. It seemed that people who would never dream of bashing another Pagan path or even an Abrahamic one, were making arguments based on sterotypes and ignorance, and in some cases even defending the violations of religious rights of satanists, without so much as a second thought! I simply do not believe that the faith should be treated as second-class citizens, whether I agree with them or not!

DK

Zophael
December 31st, 2004, 10:13 AM
ok, looks like I need to clarify myself. I don't feel that Satanists are necessarily evil and everyone's concept of 'evil' varies a little bit. They should not be attacked, especially here. This is a pagan site, therefore toleration for all religious views that are not Judeo-Christian or Muslim is necessary. and to avoid any fuss, I have nothing against Jews, Christians or Muslims participating here, but they are by definition, not pagan. I didn't feel my earlier comment was refering to Satanists and their kin evil, but rather I was hinting that they could be more prone to negative ways that would be rather unpopular here. As far as my agreement with Loop, I was under the notion that she was simply saying that Satanism is not a balanced nutritious religion. I did not get the impression she was condoning any anti-Satanistic behaviour.

I hope this clarifies things and gets the thread back on track.

Darakash
December 31st, 2004, 10:23 AM
ok, looks like I need to clarify myself. I don't feel that Satanists are necessarily evil and everyone's concept of 'evil' varies a little bit. They should not be attacked, especially here. This is a pagan site, therefore toleration for all religious views that are not Judeo-Christian or Muslim is necessary. and to avoid any fuss, I have nothing against Jews, Christians or Muslims participating here, but they are by definition, not pagan. I didn't feel my earlier comment was refering to Satanists and their kin evil, but rather I was hinting that they could be more prone to negative ways that would be rather unpopular here. As far as my agreement with Loop, I was under the notion that she was simply saying that Satanism is not a balanced nutritious religion. I did not get the impression she was condoning any anti-Satanistic behaviour.

I hope this clarifies things and gets the thread back on track.

EEEEK! NO NO, I was not referring to either your post, nor Loop's when I made the above statements! I was talking about the reasoning behind my Original post in this thread, which was in fact, a reaction to having seen nasty comments (disrespectfull and innacurate) about Satanists in several Pagan boards, and groups lately.....no, no, I thought that your statement was very logical and respectful and clear, as was Loops! HOLY MISCOMMUNICATION BATMAN! And by the way, since the entire thread is about the topic of agreeing/disagreeing, in a respectful manner, I don't think your post was at all "off track!"
DK

Aquarian_Moon
December 31st, 2004, 10:40 AM
Should we require everyone to post a disclaimer and credentials along with their opinion?
Wouldn't it be better to just say "I don't agree with you, and here's why"....minus the personnal attack? So very true. I sometimes forget to post a disclaimer with my opinions (and I'm talking about anything for discussion here on MW), and once I got a seemingly personal attack coming from *someone.

The trouble with opinions, is that they almost ALWAYS change over time, especially when it's 5:00 a.m in the morning, and you haven't slept for the last 24 hours. I find that most MW'ers do recognize people's opinions, and respond as such, but there are a few who don't, and this is very aggravating.

If I had to write a disclaimer below every post I make, it would probably go something as follows:

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"Notice: Anything stated in one of my posts is not necessarily an opinion of mine by 100%. I could be sleepy, I could be un-educated enough in the topic and hand, perhaps tired, hungry, frustrated, sad, or even suffering from a severe migrane from my kitten jumping on top of my head.

This does not mean to say that my opinions are uninformed, but simply in the endless process of being modified and further developed. To help accomplish this, I would ask that any responses to this 'here post refrain from commiting any personal attacks producing feelings of guilt, shame, or embarassment, because this will undoubtedbly hinder the continued improvement of my stated opinion, which is currently nothing more than a W.I.P. Thank you."

Darakash
December 31st, 2004, 10:50 AM
So very true. I sometimes forget to post a disclaimer with my opinions (and I'm talking about anything for discussion here on MW), and once I got a seemingly personal attack coming from *someone.

The trouble with opinions, is that they almost ALWAYS change over time, especially when it's 5:00 a.m in the morning, and you haven't slept for the last 24 hours. I find that most MW'ers do recognize people's opinions, and respond as such, but there are a few who don't, and this is very aggravating.

If I had to write a disclaimer below every post I make, it would probably go something as follows:

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"Notice: Anything stated in one of my posts is not necessarily an opinion of mine by 100%. I could be sleepy, I could be un-educated enough in the topic and hand, perhaps tired, hungry, frustrated, sad, or even suffering from a severe migrane from my kitten jumping on top of my head.

This does not mean to say that my opinions are uninformed, but simply in the endless process of being modified and further developed. To help accomplish this, I would ask that any responses to this 'here post refrain from commiting any personal attacks producing feelings of guilt, shame, or embarassment, because this will undoubtedbly hinder the continued improvement of my stated opinion, which is currently nothing more than a W.I.P. Thank you."

I agree with both of you and do not feel that opinions should be dissected or used to attack people; nor do I think that a disclaimer is necessary, but yours is excellent by the way :vanish:

However, there is a big difference to me between: "I think that the worship of "self" prevelant in most Satanist paths is innapropriate and therefore, I do not agree with their views" AND "Satanists are evil; they worship evil and they only follow their religion for shock value" as far as opinions go....don't you? I guess I see one as an obvious statement of opinion and a personal view, and the other at a declaration (and very disrespectul) and therefore, subject to dissection and the request by a respondent for the person to support such claims....make sense?
DK

Aquarian_Moon
December 31st, 2004, 11:00 AM
Yes, I don't see the second one as an opinion at all. It's more like a *cough up - something stated over and over again by many different people, with no facts, and no foundations.

AdNoctum
December 31st, 2004, 11:28 AM
I have to agree with Loopaleigh. I was a Satanist for quite some time. LaVey was overly reactionary because of his poor experience with Christianity. The Setians (Temple of Set) arose in response to LaVey's emotionally based views. Both groups fail to be deep enough to acknowledge how selflessness can be as rewarding if not more so than constantly satisfying our ids.

That's part of why I'm not LaVeyan, and not Setian. I realize that there are times when selflessness is necessary, and even though I grew up in a rather conservative (though not fundamentalist) Christian church, I do not harbor any ill will to Christians, or Christianity as a whole.

In my opinion, LaVey laid down the basic idea of Satanism. It's up to the individual Satanist to take that idea and mold it to fit themselves.

SacredWithin
December 31st, 2004, 12:04 PM
Well think about it - so many people new to Paganism come from religions that preach "the one true way" (snort, chuckle, laugh, whatever). It's hard to overcome that conditioning. I'm *not* making excuses for that type of behavior - discrimination is discrimination.

In addition, Satanism is so misunderstood my many of us, that we only have what the media reports about it. When was the last time the media in your area got Witchcraft/Wicca right?

This is entirely true. And it also sometimes seem that Pagans are even afraid of Satanists!

Alkhemia
December 31st, 2004, 04:18 PM
I'm going to be the voice of dissent here. :)

In all honesty, and based upon my own personal experience, I do not believe for one minute that Right Hand Path magicians/witches/pagans are any less prone to "negative ways," selfish behavior or practicing an unbalanced system. I have met many folks who get all excited about "healing the world" and "teaching newbies" while their own lives are a complete mess. I've had the same gripe with the Ceremonial Magick community; I have met far too many people who 'claim' to talk with deities, do magick to spread world peace, etc....but many of them can't muster up the magick to pay their bills consistently, lead productive lives, have healthy relationships - I find it hard to believe that such people are as magickally important as they wish themselves to be.

Perhaps it's the cynic in me, but I think a lot of folks try to 'escape' into seemingly altruistic endeavors (or pretend to be "selfless") for very selfish reasons; karmic 'brownie points,' a sense of importance because they feel disempowered in their mundane lives, trying to avoid "real life" concerns, etc. In fact, many RHP activities could be considered very self-centered - having little or no beneficial effect upon local communities or the world at large while primarily having very subjective benefits upon the individual adherent. I'm not saying this is a "bad" thing, I think that "selfishness" can (and does) serve people well, I just think it's important to be honest about it. :) As in all things, "balance" is the key.

However, just because some angsty teenager or maladjusted adult picks up The Satanic Bible, starts calling himself/herself a "Satanist/Setian/etc." and claims to wish nothing but woe upon the rest of the world - it doesn't necessarily mean he/she really knows what they are talking about or what the LHP is. It means that they are a poseur - not very different from people who read one book on Wicca and claim to be a High Priest(ess). Many Setians and Satanists I know actually do utilize RHP philosophies, they do care about the world around them and they practice within an extremely balanced system. A "system," one could argue, that is far more "balanced" than the "heal the earth, an' it harm none, we all come from the Goddess" Pagans out there.

Alkhemia

SIthErAc
December 31st, 2004, 04:43 PM
i have no real path my beliefs are my own ive made my mind up about how i see everything and that also changes from time to time. now as for people slamming other religions i believe its out of fear and stupididty like most predjudice it stems from a lack of understanding, these people dont udnerstand so they throw mud at something they think may undermine what they believe in which isnt cool but its how humans are. until others understand that everyones beliefs are going to be different there will be no peace between people with different beliefs. just my point of view here not stating any of this as a concrete fact because i dont really understand why people are like this but just know that this is the way it is.

Loopaleigh
December 31st, 2004, 05:54 PM
Darakash- I'm glad you understood what I was trying to say in my post about "the individual who doesn't hold with majority opinion" as "acceptable target". I generaly don't jump into threads like that and rant, but the title of this one got me thinking about how sometimes people who don't think like everybody else becomes an acceptable target for other people to take their frustrations and inner anger out on. I was really just using Satanism as an example, but it can be applyed to just about anyone and any place.

I have been guilty of this behavior myself and it wasn't until one time the "target" pulled me aside and informed me that this was really, really hurting her emotionaly that I got to thinking about why was I even picking on her in the first place? Oh, cause everybody else was. That's kind lame. I started looking at the "reasons" why I was picking on her and came up with "she was short" and "she walked funny", but the real reason is everybody else was doing it and it seemed funny at the time, but no one was really thinking about whether or not it might be hurting her. I realized I was a "bully" and I didn't like it. I also realized other people were making my emotional decissions for me, and I didn't like that either. Anyway, personal story.


And I in NO WAY was implying that YOU do this! That's why I added the P.S. at the end so you wouldn't feel it was directed at you! 'Cause it wasn't! I was just throwing it out there in general.


I am a person that thinks that by using the name Satanist, these groups have created more problems for themselves than using the name may be worth, but hey, know what? That realy IS an opinion!

I agree, LaVey could have called it LaVeyinism or something and reaced alot more people. It's not the entire message or philosopy of Satanism that is the problem, it's the knee jerk reaction to the name. Like I said before, some of it makes sense to me and is quite applicable to daily life, some of it I find too self centered and not balanced enough, but alot of people won't even check it out at all 'cause they can't get past the connotations of the name. I avoided learning about it for a long time because when I was young alot of people were calling themselves Satanist for shock value and knew absolutly NOTHING about it's worldview. It was the 80's and Heavy Metal was popular. :kooky:


"Notice: Anything stated in one of my posts is not necessarily an opinion of mine by 100%. I could be sleepy, I could be un-educated enough in the topic and hand, perhaps tired, hungry, frustrated, sad, or even suffering from a severe migrane from my kitten jumping on top of my head.

This does not mean to say that my opinions are uninformed, but simply in the endless process of being modified and further developed. To help accomplish this, I would ask that any responses to this 'here post refrain from commiting any personal attacks producing feelings of guilt, shame, or embarassment, because this will undoubtedbly hinder the continued improvement of my stated opinion, which is currently nothing more than a W.I.P. Thank you."

This is awesome! he he he. Kitty.

Nacken
January 18th, 2005, 02:49 AM
Hmm ...Im surprised that middle aged white guys aren't blamed for discriminating against satanists. That way, you can slam one with the other.

Lady Khaibit
January 25th, 2005, 05:05 PM
Well think about it - so many people new to Paganism come from religions that preach "the one true way" (snort, chuckle, laugh, whatever). It's hard to overcome that conditioning. I'm *not* making excuses for that type of behavior - discrimination is discrimination.

In addition, Satanism is so misunderstood my many of us, that we only have what the media reports about it. When was the last time the media in your area got Witchcraft/Wicca right?



Yeah, I'll have to agree with you on this. I'm a pagan myself, but I feel it is wrong to bvelittle or thrash someone based on a one-sided view point. Many pagans and Wiccans alike would be infuriated if someone bashed their ways... so why stoop to that sophmoric level? Who knows... it is somewhat pathetic that so many have judged before they have educated themselves on the very topic that they are bashing. It's disturbing to me, but I guess some people will never learn the true meanuing of respect for other paths.

Darakash
January 25th, 2005, 05:17 PM
but I guess some people will never learn the true meanuing of respect for other paths.

Hello! Nice of you to revive this thread....oh yeah, there is a lot of argument about what exactly it means to respect other paths. I think you would find some other threads here very interesting reads on this type of topic;
In the "Paths" forum "Watering Down the Paths, the I respect Crime" is a perfect example, also another of my posts generated some interesting conversation of a similar nature.....In the Paths forum: "Core Beliefs of your path"

So glad to see you posting so much after only being here a short time, and look forward to reading more from you.
DK

Lady Khaibit
January 25th, 2005, 06:32 PM
Hello! Nice of you to revive this thread....oh yeah, there is a lot of argument about what exactly it means to respect other paths. I think you would find some other threads here very interesting reads on this type of topic;
In the "Paths" forum "Watering Down the Paths, the I respect Crime" is a perfect example, also another of my posts generated some interesting conversation of a similar nature.....In the Paths forum: "Core Beliefs of your path"

So glad to see you posting so much after only being here a short time, and look forward to reading more from you.
DK


Yeah, I saw it and it reaaly grabbed me, I felt very compelled to speak out my opinion of this issue. Because it has become an issue. Far too many people of the Craft are turning their noses up at the way others practice and believe. Do they forget that not but 4 centuaries ago, "Witches" were hanged, burned, drowned, tortured, and executed for what they practice ( and many weren't, they were just victims in a mass hysteria caused by lack of education and ignorance! )... so why today in these modern times are some people of the path turning into the very essence of hatred and intolerance? It's becoming like a rampantly speading disease that is festering at the fabric of the Magickal communities.

It baffles me that so many are becoming more or less no better than the fundamentalists who are striving to take away our religious and spiritual freedoms. Instead of bickering amoungst each other, we, the magickal communities should be uniting against this sort of intolerant behavior. It's an oxymoron for someone to say that they love and repect everyone, as they turn their noses up at different "Craft" practioners. How is that even relavent at this point? Doesn't that in turn just make them posers?

What some people are failing to understand, is that even as we sit in our homes and refuse to accept the ways of others, there are people striving to make what WE all as a Magickal community disapear! So with that said, what side will you be on, the side that is striving to dismantle all that is Magick? Or the side that's going to be theree to keep ALL the Traditions, Paths and Sects alive? Me? I'm going fight this attitude head on!

Ok, I got a little eccentric there for a moment, but this is truly how on this matter. That being said.... discuss.