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surreal
February 17th, 2005, 06:56 AM
They do!!!!

I am a male capricorn sun, vigro rising, and sag moon.

I have been hanging out with an old highschool friend I have not seen in 5 years. After nearly two months she began to really conflict with me. Just basic core personality conflicts. Her nature around the oppisite sex.

I guess we consider ourselfs good friends with each other, but I dont feel that way. I feel like nothing to her at all. We had great times 5 years ago and this day. Now I can not stand to be in the same room. I feel like I was taking advantage of. Like she raped my energy and freindship.

The first SAG I dated this happend to as well. After about a month I felt like shit with her.
She liked me and we hung out with good times but just the way inner sag works got to me and hit me HARD.

Mutable fire....what a dichotomy.

Any other cappys out there experience this with sages?

: ) : (

~*Ginger*~
February 17th, 2005, 07:38 AM
I'm Pisces with a Cappy moon.
Saggitarians, can be very overwhelming.
I've had a few friends that were Sags.
My baby sister is one, and I understand her a bit better from knowing her than other's.
They are very friendly and out going people.

Not much of a problem, really.

My rubber walls come from the Gemini pool.
(rubber, cause I always bounce back)

charmedkisses1
February 17th, 2005, 07:45 AM
I'm an aries and even they drive me crazy a few times (well, it's only one sag, way too damn skippy for me. and i'm pretty skippy sometimes.)

13thChylde
February 17th, 2005, 08:42 AM
(well, it's only one sag, way too damn skippy for me. and i'm pretty skippy sometimes.)
Hey, I'm a Sag and I resemble that remark :nyah:

shadowkiss
February 17th, 2005, 10:07 AM
i am a straight up aries, proud of it! = p an i have a twin, and she's my best friend so if someone angers me i always have someone to go vent to lol :smile: , but we both were very good friends with a saggi and found her to be quite entertaining! of course, i have traits from all across the zodiac so its never really to hard to relate..... not to mention i can get extremely bouncy :alol: *shrug* i can just get along with just 'bout everyone, really :smile: :bigblue:

arctic splash
February 17th, 2005, 11:03 AM
I'm a Sag with Capricorn rising/moon. One of the best descriptions of us: we're the ones at the supermarket who like to ride the shopping carts when everyone else says "aren't you a little too old for that?"

My Sag and Capricorn conflict in a lot of ways... and it's tough... but strangely satisfying. It sort of tones it down a bit so I'm not *so* overwhelming, but often I am... I get along best with people who like and encourage that part of me. :)

I'm sorry you don't like Sagittarians.

Fluffmeister
February 17th, 2005, 11:39 AM
Hi, Surreal -

Sag Sun with a Capricorn Moon is probably a tad easier than Cap Sun with a Sag Moon; although Moon in Capricorn is a bit subdued (probaby not a bad thing for those over-the-top Saggies!), at least it's "ahead" of the Sun. It's sort of like having something in your 2nd house.
However, Cap Sun with Sag Moon - well, that's sort of like having a 12th house Moon. Difficult to recognise your own emotions because there's a sense in which they're hidden - so when you meet an "in your face" Sag, it's scary.

If you find that all Saggies drive you mad, it could be that 1/12 of the world's population has a big problem - or it could perhaps be *your* issue instead? Perhaps with your Moon behind your Sun, then the Sag that is part of your make-up isn't very accessible to you, so when you see it in others (and you can't avoid seeing it when it's their Sun sign) it freaks you out.

Capricorn Sun can batten down the hatches and likes to be in control, so confronting the issues that are worrying you won't be easy. But it's got to be done; after all, Saggies aren't "them out there" - *YOU* have a big Sag influence in your chart too, it's where your Moon is, so it's very much "you" as well.

This kind of projection is very common - you see closeted gay men who go out queerbashing, or people who belong to an ethnic minority making derogatory comments about their own race - an attempt to throw away a vital part of their own make up that they have difficulty coming to terms with. Ultimately it doesn't work, and has to be faced up to. You need, at some stage, to embrace that Sag Moon, because she's going to be with you for the rest of your life!

Cielamara
February 17th, 2005, 11:44 AM
I adore Saggies, personally. My best friend's a Sag/Leo/Pisces--now, imagine that with a Gemini/Cancer/Cancer. If she weren't so ridiculously sweet, we would probably get into SO much trouble together.

My aunt's also a Sag, come to think of it. I have a number of them in my life, and love every one of them. YAY for Sags! Although I also love Capricorns. Goats rock.

katclar
February 17th, 2005, 01:58 PM
I'm Leo sun/moon, with Cappy rising. My current "beau" is a Pisces sun, Taurus moon, and Sag rising. I've been finding a lot of Sag rising in my life now...I think it's a message to the Cappy parts to "lighten up" a little in general...

xoxo,
Katrina

banondraig
February 17th, 2005, 02:11 PM
i'm a libra. i like sags, except they can be a bit much when they go into preach/rant mode. that and the blunt questions. but they're fun. :smile:

~*Ginger*~
February 17th, 2005, 02:24 PM
Sagg energy.
I told my sister once that trying to get a chance to really sit down and talk to her, (she always has lots of company), was like trying to catch a butterfly.

She told me no, she wasn't a butterfly, she was a humming bird.
:lol:
Yeah, i think she's got something there!

SilverClaw
February 17th, 2005, 06:26 PM
Hmmm ya know as I read this thread i was hanging my head down low cause so much of what has been said desrcibes me :D


Saggitarians, can be very overwhelming. Flora am I overwhelming to you ?:D

I dated a Capricorn, and it was funny he had a book on Capricorns and other astro sighns and boy when I read about Sags vs Capricorns man i found it so true in our case it was funny, but yah it would explain partly why we broke up, plus being along distnace relationship to did not help.

As for Sag and Aries man my daughter and I oiy what a match.

And my motherin law and father in law - Sag and Aries - oh wow I just relaized that they were Sag and Aires... that does explain alot.

surreal sorry if you had a bad experince with a Sag.

arctic splash
February 17th, 2005, 07:38 PM
except they can be a bit much when they go into preach/rant mode

:bigredblu

Jenne
February 17th, 2005, 07:59 PM
i'm a libra. i like sags, except they can be a bit much when they go into preach/rant mode. that and the blunt questions. but they're fun. :smile:
I'm a cancer, and I find Sags a little to preachy and ranty, and a bit over the top emotionally. Sometimes a little too selfish as well.

However, they can be GREAT to listen to your troubles, very very loyal, and they know what they like/don't like! No wishy-washies there!

Lunacie
February 17th, 2005, 09:28 PM
Surreal, what can you do? You're attracted to Saggis but can't stand to be around them for long. :whatgives

Saggi/Scorpio cusp here, was married to an Aries. Crikey! We went round and round for years.

Galaxia
February 17th, 2005, 09:40 PM
Ω

WickedBttrfly
February 17th, 2005, 09:44 PM
All I know is that I get along great with Sags cause we're both craaaaazy. Then again, I am a Gemini and we can be a little um, overwhelming, ourselves. ;)

~*Ginger*~
February 17th, 2005, 09:48 PM
I've been reading some articles and such concerning astrology, and ran across and interesting piece by Joyce Jillson.


SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) In a past life, you were a prophet of some sort. You may even have had great forecasting abilities. An intellect, you were always seeking the truth *snip*
past lives (http://www.jeremysilman.com/astrology/past_lives.html)

Bran, no your not overwhelming me. :hugz:
Pull up the MSN, cause I can't find mine and don't remember where I had it last. :D

My reference is more towards their busy energy.

The High Queen of Faerie
February 17th, 2005, 09:49 PM
dewd i am a sag. ;)

Silverwings
February 17th, 2005, 10:03 PM
Hmmmm I'm a Capricorn myself, (Cap/Gem/Virgo to be exact) and one of my best friends is a Sag...we get along great O.o

surreal
February 17th, 2005, 10:59 PM
Oh yeah I really like Sages. But I can only take them in moderation. :)

I use "mad" in the webster style. They drive me nuts! (a mostly good way but bad in relationships)

It has taken me along time to understand a sages inner workings. But sometimes still I get upset because I feel that our freindship is hollow. I can not tell to what degree of freinds we are. My sag freind just comsumes everyone just like fire.

SilverClaw
February 17th, 2005, 11:46 PM
Bran, no your not overwhelming me. :hugz:
Pull up the MSN, cause I can't find mine and don't remember where I had it last. :D

My reference is more towards their busy energy. :huddle::achug: I was just curious ;)

KEishin
February 18th, 2005, 08:48 AM
I feel your pain. I'm dating a Sag with Aquarius rising.
He only opens his mouth to change feet some days. :D

But I think he's cute, so I let him get away with it. (That's the Sag charm acting again)

Fluffmeister
February 18th, 2005, 11:13 AM
Oh yeah I really like Sages. But I can only take them in moderation. :)

I use "mad" in the webster style. They drive me nuts! (a mostly good way but bad in relationships)

It has taken me along time to understand a sages inner workings. But sometimes still I get upset because I feel that our freindship is hollow. I can not tell to what degree of freinds we are. My sag freind just comsumes everyone just like fire.
I don't want to worry you - but you do realise you're MORE Sagittarius than Capricorn?

In Capricorn you have: The Sun.

In Sagittarius you have: Neptune, Jupiter, Uranus and the Moon.

C'mon - let the Sag run free! :smoke:

katclar
February 18th, 2005, 11:34 PM
I don't want to worry you - but you do realise you're MORE Sagittarius than Capricorn?

In Capricorn you have: The Sun.

In Sagittarius you have: Neptune, Jupiter, Uranus and the Moon.

C'mon - let the Sag run free! :smoke:


Ooooohhhhh Fluffy you always make me giggle! Or think...LOL!

xoxo,
Katrina

surreal
February 19th, 2005, 01:57 PM
I don't want to worry you - but you do realise you're MORE Sagittarius than Capricorn?

In Capricorn you have: The Sun.

In Sagittarius you have: Neptune, Jupiter, Uranus and the Moon.

C'mon - let the Sag run free! :smoke:


LOLz!! you're right!

I do feel heavy sag. my instictive side and my people skills are definity sag influenced. But that cappy sun is ever so strong! Plus virgo rising just add so much to my earthyness!

thx!!!!

Bryony
February 19th, 2005, 09:00 PM
..You're still more sag than Capricorn or Virgo... opposites attract, maybe you can't stand dating someone like yourself?

rosewoodsea
February 20th, 2005, 01:35 AM
i am a straight up aries, proud of it! = p an i have a twin, and she's my best friend so if someone angers me i always have someone to go vent to lol :smile: , but we both were very good friends with a saggi and found her to be quite entertaining! of course, i have traits from all across the zodiac so its never really to hard to relate..... not to mention i can get extremely bouncy :alol: *shrug* i can just get along with just 'bout everyone, really :smile: :bigblue:
:G :G :rubhead: :crystalba :G :G Crikey...This Aries gets grumpier every year.... Capricorns and Aquarians are still my favorites~~!!!!~~~~

rosewoodsea
February 20th, 2005, 01:45 AM
I don't want to worry you - but you do realise you're MORE Sagittarius than Capricorn?

In Capricorn you have: The Sun.

In Sagittarius you have: Neptune, Jupiter, Uranus and the Moon.

C'mon - let the Sag run free! :smoke:

:spaceman: Sags just evaporate a moment before they are deeply needed.... never really hear...merely appear to listen... prefer to talk... :spaceman:
:strike: Oh, well. SIGH :hearteyes I love your input Fluff. :hearteyes

PoisonIvy
February 20th, 2005, 07:18 AM
Well,I'm Leo sun and Sag moon if that tells ya anything. My mother is a Sag and we get along great! I suppose it's cause we both like to rant about things. She really does have a sweet disposition and a big heart,but she can be pretty sneaky and devious when she wants to be! When I lived at home it was pretty bad cause we had 2 Leos,a Sag,and a Capricorn. It was pure chaos everyday! I'm sooooo glad I married a Gemini!

crashtime
February 20th, 2005, 07:47 AM
I never thought I was the typical Sag. I'm Sag Sun, Cap rising, and virgo moon. I guess it's all the earth. I can be fiery, but most of the time I like to lay around and relax. I'm a lazy sag.

wakywitch
February 20th, 2005, 04:15 PM
I'm a cancer, and I find Sags a little to preachy and ranty, and a bit over the top emotionally. Sometimes a little too selfish as well.

However, they can be GREAT to listen to your troubles, very very loyal, and they know what they like/don't like! No wishy-washies there!

I am a cancer with a sag moon.
Agree with what Jenne said. My best friend John is a Sag.
My son is also one.
Can also be attracted to them as well.
Love those fire signs :sunny:

Angelus_Errare
March 6th, 2005, 01:30 AM
i'm a libra. i like sags, except they can be a bit much when they go into preach/rant mode. that and the blunt questions. but they're fun. :smile:
:collapse: wahhhhh. I am a Sag. Preach/rant mode: Check. Being blunt with speech: Check.
That is almost scary.. I never noticied that about me. I also have the famous Sag restlessness and get bored easy and have a need to travel.

I have often been referred to as a "fireball" or "spitfire" a lot when I get into something. :lol: I guess I am just your typical Sag. I like being one personally, but I really don't get along with other Sags. I have more trouble with Aries, all except one. :smile:

KatieBear822
March 6th, 2005, 01:03 PM
I feel your pain!

I'm a leo sun, scorpio moon, and leo rising so i'm pretty ... f'd up myself.

I've dated a couple sags and it's always turned out bad because ... i don't know why it just does! I was complaining about this yesterday to my friend!!!

I also seem to have a problem with scorpio's too ... so maybe i'm just anti-signs that start with s ...

BrigidMoon
March 6th, 2005, 01:40 PM
I work with a Sag. I dated a Sag but it did not work out very well at all. I don't like going out that often but when I do, having a Sag in the group is awesome. I've found they are the one that rallies up the troops to go out too. The only thing I don't like is that they don't want to own responsibilities at times. The Sag I work with is dependable though and hardworking, his supervisor is a Leo and keeps him on track and makes him own up to things. So I let her delegate :)

Earthy
March 6th, 2005, 02:16 PM
I'm scorpio and i was married to a sag..lasted 7 years and it ended in divorce.
I told myself never again...yet here i am, living with another one :lol:

KatieBear822
March 6th, 2005, 11:18 PM
I'm scorpio and i was married to a sag..lasted 7 years and it ended in divorce.
I told myself never again...yet here i am, living with another one :lol:

They're addicting man! I'm the phone with one ... damn me.

whisper54
March 12th, 2005, 04:49 AM
I was told at one time years ago that I was a triple Gemini. CAn some one explain this to me? I also have trouble with certain signs, Scorpio's mostly.

Fluffmeister
March 12th, 2005, 07:07 AM
I was told at one time years ago that I was a triple Gemini. CAn some one explain this to me? I also have trouble with certain signs, Scorpio's mostly.
This probably means you have a Gemini Sun, Gemini Moon and Gemini Ascendant.

If you want to post your chart data (probably easier to do this in a separate thread so everyone will see it's a chart request and not a continuation of the Saggie thread) I'm sure we'll all be happy to throw in our twopennorth (or two cents for the US/Canadian astrologers!).