Protection against a Vampire

[sincerebliss]

I have a friend and gheeze, I love her to death but she is or claims to be a vampire. When she first told me this, I thought she was nuts but I feel that she actually is. lol I feel my energy being drained around her sometimes, though, many times I haven't. She's one of my best friends and she has promised me she wouldn't take energy from me but I know she has whether intentionally or not. She also takes energy from one of my guy friends whom I'm very fond of but he has no clue of what she is exactly. Does anyone have any ideas to protect myself and my guy friend?
Thanks,
Alicia

[Aidron]

Shielding is probably the most fundamental and basic ways to protect yourself from those who seem to drain your energy reserves. It requires no tools or props, relying only on your own personal power. There are many varieties and methods of shielding, so I would advise you researching it. At the very least, a crystalline sphere that surrounds you would be a very simplistic form of shielding.

Black tourmaline, onyx, and obsidian are all said to possess energy that repels these type of energy vampires. Anything pungent, much like garlic or patchouli seems to repel them as well, as the strong fragrance (and I don't mean by fragrance oils for this) appears to at times disrupt the energy draining and create a repulsion affect.

[Tabbykitty]

I have a friend and gheeze, I love her to death but she is or claims to be a vampire. When she first told me this, I thought she was nuts but I feel that she actually is. lol I feel my energy being drained around her sometimes, though, many times I haven't.

as Aidon as suggested before. Shielding is a good idea.
Another good idea is ..... ignoring her ability......

From what you have described, she seems to be some kinda energy/psychic vampire. Well... most of these types attract the attention of others easily... cos either they are attention seeking or they have their own natural charisma.

The way most vamps drain the people around them is through getting people to fixate their attention on them either in a good or bad way. If you ignore a vamp and his/her abilities, they have LESS chance to drain your energy. This is true for a lot of cases, but not always.

Just think about it, did you feel more drained AFTER she told you about her abilities or BEFORE or THERE IS NO DIFF? (This is to check if the person uses attraction as a means of draining)

Vamps drain people via a "cord of attachment" which they can attach to anywhere on a person's body, although energy centres located at the base chakra, throat, 3rd eye and solar plexus are the most common areas of attachment.

The reason I kinda know this is cos I met 2 psychic vampires... one a conscious drainer and one unconscious in the last 4 months. :P




She's one of my best friends and she has promised me she wouldn't take energy from me but I know she has whether intentionally or not. She also takes energy from one of my guy friends whom I'm very fond of but he has no clue of what she is exactly. Does anyone have any ideas to protect myself and my guy friend?
Thanks,
Alicia

Here are some things you can do:

IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE BEING DRAINED:

1. If you feel that there is this cord of attachment on any part of your body, just visualise a metaphysical scissors and snip off that cord from said area.

2. Only if convienently at hand, use incense and swirl it around effected area, focusing on burning away the cord and preventing reattachment. Incense sticks are particularly effective.


DRAINING PREVENTION:

1. Learn proper shielding and psychic protection

2. Hold your boundaries. (ie. No one can touch or intrude into your space unless you allow them to. What's yours is yours. What's others is others. Be VERY VERY focused on this... no matter if she is your friend or not. This doesnt mean you have to be hostile. Its a state of mind.)

3. Get your friend to hold her boundaries.

4. Tell yourself. "I dont intend for <name of person> to ever be able to drain me." and when you wake up in the morning, say, "I know <name of person> will not be able to drain me."

5. Ignore her abilities. Especially when she tries to draw attention to them. The more you fear the abilities, the more vulnerable you are to being drained. Remember, she MAYBE doesnt intend to consciously drain you, but on an energetic level, I guess she cant help herself.

6. Remember you are stronger than her. Look, think about it, energy vamp or no, a person with some ability or power who cant maintain control AT ALL TIMES, is as good as a runaway train.

7. She should know this. Even though she might intend to drain only positive live-giiving energy, the fact is, she cant monitor AT ALL TIMES, what kinda energy she is taking. When she drains a person's energy, she is not only taking the person's energy, but also the person's crap (eg. illness, pain, karmic issues, entities.... you name it)

Both the psychic vamps I know each have loads of dark entities attached to them. One of them even manifests the symptoms of possession. :P


But honestly, I think she should learn to stop draining. I know this one person whom I suspect was not only a vamp, but ALSO faced problems with entities. She took it upon herself to go find an instructor to learn how to manage her energy via meditation and to hold her boundaries and STOP taking other people's stuff. When she did that, she not only looked younger, felt younger but her luck also turned for the better. And whats more she really liked being herself a whole lot more. :)

Me two cents. Hope it helps. :D
When I have time later, I'll post up my own vamp story.

[Rosana]

Quick fixes: carry a black tourmaline (best sticked to your solar plexus) or light a red candle during your meetings. But the most effective techniques was described above :) One of my friends is a vampire and since I've convinced myself that I'm stronger than her, she don't "suck up" me anymore.

[Silverfire Darkmoon]

If she says she's a vampire, fling holy water at her and see if she runs around screaming and bursting into flames. If she doesn't, she's full of crap.
For info on the energy sort of vampire (whom I truly believe are a LOT rarer than people like to think), read the section "Not all vampires suck blood!" in the Satanic Bible. Very interesting ways of dealing with them in there.