Grrrrrrrrrrrrufffffffffff!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SpiDer_AnGeL]

AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! man,guys are so difficult......how are you supposed to tell if they like you or not???? sheesh, some things are just confusing to me. oh well at least i have two weeks off from school to think about everything.....

[flar7]

girls are so difficult, how can you tell if they like you or not....
hey wait, maybe they have the same problems.

If a guy is shy or worried about being rejected, he will be very kind to you but avoid intimate type contact, but may flirt with the language structure and meanings if he likes you.

I have this problem. Cant tell if girls or actually women, like me or not, and then cant come out and say, "I like you **** and would like to date or get to know you better!" But am always friendly and likeable and will go out of way to be helpful for them. Moreso than say, best friends. Sometimes. :)

[Yvonne Belisle]

It's an age old question that varies from person to person. I think my 12 year old son is the only one that hasn't noticed he asks them and sees what happens. I get to put him together when the girl goes "YUCK!!!! YOU???"

[Xander67]

is on the other foot, I mean, realy.
How are we suposed to know that girls like us guys, women are like the 8th wonder of the world or something... why do girls act like they want nothing to do with us then when we leave them alone they ask if we are mad at them, its like we are doomed if we do or doomed if we dont, what happened ot plain ole communication ...open honest communication!!!???

[Starlight]

Oh! the good ole communoication is there just some people suck at it! Take a day in the life of good ole Starlight. No one feels the need to tell her anything.GGGGGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!! :scream: :dis:

[Amora]

This is a cute thread..reminds me of high school... ahh, it's bliss. :hearteyes

[Merrie]

Aah, miscommunication, frustration and other variations on craziness....joy. Amora, it's only cute if you aren't mired in it...Cuteness? I see no cuteness.
The fear of "YUCK!! YOU??" Is the worst bit...take my case for an example. I happen to be very fond of a certain young man..when I'm around him I'm happy. I feel like I absolutely glow. I'll be out all night with no sign of him, and 5 minutes before I go home, I'll spot him from a distance, he'll smile at me and wave. And it makes my day. :)But here's where the 'yuck, you' factor comes in...he likes skinny blonde cheerleader chicks. What kind of chance does a curvy brunette witchbaby have against that? And If i were to just tell him...what about this tenuous little friendship we've got going? It's better than nothing...what if I ruin it by telling him...AAARRGGHH! THIS, boys, is why we don't tell you, and we stay in this complicated uncertain little dance...
Ummm. Sorry for babbling at you, dears, I didn't set out to...

-Jessi

[flar7]

That is exactly how I feel about a certain girl I know. Being her friend she has spoken to me many times about what she wants in a man, and except for the chromosome thing, I dont got it!
Makes the heart break. But you dont want to risk the friendship and the chance of no contact. Sad and pathetic. Oh well, since I am an old man and have had love, I should be grateful for the time I had in the past.

The age thing is also a factor with this girl. I think she knows how I feel but skirts the subject. Kind. But still an arrow.

[Raevy]

Oh deary me, Teen-hell!!!! And since I'm still at school I'm sometimes suffering from it myself from time to time :razz: (though my general attitude is "Who likes me anyway?!")

Though why it's really called Teen-hell - if you don't learnt o handle it, the older you get, the harder it gets, IMO.

I know a guy who ranted months and months about a girl who was maybe looking at him and maybe not and couldn't sum up the courage to invite her for a coffee...

Hmmm.... I only can tell if other people I know have a thing for each other, but for myself the perspective is completely off. :ugh:

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

*grins quietly to herself* :D

[Amora]

Unfortunately IMO as you get older the ability to understand the opposite sex does not get any easier. It just becomes, in my case anyway, less important. I gave up worrying about it years ago. I prefer to let the cards fall where they may. I like someone, I tell them. I get shot down, I get shot down. I don't put all my eggs into one basket so rejection doesn't kill you if there are numerous options. That's just me... but I remember well what you're all talking about (not that old..only in my 20's)... :ahhhh:

[Starlight]

So in the end I guess this all sums up to say both sexes have the same types of problems only in diferent ways. Being a teenager can suck some times but then you get those rare moments that totally make up for it all. *sits in quiet revelation*

[Vegankat]

I was in the midst of Teen-hell, until I made the move.

OK, so I'm known for making moves ^_^ I'm quite assertive.

But anyway, I've known my boyfriend since we were 11. We did the Middle-school-flirty-thing, then went to different high schools. We didn't see each other for about a year and 1/2, then I saw him again at a Samhain party last October! We got to talking, and I just thought "He's my soul mate". So we got to be good friends, and in February (on Imbolc, actually!) I asked him to go to a school dance with me. He said no. But he called me later and said he wanted to see a movie with me! And February 6th we were officially dating! And it's been nearly 8 wonderful months, and we have plans for the future, and I think I have found my soul mate!

All because I'm a pushy girl who doesn't wait for Fate, but goes out to find it!

[SpiDer_AnGeL]

I'm thinking of telling him i like him.....i figured i wasnt going to see him for two weeks(we are now on break) but he just asked if i would like to get together of break....so then i would see him....sheesh. im so confused. i hate being a teenager.....

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

mmm, you're telling me, *has stopped quietly grinning to herself since this morning, and has now descended into a pit of sorrow* :(

[MistOfTheSea86]

yes this feeling is confusing as hell! BUt even THAT much more when you are homosexual and think a guy may like you... But you are not sure. URG the madness never ends!!

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

^^^ I almost know EXACTLY what you mean, cuz I'm bi...of course it's probably a lot worse for u!!

*is once more grinning quietly to herself and trying to keep heart from exploding out of chest, hehe...* :D:D:D

[slvr_phoenix]

Ha ha. :p

While I vaguely comprehend what you all are talking about, I never went through it myself. So nanner-nanner-boo-boo. :nyah:

He he he he he.

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

oh, shuttup :D

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

*since about 10mins ago, have once again turned suicidal. no, really.*

[Xander67]

awww Twink, we love you here,
who needs a real life relationship when we have....um *cries

*joins you in you pit of sorrow........Move it on over hun LOL

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

awwwwwww thanks! *has actually got over suicidal mood since yestreday, and, although not brill, and cried herself to sleep last night, is feeling considerably better* :)

[Starlight]

Pits of sorrow suck.. fits of laughter are funner! I myself have given up on the dating scene (yes ,eventhough I'm 17) I find it too stressful and in the end not really worth it (for me anyway). Living a life as a dateless wonder is better for me than to have to deal with living a life of heartbreak ( I've been there too many times). If there is a special person out there for me than he'll just have to come and find me cuz Starlight has given up!! :shot:

[Raevy]

Uff. Never been to a date and don't really feel comfortable with the idea of ever going to one... (though I'm nearly 20 and supposed to be out there mining for relationships :meanface: Ungh!)

But then, my attitute isn't really helpful... No matter if guy or girl, I want someone to love and love me back, not too much fluff. No Disco-girl here, sorry :eek:

Hugs to all unfrotunate Singletons... Let's here it (and together now: :wah: !!!!!!!!!!)

[SpiDer_AnGeL]

man i am so buffudled!!!!!! why must this all be so confusing??? i think im going to give up on it all.................not fret,i guess... *sheesh*. sorry for i dunno,whining, i guess. yeah, i'm going to end this. adios and blessed be-
brittney

[Starlight]

Yeah Raevy!!!!!!!! I'm not alone!!!!!! thank the Goddess!!!!!!! Just call me the .........................DATELESS WONDER!!!!!

:nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono: :nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono::nonono:

[Amora]

I could fit into that dateless thing...cept it doesn't make me sad...I'm fortunate enough to know what I want just wondering if the Goddess has made him yet... Way too picky I guess ;)

[GoddessofWisdom]

Originally posted by SpiDer_AnGeL
AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! man,guys are so difficult......how are you supposed to tell if they like you or not???? sheesh, some things are just confusing to me. oh well at least i have two weeks off from school to think about everything.....


If they ignore you, make fun of you, take care of your children, publicly humiliate you , spend more time with their computer than they spend with you, etc...ect.... then they like you. :P just kiddin

People are so different that there is no one type of guy or girl so It's impossible to figure out if they like you. UNLESS you walk up to this guy and ask him
There's always the direct approach


(ok, done with my early morning, pre-coffee ranbling.)

[GoddessofWisdom]

Originally posted by Amora
I could fit into that dateless thing...cept it doesn't make me sad...I'm fortunate enough to know what I want just wondering if the Goddess has made him yet... Way too picky I guess ;)



It's good to be pick sometimes. I wasn't picky and I ended up 18, pregnant and divorced :/


I wouldn't give my daughter up for the world


No regrets, it's the only way to die