I'm SSSooooooooo madd!!

[Starlight]

This guy who used to be my friend and totally stepped on me and my friends is now asking me to forgive him!! I'm so totally mad and frusrated I'm gonna blow up!!I just wanna cry and I just want him to shut up and go away!GRRRRRRRRRRR! I've been talkin to him now for like an hour and I nothung left to say to him but he just keeps pressing. WAAAAAAAAAAA! I can't just up and forgive him. What he did was totaly wrong.................. I can't take much more of this crap.What should I do??


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[Xander67]

If you feel you can not forgive him, then tell him that you need him to leave you alone.....you need time ...

by him pressing you, it will just make it worse to begin with and he is exhibiting abnormal behavior here......if it is an online contact you are talking about then you should block him....but by all means, if you feel you cannot forgive him, dont let anyone convince you to compromise your feelings...
perhaps in time, your feelings may change....but for now, mabey it is best to tell him to GO AWAY>>>>>
hope this helps,

[Yvonne Belisle]

Xander has given excellent advice.

[Swanspirit]

has more to do with alleviating THEIR GUILT, than really making AMENDS for hurting you ....... and apologies mean I WONT DO IT AGAIN and I am sorry I hurt you ....... NOT let me in so I can hurt you again...........
Trashing trust ...... doesnt heal overnight ..... and you heal at your own pace..........
Love and HUGS
Swannie

[Starlight]

Thanx for the advice I realy appreciate it. But I have told him all of this but he doesn't get the hint at all. He realizes that all he is doing is making it worse but he just keeps pressing. He says he thinks that he hurt me the most and feels really sorry but I just can't help but feel that he is lying to me.He says he'll never stop trying to get me to forgive him. Grrrrrrrr!:flamer: He's so infuriating. I can block him on my computer but he goes to my school and is in some of my classes. I do my best to ignore him but his very presence annoys me. *sigh* I know I'm complaining too much but it feels good to let it out. Sorry! May be I can find a spell or something to help me deal with either him or these feelings of pure annoyence(sp?)! :ack:

Sorry again I don't mean to dump this on people and bring you all down but like I said I need it I guess. :(

[Starlight]

Thank you Swanspirit that's comforting! *hugs back*

[Swanspirit]

That it seems to you he is more interested in making himself feel better??? He REALLY obviously doesnt value your feelings.... OR
he would listen to what you are telling him and leave you alone.......
Love and Light
Swannie

[Starlight]

I have told him this. Last night after I wrote the thread I just was sssooo tired and angry and frustrated that I gave him the biggest burn job of his life . He asked me to be honest with him well baby was I ever. Then he started to get angry at me and said I was the one with the problem. this is when I hit him where it hurts. Other people's approval means the most to him . I told him that I didn't hate him because I don't hate people. It's worse I told him that he made sick. I know that sounds horrible but that's just how I feel. He JUST WON'T LET UP WITH THIS STUPID DUMB FIGHT. GGGGGGGRRRRRRRRR! :flamer:

[Swanspirit]

Well..... if he continues to harrass you ......... you can always get an adult involved........ or at least let someone know what is going on .........for your own protection this guy sounds obsessive compulsive..........
More HUGS
Swannie

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Bright Blessings to you.

I agree with Swanie, get an adult involved if he doesn't let up.

Whatever you do stand your ground because if you give in now he will probably only take advantage of you again. Soon he'll find someone else to harrass.

May the Goddess protect you.

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

Originally posted by Starlight


Sorry again I don't mean to dump this on people and bring you all down but like I said I need it I guess. :(

Your are soooooooooo not dumping it on us! we're here to help you, and before we help, we have to hear your probs :):):):):):)

[GoddessofWisdom]

here's a line I've always used to get rid of ppl:


It's not you, it's me
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I just don't like you!


It seems to work ;)

[Ball-Bhreac Ròn]

heheh:)

[Starlight]

Thanx you guys *sniff sniff* you make me feel better just with your thoughts. *sniff*
*big hugs all around*
Thanx for all the advice too. I told my mom and she thinks he's bein a big jerk too!Everything will be ok now that she knows. She's one rough and tough MOM. Nothin gets by her and her kids! Yay Mom!! :)