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x_pixiedust_x
January 26th, 2005, 05:32 PM
Hey guys, We'll I just copied this from my livejournal because I wasn't really sure how to explain the situation to you guys. I think it explains it ok, if you have any questions ask. Well...I don't know.

Last night was wierd.
Went to Katherines for the bbq but practically just after I arrived I receieve a message from Dad (parents are still in Lorne but come back Sunday or something) telling me they wanted me out by february. This is only four days away. I knew they were serious this time because usually its mum who threatens, and other things they said. Decided I couldn't stay at Katherines. I told everyone I felt sick and went home.

Talked to Shani on the phone, wanted to catch up or something but she was near the MCG with Jason and it seemed to far away. Tried to sleep (it was only about 7pm at this stage) but decided sleep wasn't going to happen. Ended up doing exactly the same thing I did last wednesday, getting stoned at Marks. Claire said I could crash at hers for a while. I also have a few other people I can stay with until I find somewhere more permanent. I hope I get the job at the hurstbridge fruit shop, rent in Diamond Creek is very cheap and its only two stations away, so I would move there.

I have to pay my car rego on feb seventh. I don't know if I will be able too. There is no way in hell my car will get a roadworthy so if I don't pay this I will loose my car. Its going to be a long time before I can afford a new one.

I have a few days before my parents arrive home to sort out what I am going to be doing. I think I will start packing tonight. No matter how much I try and plan what I'm going to do, I really can't see past the present moment. Although I'm forcing myself to get up, go to work, continue on with the things I have to do to get by, I feel like I could just sleep all day.

I am worried about my health. My ambulance membership runs out soon and I have to pay for a new one myself. I don't have $50 to spare. I haven't been to the doctor in at least six months because I can't afford it, and now I need to go but it just isn't possible. I don't have my own medicare card yet so bulkbilling isn't an option. I don't know what I'm meant to do, I've never been independant before. So many things have to be thought about and I don't know what I'm doing.

It's not easy to keep motivated but I'm holding onto all the optimism I can, knowing that things will work out and I will find a way. I have faith in myself to know that even if I do end up living in a dingy flat off bread and water I can still be content, and do things in my own time. Nothing ever stays the same, things are always changing.

I can see that my parents feel I have to learn things the hard way and I know things will change in the future and they will still love me but I also know this changes everything, and there will always be that anger there. We have very different views on life. Nothing can get rid of that anger.

moria636
January 26th, 2005, 06:04 PM
ITs insanley creepy how close this is to my situation and my friend... his family let him know only a little bit ago that he had to be out in feb...he owes his car payments and insurance and same with me...and either one of us have medical... I really don't know how things are handled in australia... like right know my dear the best thing you can do is ask ask ask ask ask...everyone you can get a hold of.... get advice on everything... don't spend a penny...save everything..only spend when you must...be as frugal as possible...try to find some people to crash with for a little bit while working scrapping and saving..see if anyone can help you any... also look for a room-mate or room-mates...im sure this has occured to you... prehaps we can work together...Ill do some reasearch about where you live and how things are there and see how I can help you.... ok....(I am also sending you energy of good fortune.... whatever I can do to help put things in good fortune...)... you can if you have any programs there apply for a foodstamp program... look into anything the government may offer you in your position... ive been doing that.... ask around even at a place of work (when you get a new job) or when-ever for someone that would like to move in with you.... I made a booklet and I am putting everything thats important in it... all finaces pay stubs a budget.... a list of all my purchases....get as organised as possible .....and do lots of reasearch burn green candles..... and Im going to try to find something better because I know this is'nt to helpful...im sorry...
Ill be back...
many blessings to you...and may your family have a change of heart...



do you have crisis loans or social fund??? that would be something to look into... I know we don't have them is the US>>but you may.....

moria636
January 26th, 2005, 06:11 PM
also keep looking constantly for a job all the time everyday keep looking for better and better...and look in classified ads for a place to rent because they tend to be cheaper deals reather than commercal or big owned buisiness...ya know...

x_pixiedust_x
January 27th, 2005, 06:24 AM
Thankyou Moira, its good to find someone to relate to :ringaroun
I am trying to save and am thinking of selling some things to get by. I know the worst is yet to come, but I'm still blissful knowing that I can still enjoy all the wonderful things my life has to offer.

If anything this experience was just what I needed as its making me less materialistic and its getting me closer to nature.

I may be able to get a loan but this is my last resort (as I know I'll have to pay it back eventually).

At the moment I'm just trying to get through each day and taking things as they come.

<3

Aleannah
January 27th, 2005, 11:42 AM
sending positive and caring energy your way, because that is all I am able to do to assist you...sounds like you're getting some good advice, and you are trying to think everything through, considering your time limit. :hugz:

x_pixiedust_x
January 27th, 2005, 02:54 PM
thankyou. :heartthro

After Sunday I don't plan on returning home so I'm not sure if I'll have the net anymore, I will still go on occasionally though if I don't have it. :chattin:

I still don't really know where I'm going but I have a few friends so stay with until I sort out a house of my own or find a sharehouse.

I applied for more jobs but I think on monday I will take my resume around all the local shops.

x_pixiedust_x
January 30th, 2005, 08:26 PM
update I got the job I went for :) I start tommorow.

moria636
February 1st, 2005, 11:05 AM
IM so happy to hear that...yeah!!!! good luck to you girl...

x_pixiedust_x
February 1st, 2005, 02:47 PM
thankyou :) I certainely wouldn't say everything is fixed, but it's getting there.

How are you going Moria? PM me if you like.