Need Reading

[UlricDagon]

Wife and I's Relationship I have been trying to make it work and we have a 3 month old and I dont know where to go from here

SOme adivce?

just post here!

Thank You

[Lavender]

I'm new at tarot reading but I'll do a reading for you tonight & post it tomorrow, if you don't mind the inexperience. :)

[Lilu]

Hi!

I did a scarab reading for you in the Divination Forum under Temple Reading. You should be able to read it here:

http://216.74.100.35/showthread.php?s=&postid=85805&t=6925#post85805

BB
Lilu

[Lavender]

I'm using the Wheel of Change Tarot cards. I drew 4 cards for you.

The first card is you - the Hermit - the card shows an older man, leaning against a pine tree. He carries a lamp in one hand, the other is on the tree. He has his eyes closed, as if he's meditating or listening to the tree. The hermit is someone who chooses to withdraw from society, seeking a inner wisdom. Not necessarily closed off from the rest of the world. But more, not to let any outside distraction affect your search of your path. I get a sense that you're an introspective person?

The second card is your wife - 2 of Swords (R) - the card shows a pair of scissors, cutting a paper snowflake, the cut pieces look like they're floating upwards in the air. The snowflake has a bright centre. Two represents a duality, not necesarily the two of you but a choice, sort of like either or. It looks like her emotions are ruling where clear thinking is needed.

The third card is your relationship - 5 of Cups - the card shows a starfish at the bottom of the ocean, surrounded by 5 abalone shells. Five represents the 5 phases of a woman - birth, menarche, motherhood, menopause, & death. It seems to be talking about fear & loss. As the empty abalone shells are done & over, there are new life growing all around the starfish. As the ocean tide ebbs & flows, there are major changes in your life (new child?) and things are not the same as they were. Perhaps as the starfish is protected by it's outer shell, there is a barrier in sharing your feelings? Something blocking your deep emotions, perhaps to the point, you are both feeling isolated from each other.

The fourth card is the outcome - the Empress - the card shows a pregnant woman sitting on an island with a basket of eggs in front of her. She is holding half an apple, cut to show the 5 points of the seeds inside. Once again, the 5 phases of womanhood. The background shows fertile fields of growth & harvest & trees bearing fruit. Not that I'm saying your wife's pregnant here! :) This card shows a happy outcome. Very family oriented. It shows nurturing, love, joy in life, creativity. The joy of a family, of children. Bearing fruits after hard work.

The overall sense from this reading is that you & your wife need to talk & communicate each other's needs. A relationship does change quite a bit after kids. She's tired, you're tired & I'll bet your 3 month old keeps you two on your toes! :D There's a worry that things are not the way they were. Think of it as an end of one phase & time to move on to the next.

All the best to you & your wife. Please tell me if I'm way off, ok?

[UlricDagon]

Originally posted by Wildchild

The first card is you - the Hermit - the card shows an older man, leaning against a pine tree. He carries a lamp in one hand, the other is on the tree. He has his eyes closed, as if he's meditating or listening to the tree. The hermit is someone who chooses to withdraw from society, seeking a inner wisdom. Not necessarily closed off from the rest of the world. But more, not to let any outside distraction affect your search of your path. I get a sense that you're an introspective person?


This is so TRUE! In the last 3 months I have withdrawn and have been seeking what is inside of me with past life regressions and what is importants in my life. I am a ver introspective person!


Originally posted by Wildchild

The second card is your wife - 2 of Swords (R) - the card shows a pair of scissors, cutting a paper snowflake, the cut pieces look like they're floating upwards in the air. The snowflake has a bright centre. Two represents a duality, not necesarily the two of you but a choice, sort of like either or. It looks like her emotions are ruling where clear thinking is needed.


This is THE turest statemtent I have heard and she basis all of her diecions and action on emotion. This is hard for me to deal with!


Originally posted by Wildchild

The third card is your relationship - 5 of Cups - the card shows a starfish at the bottom of the ocean, surrounded by 5 abalone shells. Five represents the 5 phases of a woman - birth, menarche, motherhood, menopause, & death. It seems to be talking about fear & loss. As the empty abalone shells are done & over, there are new life growing all around the starfish. As the ocean tide ebbs & flows, there are major changes in your life (new child?) and things are not the same as they were. Perhaps as the starfish is protected by it's outer shell, there is a barrier in sharing your feelings? Something blocking your deep emotions, perhaps to the point, you are both feeling isolated from each other.


This is what I was looking for and what I was hoping someone would confirm for me, and I failed to mention this so I could see if it was in the card. What you see here is that my wife and I for about 5 years where christians together - ( she has been raised in our church sense BIRTH!) and when I got my calling of the goddess and the feeling I have had had I have have chose not to attend church with her any more and things are NOT the same as the where. I have been blocking my emothions and not sharing my new found joy in her presence because she is tought that pagans are "satanic" so this has been a GREAT GREAT strain on our relationship :(


Originally posted by Wildchild

The fourth card is the outcome - the Empress - the card shows a pregnant woman sitting on an island with a basket of eggs in front of her. She is holding half an apple, cut to show the 5 points of the seeds inside. Once again, the 5 phases of womanhood. The background shows fertile fields of growth & harvest & trees bearing fruit. Not that I'm saying your wife's pregnant here! :) This card shows a happy outcome. Very family oriented. It shows nurturing, love, joy in life, creativity. The joy of a family, of children. Bearing fruits after hard work.


I am hoping this is true and am optimistic because of this, I have been upset because when I told her how I felt I got the response "I wish you would of told me that before we got married", I have been under so much pressure from the ministry from her church and my parents (new christians) I am getting wearry fighting this fight ever day!

Thank you all for your time and Wild I would like to thank you SO MUCH for your time you have brought alot to life

Blessed be friends!

[Lavender]

I'll think of you & your family tonight when I light my incense. There's a few people here going through similar situations. We're always glad to give a hug whenever you need it! :) And thanks for the feedback.