HaM Activated - Yvonne Thomas

[Kaylara]

Here was the initial pm I was sent:
Our situation
Ok currently we have been without water for a number of days we have a small trickle in the downstairs bathroom sink but it isn't much. We had one pipe pop in the basement thankfully after a shut off valve so it is off that or it is frozen so it isn't leaking anymore. That is the house situation then we have our darling car. The windshield had a small crack in it but with the defrosting that has needed to be done to go anywhere it now extends into the drivers side of the window from the passenger side. Plus our wiper motor has died on us. We can install a new one if we can get the part. Then to add insult to ingery yesterday our water pump died on the car so our only means of transportation is basically dead for the moment except very very short hops. Again we can replace it if we can get the part. We might be able to take the bus to the grocery store but there is no way we can bring back enough groceries for a family of seven and bus fair isn't cheap. With Richard only working with his drill we have no means for him to job hunt since we are rural he has to be able to go into the cities to continue to look for work. Until we can get that car fixed our income is a grand total of $400 a month with no foodstamps we let them go when we moved here after the navy said they were going to activate him. Without the car we can't get to the office to reapply either. This is a tight and uncomfortable situation.
Eve

Now, yesterday things got worse and I received this pm from Yvonne:

This has not been a good week. We have been handwashing the laundry because the washer and dryer quit so we got a visit from children and youth. The childrens clothes stink. As if that wasn't enough I just had a visit from code enforcement. I have till Monday to fix the plumbing leak in the upstairs bathroom and replace the ceiling in the dining room from the water damage. Plus I need to put doors on my garage. The car still needs the new motor for the wiper and pump for the water we can't drive it the way it is. I am shaking and trying not to cry. If our house is condemed because we don't get it fixed we have no where to go and no money I will lose the children since there will be no where for me to take them. If there is anyway help a member can help us we would really apreciate the help I have no where left to turn.
Eve

If anyone can help us help her, it will be greatly appreciated. Please contact myself, or another administrator if you want to donate items or need more info.

Thank you,
Kaylara

Edited:
Ok we need the parts for the car. A wiper moter and a water pump. Whiteowls husband will put them in this weekend if we can get them.
We need drywall to replace the ceiling
We need pipes to replace the ones under the tub and new ones leading from the overflow and the drain for the tub.
We need drywall tape and plaster
Plumbers tape
hacksaw blades
a working washer and a dryer would help but the washer is more important
we need wood to make the garage doors
we need hinges for the doors
money to haul stuff to a dump would help too we have to dispose of all the stuff the prior owner left behind.
Ceiling tiles for some of the rooms would help as well there is no longer a leak in them but we won't be able to prove that unless it is pouring when the inspector comes.
Food would also be nice we can hopefully get foodstamps as soon as the car is working well enough to take us to get and turn in the forms.

If anyone wants to send gift cards for home depot or Redners market if they have that grocery store we could put them to great use the home depot more than anywhere else.
Eve


Cick HERE to Donate to the HaM Fund. (https://www.paypal.com/xclick/business=version2%40gmail%2ecom&item_name=Help%20a%20Member%20Fund%20%2d%20Yvonne%20Thomas&item_number=HAM009_YT&no_shipping=0&no_note=1&tax=0&currency_code=USD)

[Shanti]

Very Big~ hugs~ for YT. I know what a situation like this is all about. Its devastating. And rural with no car is impossible...I should know.
Is there a pay pal link we can donate through?
I want to help.

[johenn123]

Hugz for yvonne, I am doing my best with the shop to help HaM I hope the financial problem gets better, energies sending your way

[Shanti]

Ok I found the link. Kinda hard to find cause its an automatic thing to look at post instead of forum titles. But found, so I will do what I can now, hopefully more later.

[Yvonne Belisle]

I am sitting here crying I had started to loose hope. I just want to say thank you for everything the help you are giving both financial and emotional I can't even begin to say what this means to me.

[WynnJera]

Anyone know if Home Depot Cards sent from Canada ... Are they good in the US ???

[Yvonne Belisle]

They should be but you might want to call and ask. We have a home depot not that far from us.

[Shanti]

Anyone know if Home Depot Cards sent from Canada ... Are they good in the US ???
If it can be used here, that would be so awsome!!!

Poky Poky!!!!http://mysticwicks.com/images/smilies2/huepfen017.gifhttp://mysticwicks.com/images/smilies2/huepfen017.gifhttp://mysticwicks.com/images/smilies2/huepfen017.gif

[~Elise~]

Is there a paypal link that can be used to donate?

Elise

[Shanti]

Is there a paypal link that can be used to donate?

Elise Yes, go to the forums index and the link is right in the forum title, Help a Memeber Program.

Here, scroll down the forum list. link... Its in the second row!!
(http://mysticwicks.com/index.php?)

[Athena-Nadine]

I am sitting here crying I had started to loose hope. I just want to say thank you for everything the help you are giving both financial and emotional I can't even begin to say what this means to me.
_pounce_ Dear heart, I am so sorry you are going through all of this. I am more than happy to help but I won't be able to do so until Thursday or Friday. As soon as I get paid this week, I'll do what I can. :) :hugz:

[~Elise~]

I'll donate some money when I get paid on Thursday.

Elise

[Valkie]

I wish I could help with more than some suggestions...

If anyone wants to donate the car parts, they'll need to know the make, model, and probably the engine size to get the right part.

also, if there is an applience parts place nearby, it's easier to fix the washer and dryer yourself than to get a new one (except if they are over 20 years old). You'll just need the model number and make of the applience and know what part you need. I had to refurbish the drum on my dryer last year and it was only about $50 for the parts. The mechanics and electrical are fairly simple, so if you're able to do the car work yourselves, the appliences should be easy.

Oh, I almost forgot! If you live near anykind of a small city: I know that there are places around here that deal is construction surplus. One of those they buy extra off of the construction companies when they are done with thier builds. You can get materials like drywall, tile and paint dirt cheap. If they are around, you should be able to find them in either the yellow pages or with a google.

[Faeawyn]

I can't find a link :(

[Shanti]

I can't find a link :(
Look at post 10!! :)

[Yvonne Belisle]

I was just told by an adult friend of my children that if we get the materials and some funds he knows a contractor that can come and help us fix this stuff really cheap. We don't know price yet and we of course would be helping to keep the costs even further down but with your help it looks like this will end up even better than we could have hoped for. I just can't thank you all enough.

[Faeawyn]

Done :)

[WynnJera]

Canada update .... as per the Home Depot Site ... there are no Canadian gift cards ... there are for the US ... Great cuz it does say you can order online and mail from your addy and send to somewhere else ... I clicked on the link .... bad news ... I must live in the US to have this be done .... So is there an addy to send a personal chq to as I do not have any $$ in my paypall account and Home Depot will not let me buy a gift card ....

[Raidenmaru]

Regarding the car: Don't wait for it to get working. Spoiled Americans (and some other countries) are too reliant on vehicles. The Chinese know how to do it with bicycles (the most dence % of bikes in the world), as does the rest of Asia. Try public transporstation if there is any, and carpooling if there isn't. And Europe, while equally intrigued with personal vehicles, uses motorscooters (like Segway, except ethanol powered).

[~*Ginger*~]

:hugz:
Yvonne, you might also want to check out the freecycle (http://www.freecycle.org/) site for your area.

[Sequoia]

Regarding the car: Don't wait for it to get working. Spoiled Americans (and some other countries) are too reliant on vehicles. The Chinese know how to do it with bicycles (the most dence % of bikes in the world), as does the rest of Asia. Try public transporstation if there is any, and carpooling if there isn't. And Europe, while equally intrigued with personal vehicles, uses motorscooters (like Segway, except ethanol powered).

First off, please get a sense of appropriateness to a situation AND a little sympathy. Calling a woman who is trying to find the funds to KEEP HER CHILDREN "spoiled" is rather asinine of you, not to mention incomprehensably insensitive.

She has four children and very little funds right now. Buying bikes for the whole family in an urban, dangerous streetway area, is a pretty lame idea. I'm not sure, but she probably has quite a ways to go to get to work, and in that area, it wouldn't be safe for the kids to ride their bikes to school. See a thread from quite some time ago about a kid being killed right in their neighbourhood.

Yvonne, I'm so sorry to hear about this happening to you. I can't donate right now, but you and your family are definately in my prayers.

[Wintersteel]

:hugz: Hang in there hon.. sounds like help is on the way.. :ringaroun Is there an address where I may send something to help?? Do you have a walmart in your area, or any other large chain grocery store?? Please let me know how I can help..

Your in my prayers and thoughts!!

Love and Light,

Wintersteel

[Yvonne Belisle]

While bikes would be wonderful carrying groceries for a family of seven to and from the store three miles away isn't an option. Bussing enough groceries for a family our size isnt either. We only just moved here in October and I am afraid that with arthritis in my knees, hips, lower back and neck I hybernate in the winters due to pain with the weather. I really haven't had a chance to make any friends here yet. I need to get the seven year old to a dentist and I am not up to biking over mountains with a seven year old who doesn't know how to ride a bike. If it were not for those things I would love to use a bike instead of a car. I miss riding but unfortunitly am no longer physically capable.

I have had a request in for three towns on freecycle for a washer and dryer that work. So far no luck but I got some books for my youngest who is learning to read and dishes when we dropped the box from our prior home. We are still replacing bits of belongings due to a bad move thanks to my prior landlord. Thankfully what is lost is nonessential items I can take years to replace and not feel the loss of.

As for Walmart yes we have a super walmart a few towns over. As soon as the car is working we can get to it.

I really can't say thank you enough to all of you seeking to help us find not just a temporary solution but a more perminant solution to this.

[BrigidMoon]

While bikes would be wonderful carrying groceries for a family of seven to and from the store three miles away isn't an option. Bussing enough groceries for a family our size isnt either. We only just moved here in October and I am afraid that with arthritis in my knees, hips, lower back and neck I hybernate in the winters due to pain with the weather. I really haven't had a chance to make any friends here yet. I need to get the seven year old to a dentist and I am not up to biking over mountains with a seven year old who doesn't know how to ride a bike. If it were not for those things I would love to use a bike instead of a car. I miss riding but unfortunitly am no longer physically capable.

I have had a request in for three towns on freecycle for a washer and dryer that work. So far no luck but I got some books for my youngest who is learning to read and dishes when we dropped the box from our prior home. We are still replacing bits of belongings due to a bad move thanks to my prior landlord. Thankfully what is lost is nonessential items I can take years to replace and not feel the loss of.

As for Walmart yes we have a super walmart a few towns over. As soon as the car is working we can get to it.

I really can't say thank you enough to all of you seeking to help us find not just a temporary solution but a more perminant solution to this.


Is there an grocery chain that happens to deliver? They may be online and possibly you can order everything and have it delivered too. Have you tried: http://www.netgrocer.com/

If you are online perhaps this could be an option for you.

We didn't have water for many days last year and it was horrible! It took a lot of money and we had to skip some bills in order to get plumbers in and fix it. Nick was under the trailer in negative degree weather trying to heat the pipes back up.

I sent a little bit that will hopefully go a long way!

[Yvonne Belisle]

Unfortunity Kaylara and I looked into the netgrocer stuff at the begining of this. They just don't deliver to our area. We did find freeze dried foods and dehydrated ones but the cost is higher than the grocery store here.

[Amethyst Rose]

Canada update .... as per the Home Depot Site ... there are no Canadian gift cards ... there are for the US ... Great cuz it does say you can order online and mail from your addy and send to somewhere else ... I clicked on the link .... bad news ... I must live in the US to have this be done .... So is there an addy to send a personal chq to as I do not have any $$ in my paypall account and Home Depot will not let me buy a gift card ....

That's really odd, Wynn.... I've bought gift cards at Home Depot before.... just this past summer, actually, for a house warming gift. I don't know if they can be used in the US, but you can get them.

Edit: Ohhh... you meant from their website...sorry, should have read better the first time. I just gave what I can, Yvonne.... wish I could do more. *hugs*

[WynnJera]

That's really odd, Wynn.... I've bought gift cards at Home Depot before.... just this past summer, actually, for a house warming gift. I don't know if they can be used in the US, but you can get them.

Edit: Ohhh... you meant from their website...sorry, should have read better the first time. I just gave what I can, Yvonne.... wish I could do more. *hugs*


Here is a link for the Canada site of Home Depot ... no mention of Gift Cards ....

http://www.homedepot.ca

but then there is a link that says visit our US site .... so I clicked it ....

it takes you to ...

http://www.homedepot.com

under the gift center in the Canada site ... no gift cards ...

Under the gift center in the US site there is a gift card FAQ and an order now area ....

This is from the FAQ page ...

What is a Gift Card?
A Home Depot gift card is a plastic card that may be used toward the purchase of merchandise at any Home Depot or EXPO Design Center store, in Whole dollar amounts between $5 and $5,000 can be given.

What forms of payment do you accept?
We accept Visa, MasterCard, American Express, Discover, and the Home Depot Consumer Credit Card.

Can I buy the gift card and have you send it to someone else?
We can ship your Home Depot gift cards to anyone with a valid street address in the United States. We cannot ship gift cards to Post Office boxes or addresses outside of the U.S. at this time.

Do you ship overseas?
At this time we ship gift cards only to U.S. street addresses.

Are Canadian cards available?
Please visit your local Home Depot store in Canada to purchase them. We intend to offer online sales of Canadian gift cards in the near future.

I can not get a card to ship unless I live in the US ... I need a valid US addy to ship to a valid US addy ... So if there is somewhere I can send some personal piggy bank savings... I would love to try and help .... :hugz:

For those that live in the US and want to help out ... here is the Home Depot Info to send a Gift card from your US city to Yvonne....

[Yvonne Belisle]

Thanks to my kids we have a contractor that will do the labor free of charge. We just have to help him with it and supply the materials. I am a bit stunned by this. He said as we get the money for other jobs that need to be done in the house he will supply labor for those too. Apparently he once needed help as bad as we do now and someone helped him so now when he can he helps others.

[Amethyst Rose]

If you really want to send a gift card, Wynn, your best bet would be to go to the store, ask if they're valid in the states, and buy one, then mail it. :)

[Cinnamon Girl]

Just noticed this thread - I hope I wasn't too late to help.

Yvonne, I'm sorry you're in this situation right now but glad to know the contractor is helping you out. :hugz:

[Know Your Rights]

I too just noticed this thread, and though I can't send anything to help the situation monetarily, I'll certainly keep you in my thoughts. It sounds like things are starting to look up, though.

Blessed be.

[Yvonne Belisle]

I have seen people say the energy sent by people on this board doesn't do jack in a bad situation but I have seen the truth too. There is magic here and when so many push so hard for good to go someone's way I have seen amazing things happen. This place and all of you are amazing and the good energy really does help. I don't think my kids friend would have shown up at my door without people willing the universe to help when they couldn't be here to help. Plus knowing I have so many people behind me helps me to have enough faith to keep pushing forward instead of giving up when things are hard. When I went to Kaylara I didn't want to she is my friend and has been there for me for so long I didn't want to burden her with something else but I didn't know where to turn. I was afraid and had nearly given up then not only did Kaylara make sure people knew we were in trouble but all of you wonderful people were suddenly there sharing the burden I was trying to carry. Any burden shared is that much lighter and this was no exception. The load is still heavy and the road is hard but knowing I am not alone has brought life back into the steps I take and strength back into my arms to carry that which I must. Never think that just because you can't help with money that you are not helping in a way that is just as important. The one without the other wouldn't help but together they are far more powerful and life altering. Thank you.

[BrigidMoon]

I have seen people say the energy sent by people on this board doesn't do jack in a bad situation but I have seen the truth too. There is magic here and when so many push so hard for good to go someone's way I have seen amazing things happen. This place and all of you are amazing and the good energy really does help. I don't think my kids friend would have shown up at my door without people willing the universe to help when they couldn't be here to help. Plus knowing I have so many people behind me helps me to have enough faith to keep pushing forward instead of giving up when things are hard. When I went to Kaylara I didn't want to she is my friend and has been there for me for so long I didn't want to burden her with something else but I didn't know where to turn. I was afraid and had nearly given up then not only did Kaylara make sure people knew we were in trouble but all of you wonderful people were suddenly there sharing the burden I was trying to carry. Any burden shared is that much lighter and this was no exception. The load is still heavy and the road is hard but knowing I am not alone has brought life back into the steps I take and strength back into my arms to carry that which I must. Never think that just because you can't help with money that you are not helping in a way that is just as important. The one without the other wouldn't help but together they are far more powerful and life altering. Thank you.

I know how it is to not have water. :(

:rubhead:

[Druidess Cara]

I hope things go better once you get yourself situated! Lots of hugs and luck sent your way! I donated :)

[~Elise~]

I donated yesterday, as well.

Elise

[Celtique]

I donated as much as I could. Good luck, and know you are in my thoughts.

[bluecat]

I sent what money I could, wish I could send more. I do send you strength and support.

Blue

[audi]

im sending big hugs and lots of energy your way! hang in there! *hugs* :hugz:

[SSanf]

As widowed mother of seven with small means I know EXACTLY what you are going through.

My Witch shop sent a very tiny donation which I wish could have been more. But, I know with your situation you have developed and fine tuned the skills to make a great deal from a very little.

Hang in there. And, F child protective!!! NOTHING is better for those kids than staying together with each other and the parents who love them no matter how challenging and humble the circumstances.

Some day you will all remember these as the good days when you were together and could withstand all things as long as you had each other.

Those hard times were some of the best times of my life.

[LadyAutumnCat]

I wanted to extend my energies and thoughts out to you and your family. I'm not in a financial situation right now that would allow me to donate. Therefore, I am sending you strong love and strength.

[Autumn]

Is there a Lowes nearby?
It's a chain like home depot. I have a $20 Lowes card...

[suziq326]

I am sending healing energies to you and your family and lighting a candle for them. I am sorry I would donate money if I could but I am in a finacial mess right now. So I hope my prayers and blessings will be enough. I know that the God and Goddess work in mysterious ways, so I know everything will work out. God and Goddess bless you and send them all the help they need.

Blessed Be,
Suziq326

[Puppetmaker40]

I donated what I could. I hope that it helps. Please keep us updated.
PuppetMaker

[Athena-Nadine]

I sent you something through PayPal.

:hugz:

[Adelina]

I am very sorry about all of that what happened.
I want very much to help but I have a little problem - I live in East Europe, Bulgaria.
I hope that everything will be allright and if there is aniting I can do pls let me know.

[Stheno]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will send what i can when money comes thorugh next week.

Stay strong,

Stheno

[Saone]

I too know what a series of unfortunate events (no pun intended!) can do to a person...they can really push you to your limits.
for this reason i will be lighting a candle tonight and sending thoughts and energy to enable a quick resolution to this harassing time!
Bright blessings
saone

[Aine of the Fae]

:hugz:
Yvonne, you might also want to check out the freecycle (http://www.freecycle.org/) site for your area.

I LOVE Freecycle!!!! I've gotten stuff and donated a LOT of stuff through there! We're getting rid of a couch through my local freecycle list and they are all awesome people!

[Rian]

Unfortunately my husband and I can't donate anything right now... we are in a bit of a mess ourselves, but I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

If I come across anything we might have that you could use I will try to get it to you!

[Yvonne Belisle]

Yes we have a Lowes around. It is a couple of towns over.

Please trust me the well wishes and good thoughts mean just as much to me as the monitary help.

[GreenDawn]

I saw this in my email and it just broke my heart. I my small tax return deposited this morning and donated what I could. I haven't been around the thread for a while, but always glad to help where I can. Your are in my thoughts!!

[FaerieLuma]

Yvonne, I'm sorry that your going through a difficult situation. I'm here to support you, I hope everything gets better real soonfor you and your family. :hugz:
As soon as I can I'll be sending something thorough Paypal.

[bridgewitch]

I sent you something through PayPal.

:hugz: Please just pay it forward and hug those babies and yourself too! This is what we are here for--each other!

[Mainedruid]

E-mail me the Make, Model, Year, 4 cyl? 6 cyl? any info possible

mjmathiau@yahoo.com

example:
2002 Subaru Impreza WRX, 4 cly 2.0 liter w/turbo, all-wheel-drive

I can come up with 1 of if not both parts and will ship them UPS, If your in the Northeast I'll deliver them and install them.

Mechanic by trade, have tools will travel.

Best wishes and best of luck to you and your family.

Mike :thumbsup:

[Pagan Taoist]

I have to say this thread has been both bitter and sweet for me. My heart breaks knowing you guys are going through so much all at once, yet the community comming together like this is amazing! I don't get paid again until the 25th, and will be happy to donate what I can when that day rolls around. Until then :hugz: my best wishes and energy is being sent to you and your family.

[DreamSpell333]

Art and I are so very sorry that things have been so bad for you,richard and the kids. We send our energy to you and hope that things get better soon. We too know how it is to have things go wrong all at the same time. We've had our share of car trouble this year also. We have no heat in our car,the heater blower went and we dont have the money to fix it right now,both batterys went in both our vehicles. we just got a battery for my van,so Hannah wont be cold,but I feel for you. We dont have much Money right now either,but our thoughts and prayers are with you! ***Huggs***

DreamFulWitch & Silentwolf
(Melissa & Art & Hannah :) ) :fpompoms

[Cornflake_Girl8]

Habitat for Humanity and other organizations give grants to people in need like this.

Check it out.

[rainmaker]

Paypal is the bestest. It makes giving so easy. :nonono:

I hope things get better for ya soon, Yvonne! *hugs*

[BlessedByTheGoddess]

I wanted to say my peice on this too.


I am so sorry that you and your children and husband are going through this, but I donated a little and I do hope that it can go along way. Where are you located at??


If there is anyone who wants to donate now and doesn't get paid for a while, let me know and I can donate for you and let you pay me back. Just email me at alwaysasweetheart@gmail.com


I hope that things get better! Blessed Be!

[Yvonne Belisle]

We are in Lansford Pennsylvania. I just want to say thank you to everyone.

[AmethystMoon]

I 'm not sure where this goes just wanted to say something and hope it isn't taken the wrong way.

I just read the email about the gall with the frozen pipes, broke windshield and such. Every yr, whether it be winter or summer I have the problem with the well going dry, pipes freezing or pump going out, every year I have to haul water from hwere ever I can get it and shower when I can, be it river or rental. I too have a busted windshield and am afraid to drive to the city to get it fixed for fear of shattering in my face, even if I find the curage I don't have the funds needed on SSI. I could go on in ways I always need help in the same directions as other but learned long ago I can only depend on myself and I make due. Through the walk I have realized we depend to much on thse things and way to much on expecting another to care for them for us. Don't get me wrong, this HaM thing sounds like it could be a good idea if it is used with respect but I feel it will be taken advantage of and when the ones that do donate, need the help it won't be there. I also know the days, months and yrs ahead are going to be harder yet. to the point that our basics needs won't even be cared for. we all and I include myself in this, we need to start excepting these things as they happen and go on with out looking to another to take care of them for us and learn to live with out. and you will become a much happier person and more self sufficiant in the process. Take Care and Always be Safe

[OKie Wonder Wytch]

Hang in there dont give up ur hope. I know what ur goin thru & it does seem overwhelmin but remember that Spirit will not put more on us then we can stand. Keep ur faith strong & trust that Spirit is with u thru this whole thing. I wish I could do more then just my words & prayers but I live on a very limited imcome that is abotu to be cut in 1/2 by the USA Gov. SO all I have is my prayers for yall. But prayers do work. I just watned to give u a lil more incouragement.

OKie Wonder WyTch

[Yvonne Belisle]

Thank you.

[Amethyst Rose]

I 'm not sure where this goes just wanted to say something and hope it isn't taken the wrong way.

Don't get me wrong, this HaM thing sounds like it could be a good idea if it is used with respect but I feel it will be taken advantage of and when the ones that do donate, need the help it won't be there. I also know the days, months and yrs ahead are going to be harder yet. to the point that our basics needs won't even be cared for. we all and I include myself in this, we need to start excepting these things as they happen and go on with out looking to another to take care of them for us and learn to live with out. and you will become a much happier person and more self sufficiant in the process. Take Care and Always be Safe

I get the feeling that you weren't trying to be hurtful, but I did read this as being really disrespectful, and sounded like you were looking down on someone for needing help. That you think that Yvonne should just suck it up and work harder.

The HaM program has been up and operating for a VERY long time. It's not opened for just anyone, it's opened for people with real need, through no fault of their own. Each case is considered very carefully and discussed before the program is opened.

This wasn't just a matter of someone being without water or a car...this was about someone's children being at risk because of it, among other things. We in this forum care about each other - a lot. If we can help, we do. Yet, I feel from your post that you think it's a scam.

If that's the case, fine, don't donate. But don't get down on the program or Yvonne, just because you don't feel the need warrents help.

[wiccanadri]

dearest Yvonne, i'm so sorry to hear what u're going thru and hope that all loose ends meet soon! ...:hearthear i cant make a money donation but i can offer you healing energy and prayer.

i know what its like to not have any money cus u cant find a job cus u dont have a car to go get the job, no electricity, no food, etc. .... it was my reality too, not too long ago. BUT let not this hard situation bring u down ..and tell yourself "its only a bump on the road" .. Spirit will not leave u alone and the angels are by your side at all time.
so dont feel beat, instead ask the angels for strength and clarity of thought, ask them to aid u in finding a quick way to make some extra bucks while u figure out a permanent fix.
for example ... do u cook? or bake?! :) ... this is what i did and it helps! financially and spiritually.. and u say you have a large family, right? well .. make it a family mission and have everybody bake something good and sell it or do a raffle, or how about art? no artists in the fam? .. or have like a garage sale .. although u live in NJ .. it may be too cold right now, but u get it right? ... this way it helps u and your family members focus on a solution and not on the problem, thus everyone's spirit will be lifted, positive thoughts will rule over the negative ones cleansing the air around the house and who knows.. the idea for a permanent solution might light up someone's bulb!
:huddle: :colorful: :idea:

Spirit works in mysterious ways! :sunny:

_wiz_ May Our Mother God Pour Her Shining Light Of Love Over You And Your Family.

[Suzette]

Hmmm... I sent in $$ as soon as I got the email. Tried to post on the thread in the HaM section as was denied! Noticed this one here, thought I'd jump in.

I don't think it takes much for us to pitch in a few dollars. I count my blessings that I can, and I'm certainly not wealthy. I know I'd be pretty frightened if it were getting down to losing my kids...

Hope a nice chunk has been raised for them.

[AutumnFire]

I have lit a candle. My heart goes out to you. I canna do anything this month, but I will send a lil help next month. I have 8 kids all grown now, but after my husband passed away in 1981, I used to struggle alot. Many times I washed clothes out on a rub-board. The important thing is to keep your family together! Love and being with those you love can work miracles. May the ancient Ones enfold you within their loving light. :flowers: :flowers:

[dizzydormouse]

Here was the initial pm I was sent:
Our situation

Edited:
Ok we need the parts for the car. A wiper moter and a water pump. Whiteowls husband will put them in this weekend if we can get them.
We need drywall to replace the ceiling
We need pipes to replace the ones under the tub and new ones leading from the overflow and the drain for the tub.
We need drywall tape and plaster
Plumbers tape
hacksaw blades
a working washer and a dryer would help but the washer is more important
we need wood to make the garage doors
we need hinges for the doors
money to haul stuff to a dump would help too we have to dispose of all the stuff the prior owner left behind.
Ceiling tiles for some of the rooms would help as well there is no longer a leak in them but we won't be able to prove that unless it is pouring when the inspector comes.
Food would also be nice we can hopefully get foodstamps as soon as the car is working well enough to take us to get and turn in the forms.

If anyone wants to send gift cards for home depot or Redners market if they have that grocery store we could put them to great use the home depot more than anywhere else.
Eve


Cick HERE to Donate to the HaM Fund. (https://www.paypal.com/xclick/business=version2%40gmail%2ecom&item_name=Help%20a%20Member%20Fund%20%2d%20Yvonne%20Thomas&item_number=HAM009_YT&no_shipping=0&no_note=1&tax=0&currency_code=USD)


I can send a small food package and clothing etc. for the children. I just need to know sizes/ages for the children & an address to send to.

Dizzydormouse xx

[Morgaine_cla]

As someone who is also living on $500/month, and has just had the owner of the rent-to-own house we've been working on for a year inform us it is going on the market NOW, and who have lost our jobs, two friends, one father-in-law, and our only car all in the same month... I can definitely relate. I cannot imagine trying to survive this with children too!...

My Sister, our hearts are with you at this time. If we had any physical resources ourselves we would gladly send them, but as we do not we will send what we have. We are both Avalonian and Reiki healers and we will keep you and your children in our healing work until your situation stabilizes! Know that you are not alone. Your friends here are with you. Spirit is with you. And though we have spoken but little here since joining, due to circumstances, we are with you too...

This will pass. It will get better! It will be, in the end, for your highest good. Try to feel the flow of Creation and move with it... Remember to take time to notice what is beautiful around you, call out to the beauty and abundance in the world and invite it into your life with gladness... The times may be dark, but it is a great blessing to know that there are still people determined to shine their light!

Love, healing, protection and abundant peace and blessings to you --

Morgaine & Myrddin

[Morgaine_cla]

I too have learned that we must each be prepared to carry our own burdens... but the Gods have also taught me the foolishness of pride that refuses to ask when help is truly needed. As one who has always had trouble admitting I needed help, I can say with absolute certainty that the only true course, is a balanced course. A community, as I see it, is not there to do the work for me; but if its members cannot come together to support each others' survival then there is no community at all. We are not jaguars... we are not leopards living in isolation. We are humans and we live in hosts - whether they be tribes, towns, or spiritual communities. The members of a community all have a responsibility to support themselves and to contribute to the support of the whole...

Ask any wilderness survivalist how long you will really last alone, even with the best training. It's just not in our genetics. Yes, it's true that some people may try to abuse the privilege, but if we are all adults then we can address these cases as they come. It may not be pleasant, but it's part of being adults in community.

Just my two cents.

May those who are in need find peace and be restored to wellness.

Bendithion

[AutumnFire]

I willna be able to do much cause I am on disability, but next month I will do what I can...where would I send a gift card to? hang in there!

[LadyWillowHawk]

:rubhead:I can relate exactly to your situation.At Yue I had no gifts for the children,My bathroom ceilng leaks into two pots and I am afraid the ceiling is going to fall,my hall stairway leaks into three pots and the livingroom floor sacks when someone walks on it and I am afraid my livingroom will be in the basement,a sunken livingroom :wth: .I certainly know where you are coming from,but it gets really serious when the threat of your kids being taken away stares you in the faces.My heart goes out to you and your family!!! I am living on $400.00 a month,and the bills add up to more than I get,so I will keep a candle lit for you, I send all my love and positive energy,and I will keep you in my heart and prayers. :hugz:
Hang in there!!! :huddle:

BB
and Love :heartthro ,
LadyWillowHawk

[Kalika]

:hugz:

Yvonne, I wish I was closer so that I could come out and pitch in.

I gave what I could, wish it could be more!!!

Keep us posted on how you are doing.

Blessings,

Kalika

[Fluffmeister]

Hmmm... I sent in $$ as soon as I got the email. Tried to post on the thread in the HaM section as was denied! Noticed this one here, thought I'd jump in.

I don't think it takes much for us to pitch in a few dollars. I count my blessings that I can, and I'm certainly not wealthy. I know I'd be pretty frightened if it were getting down to losing my kids...

Hope a nice chunk has been raised for them.
My sentiments exactly, Suzette. And Yvonne has said that there's a contractor who'll do the work without charging labour costs, just materials, so every dollar/pound/euro/peso donated will go a long way!

[TripsieD]

I don't what the current situation is (just saw the thread), being broke myself I can't send money, however, thoughts, prayers and energies are heading your way. Not being content with just that, I'll go one better :) having been in construction, I'm pretty well aware of what's needed, I realize you have a contractor, but if you need an extra set of hand over a weekend, PM before Friday and I can head out there and help out. I'm in NJ, so anywhere in PA isn't that far of a haul...besides, I happen to love driving so it's not like it's gonna put me out. Just let me know when and where and I'm on my way.

Love and light to you and your family, I'm routing for ya.

[Yvonne Belisle]

Well we are waiting on a part for the tub. As soon as we have that we can put up the ceiling. Good news is that the inspector can't come while there is snow on the ground and fate is smiling for once she keeps sending snow. It is buying us a little time to finish this up.

[anubis' child]

Why did it go this far to get with? Do you own or have a landlord? the landlord if you rent should be held responsible. Is there no family there to help you? Or agencies? Can you sell or pawn something to begin with? Not to be cynical here, but sell your computer, ect. to get some things done for starters.No I am not heartless, but why let it go this far to start with and it is understandable to be cynical when someone applies for help online and you do not even know them. this could be a scam. I know you love your kids, but perhaps they would be better off in foster where they can have decent housing, ect? think about it.

[Amethyst Rose]

You know..... you may not know Yvonne, but those of us like me, who have known her for years, do. She's a wonderful, caring, and supportive woman, mother and friend, and I consider myself lucky that I have met her. Friends help each other and care for each other, and the people of this forum are more than friends, we ARE family. Friends don't ask questions about how it happened.... friends help out with the problem as it exists, now.

And how DARE you, imply that Yvonne's kids would be better off somewhere else. How DARE you!!? Of all the, insuting and hurtful things to say! If you don't want to help then don't, in the mean time, take your attitude somewhere else.

[Fluffmeister]

Why did it go this far to get with? Do you own or have a landlord? the landlord if you rent should be held responsible. Is there no family there to help you? Or agencies? Can you sell or pawn something to begin with? Not to be cynical here, but sell your computer, ect. to get some things done for starters.No I am not heartless, but why let it go this far to start with and it is understandable to be cynical when someone applies for help online and you do not even know them. this could be a scam. I know you love your kids, but perhaps they would be better off in foster where they can have decent housing, ect? think about it.
This is the most spiteful post I've ever come across on MW. What a shame.

And while we're on the subject of "credentials" - Yvonne has been here since 2001; I notice you only joined up today. If I can smell a scam, I don't think it's coming from Yvonne's quarters...

[Yvonne Belisle]

My computer is my only source of communication with people in my family. I can't sell it I can't replace it. We own and this was leaking when we bought the house but not bad. It was a matter of timing. Kaylara knows us personally and has been a guest of ours in our last home before she knows for a fact that we are not lying and had Mol requested it I could have supplied him documentation for all of it. Mol is very careful with who he asks for help with this community as he wants this program to help people who genuinely need it. My computer allows me to keep my inlaws aware of what is going on it lets my children get the extra help they need for school, it keeps me sane because with the weather I can't leave the house, it keeps me informed about the world I live in and since I didn't pay for it I can't sell it. A friend bought it for me on the condition that when I moved I used it to keep in contact with her. I keep that deal and will not go back on it.

[Amethyst Rose]

:hugz: Yvonne....don't pay any attention to that person, and by all means don't let them make you feel bad. We know you and care for you, and that's all that matters. :)

[Yvonne Belisle]

I would give you a poke but it says I did it too recently :dis:

[Fluffmeister]

:hugz: Yvonne....don't pay any attention to that person, and by all means don't let them make you feel bad. We know you and care for you, and that's all that matters. :)
Absolutely! Well said, Amethyst Rose - and I don't know Yvonne personally (because I generally just tend to hang out on the Astrology forum here), but if we can see people are genuinely in trouble and we can afford a few quid to help then we don't have to "know" them to be able to help out. Because even if I don't know Yvonne, I *do* trust this community at MW. And I certainly trust it a damn site more than some individual who only signed up here today to launch a personal attack.

[Earthy]

:hugz: Yvonne.

[AutumnFire]

1st before I even start on anubis' child, let me apologise if I end up saying something you need to delete here. I will try to watch my tongue, but this has not been a good week to begin with..and now this. I have not been on for a couple of days. saturday was the anniversary of my daughter's death and even tho it's been years, the memories still strike hard and cut deep, so I took a lil sabbatical to spend time with family!

Now...on to anubis' child...I respect anyone's right to have an opinion, but opinions in order to be respected should be respectful to begin with. Your opinion here is spiteful, judgemental, and close to hateful as can be. Unless you have walked in someone's shoes, how in the world can you even begin to comprehend what they are going thru. If you do not wanna donate, no one is twisting your arm. Ignore the post if you are not interested, but to cruelelly post like you did is unexcuseable1 Don't you think Yvonne is going thru enough hell on her own? Why did you try to make it worse? When on is in pain or need you do not solve the problem by adding insult to injury!

And to suggest that welfare get involved? the government (in my opinion is in our lives enuff) would make it hard for her kids to get back home and as a parent I can safely say that her kids are probably what is giving her the strength to hold on and keep trying now. To take someone's hope from them makes a situation hopless. I do not know what kind of work you do, but I pray to the sweet Goddess it is NOT SOCIAL WORK!!!

Also how dare you insult the other members intelligence! We know enough no to let ourselves be scammed. Mystic Wicks has been offering help and prayers in one form or the other for years. I was the recipient of some of those prayers my self, recently from cancer and now remission. Also several years ago, tho I did not need any money, I needed a ride to Oklahoma to pick up my daughter who needed to be moved back here to Indiana with me. I came here and people responded with love and writing and lighting candles and yes I did end up getting a ride to pick her up. I had the money to pay for the ride, but perhaps the ride would not have turned up without the prayers of those here. I think the members here have enough common sense to know if we are scammed or not.

With an attitude like yours, I doubt Yvonne would want your help(I know I wouldna!) Thank the Gods there are others here with more compassion and love in their hearts than you! She will be fine without your attitude and negativity! /the Goddess has wrapped her within her protective arms. And in my humble opinion, it does not make you a bad parent to get into a situation or have problems. That is life and part of being human! (At this point I really wanna ask if you have a human bone in your body, but I am trying to keep it together here!) Yvonne saw her family had a problem she couldna fix on her own and reached out for help. SHE IS TRYING>>>WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT? And as part of the family of humanity, people here are reaching out to help...WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT?

I pray you grow up, get a heart, learn compassion and understanding or you will have a long and lonely empty life ahead of you!

ps Yvonne...don't let this butthead get to you hon, ok?

[Yvonne Belisle]

You are correct my kids are what keep me sane. I lost them for a month once and was nearly hospitalized for depression that I was not suffering prior to that. I would sell my butt on a street corner for the money to fix this before I let that happen again. Also before I asked for help we tried to file our taxes electronically so that we could use that money but we were rejected for electronic filing for some reason my social security number and my birthday don't match this year when they have since my parents got my card. Once it is rejected it has to be done by mail. I looked to other sources before asking here. I came here because when your children are at risk pride is a foolish commodity and one I am willing to dispense with. This community has seen me through some rough times including when I have been suicidal. I never told them but they are part of what held me together on several occasions. I have been here almost since the beginning and had my differences of opinion with members and ups and downs just like any other family. MW is my family more than the one I was born into. They are my support system emotionally. That may not be the most healthy thing but I have never been one to leave my house much and I don't make friends easily but I have put my heart and soul into this place. I have in the past been a moderator here and been an ear for people who needed me. There are members here past and present who know that I am there for them at any hour they should need me. I have given my phone number to members who are suffering from suicidal thoughts and told them to call me any hour day or night. I have spend hours online to just be there for someone who needed me and I do this not because I have to and not because I owe it to anyone. I do this because this is my family and my friends and friends and family should be there for one another. I truly believe the reason there is so much crime and hatred is because people tend to look out just for themselves. This community doesn't do that they look out for each other and that is one of the many things that makes each of them special people.

[AutumnFire]

Yvonne, I tried to e-mail you, but my darned computer keeps shutting down, so I hope you got it. Hang in there1 blessings!

[GEBS]

I don't think you need to explain why you don't sell your computer or anything else.

I am only about two hours or so from you - maybe not even that long. If there is anything I can do to help you please PM me and let me know. I don't have money to contribute since I've recently become unemployed (ugh!) but if I can help in any other way I will. Maybe I could serve as a taxi for a day if you need it.

[bluecat]

Dear, Yvonne ....

You don't have to justify anything, Hon. Just continue to be yourself and ignore those who think they are good enough to pass judgement on others without knowing everything.

Love

Blue :cool:

[bridgewitch]

sweetie, YOU dont have to apologize for a damn thing. We have all been in a bad spot, and if any readers haven't, just wait, your time is coming. I am just so grateful that we are here to help each other. I have no family close by, and if I did, they would be unsupportive, so MW is my family. If I can help someone, I welcome the opportunity, because the good you do comes back to you, which is not why I do it per se, but it always will turn out that you get what you give. I think someone needs to go back and learn some manners and in fact owes a sweet lady who is doing her best an apology for being critical and judgmental with no basis for it. Do you always start relationships off in a negative tone ? Anyway, Yvonne, again, hug the babies and thank the universe that you have them and supportive friends. I know you will pass the help you recieve forward, and things will get better for yall. BB!

[wooleybob]

Yvonne,
Hi I seen the thread and sent what i could to help out..I also vol.at our food bank here in Pa.If I may ask you a few questions...If you live in Pa...Is anyone disabled,or is working in the household?..I ask this because if someone is working in the house,the county assistance office can grant you funds up to 700.00 dollars to get your car fixed or get another car,you can only get this fund once a year..If you can not get to the office,I have paperwork here at my house(I gotta locate it) where you can apply online for cash,food stamps,and also info on how to get your car fixed...You can also try and call O.E.O.(office of equal opertunity)..They have funds also to help..Also try and contact Northwest Pa Weatherization,they can help fix your home with no cost to you..When i find other paperwork I will write you with the info...I hope you are not mad at me cause I am offering some offices to help you..I wish the best and send lots of energy your way... :hugz:

[BlessedByTheGoddess]

Yvonne!

That person is just being rude and obviously doesn't know.

I don't know you that well, but my mother has almost had her neices and nephews taken away from her and I and it's not fun. I would hate for anything to happen to you and I believe that if we all take action and keep you in much needed thought that things will get better for you!!

So just over look that and we are always here for you!!

[Rian]

Yvonne....

A package is on the way tomorrow! And another as soon as I get some things together....

I hope what I have to offer can help in some way, wether it be to keep your mind occupied or to help keep your children occupied, I hope its helpful.

Many happy thoughts heading your way...

I'm going to burn a candle for you tonight!

Rian

[Yvonne Belisle]

The weatherization says we have to live here for a year before they can help. The other services I didn't know about and will contact welfare again and bug them. I am disabled but don't receive state disability just veterans so I don't know if that will count. If I can't get some answers from the agencies here with the information you gave me I will PM you about it to get more information.

[demitri]

I was raised by single mother with grandmother's help and understand hard times. this person has hard heart. I feel sorry for them. I do not have credit card to send money, but you are in thoughts and prayers. I light a candle right now for your family.You have no reason to apologise for situation, he should apologise to you and everyone else too.

[demitri]

Would you care if my coven holds healing circle for you?

[wooleybob]

The weatherization says we have to live here for a year before they can help. The other services I didn't know about and will contact welfare again and bug them. I am disabled but don't receive state disability just veterans so I don't know if that will count. If I can't get some answers from the agencies here with the information you gave me I will PM you about it to get more information.
Also try United Way,and H.U.D.... :hugz:

[AutumnFire]

I blew off steam here yesterday :halohead: , now I just wanna add something else for anubis' child to consider, for almost two years I used a computer at the public library, so just because one is on the internet does not mean they own a computer. also I once bought a computer for $50.00 at a Yard Sale. Olde, but workable. Now I share one with my daughter(internet costs, ect...), so please do not be so quick to judge someone or their circumstances.

[Yvonne Belisle]

Would you care if my coven holds healing circle for you?


We would be honored.

[Kalika]

:hugz: Yvonne.

You don't need to explain yourself... :) For those that don't understand, well, they've never been in your shoes. Don't let what one person said get you down. You have too much going on to worry about such a silly thing as a person who doesn't even know you, and their opinion.

And to add to AutumnFire's earlier comments - there is also FREE internet available now. And when you have kids, having a phone and electricity are most often priorities - which is all you need to run a computer and the internet. (besides a computer, of course.)

Again... :hugz: Yvonne. Keep us posted on how you are doing.

[demitri]

I t is bad when someone feels like they must judge someone else. anote to AutumnFire. I do not think you were wrong to vent or defend someone here. it says good things for you. To Yvinne, we meet this Frieday to have a special circle just for you and family.

[MoonDragn]

Well back to the matter at hand, Yvonne how are you doing? Can you give an update on your status?

[Yvonne Belisle]

Well we have a good amount of the materials but the contractor is busy so hasn't been working on our place. We have someone from here coming over Friday that will help us during this weekend to see how much we can do.

[MoonDragn]

So you are doing ok then or do you need more money? I am in the process of looking for a new apartment so money may be tight, but if you are still in need, I can give more to help out.

[Yvonne Belisle]

To be honest I really don't know. I should know more at the end of the weekend.

[Kalika]

:hugz:

Keep us posted!

[MoonDragn]

BTW I live about 5 mins away from Kaylara, if you need any other kind of help let me know. I think you're about 2.5 hours away.

[Yvonne Belisle]

Well if you want to come help spackle and paint this weekend you are welcome to. There will be another MW member here as well helping with the main repair work with my husband. If you want to join us please feel free to PM me I will give you the address.

[Yvonne Belisle]

We have all the materials or at least are on the way to go get them. I am going to try and get before and after pics for you guys. Because of the generosity of members we can not only get the patch work done but we can do it right and finish some things that were going to be partially done till spring. This will also make my house warmer for the winter as we can fix some spots in the attic that were sucking out the heat in this house.


Thank you all so much!!!!!!!!

[paganchef]

dear yvonne
hope all is getting better for you all, have only just seen your thread sorry to hear about what happend will ask the goddess to give you all the strength in this time of need
love and light,
bb
p.c. :sunny: _witchball

[Yvonne Belisle]

Well a quick update. It has taken three days but the plumbing is finally not leaking. The new floor goes in today in the sunroom as well as the ceilings in both the sunroom and the dining room. We found a small leak in the roof but have shingles left from the fall when we replaced the sunroom roof so we will be able to patch that ceiling and should have enough drywall left to patch the attic when we are done with the important parts. Once these things are done all that is left is getting a washer in here and we have one coming to us. Then we have to go to a pull it yourself junkyard and find a radiator for our car. That will only cost $15 and we can do that. Sadly on the drive home from fixing the other parts on the car the fan came off and punched a few holes in the radiator. One other piece of good news is the hardware store is hiring and is in walking distance so my husband will be applying there as he has a drivers lisence which they require. I had scraps of lucite that I will be cutting to fix the basement windows that are missing or broken so that is no expense just time. We also have the paint for the living room dining room and sunroom so those places that need it badly can get it. I can't thank all of you enough. We couldn't have done this without you and I am sure your prayers are behind all the snow we have had. With the snow the inspector can't inspect so you have given us a much needed extention to get this done. Again thank you please keep your prayers coming and we should be able to finish this off and find my hubbie work.

[Amethyst Rose]

I'm so glad everything's working out now, Yvonne. Let us know if you need anything else. :)

[Valerie]

Yvonne - I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts and I truly wish for the best possible outcome for you guys. :hugz: We are all faced with hardships, and the ways that we choose to handle them determine the type of human beings we become - in this lifetime and thereafter. You are such a strong person in going through what you're going through (and trust me, I've been there right alongside you) - as well as not being afraid to ask for help.

I'm sorry I didn't read this thread sooner - your latest update read that you had a washer coming to you - is this still the case? I ask because I have a spare, working washer and dryer that I'd be more than willing to give to you, so just let me know what the situation on that is. ;)

Best of luck to ya hun, and keep us updated. :hugz: _pounce_

[Yvonne Belisle]

The joists are in. Today we lay the subflooring down and rip out the ceiling in the sunroom. hopefully we even put in the new one. We are going to leave the floor in there as subflooring for now as getting tiles for it is something we can't afford right now and since it isn't something the inspector will really be able to complain about if I toss a rug over it we aren't going to worry. With the rest of the room complete even if I leave the floor as subflooring he can't complain.

[BrigidMoon]

Well it's getting there. I am glad things are finally coming together.

[Yvonne Belisle]

When the work on the sunroom and dining room are done the last major thing he can complain about is the leak we found in the roof but TripsieD is going to fix that with us too. We have left over shingles from when we bought this place and replaced the roof on the sunroom. He will just need to climb up and patch it with the shingles we have and we should have enough scrap drywall to fix the patch in the attic. Then we go back to what we were doing. Buying sandpaper and paint, stain and varnish as we can afford them. I will add to that the tiles for the sunroom floor and by this time next year the house will be a showhome. I just wish the inspector had never shown up and that we could have had time to do this at our leisure but I really love that it will be done. Much less stress.

[Penguin]

Yvonne, Keep hangin in there Babe! I know it's not easy. The next time Kay comes up to see you I'll send what I can. In the meantime you're in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of Light and Love to you and the whole family.
Big hugs! - Penguin

[Yvonne Belisle]

Thank you. By the way I was checking out your website for the buisness when I have money I will be getting my critter supplies through you. :)