car accident

[bumpinthenight]

I grew up in a small town where not a lot happens very often. 3 months ago three friends were on their way home for lunch (two of them lived beside me) and they skidded on black ice and were all killed in the accident. everyone in my school was shocked at the deaths.. because nothing like that had ever happened before. i guess when people die suddenly, you don't relize that it just happens so quik and it could have been you...now..i find myself thinking atleast every ten minutes.. that it could be me next.. like when random things happen.. for example today i grabbed my friends little brothers toy car and was playing with it and made it crash into a book..i was like "hey guys i just made the car crash"..silence. then i wondered..is that a sign? sometimes i even get a bit dizzy..and wonder..am i having an anurism? i know i sound really messed up..but I guess im looking for help..comfort..something..i just dont know.. death....is extremely f***** up.

[Bix]

I'm so sorry that happened to you! Have you tried talking to your parents or other people you trust?

[ravenmyst]

dont waste your life trying to outguess death

[Lunadria]

One thing is for cetain, we are all going to die. The important thing is to make the most of the here and now! We spend so much time regretting what we've lost, instead of remembering all the wonderful things we have. Live life to the full, don't waste time worrying. :hugz:

[Noriohtle]

Death is a certainty .. accept it but dont look around the corner for it.

Live today for today; if you are anticipating death and looking for it to walk in and snatch life away from you then you have just freely handed it over refusing to take advantage of the gift of time you have here.

Say you give your best friend a beautiful gift and every time you see her/him they never have it or never use it; you ask them why they did not like the gift they tell you it is so precious they never want to loose it or wear it out.. but you know if its not used its never fully appreciated...

Appreciate life.. Live it.. Experience and Rejoice every Day in the Sun Moon and Stars.

[Crystal Craft]

Death makes our minds a little more open, there for we wonder down all types of roads. By remembering your feiends and living your life to its fullest, should help heal your wounds. Take care and talk to a friend you can really let things out to.
Blessings

[Faeawyn]

Its so tragic when young people are lost in such a horrible accident. But thats when I have to fall back on my beliefs and remind myself that we only leave this life when we are meant to....when our purpose is complete. Don't dwell on when that time may come....just enjoy the experience of living :)

[BlackMagicalCat]

I grew up in a small town where not a lot happens very often. 3 months ago three friends were on their way home for lunch (two of them lived beside me) and they skidded on black ice and were all killed in the accident. everyone in my school was shocked at the deaths.. because nothing like that had ever happened before. i guess when people die suddenly, you don't relize that it just happens so quik and it could have been you...now..i find myself thinking atleast every ten minutes.. that it could be me next.. like when random things happen.. for example today i grabbed my friends little brothers toy car and was playing with it and made it crash into a book..i was like "hey guys i just made the car crash"..silence. then i wondered..is that a sign? sometimes i even get a bit dizzy..and wonder..am i having an anurism? i know i sound really messed up..but I guess im looking for help..comfort..something..i just dont know.. death....is extremely f***** up.
Wow,Im a truck driver,did you know precious one,45000 people a year die in vehicle accidents? Every year,give or take,I have seen to many of them myself,you are on your way somewhere,and never make it.But,I put my life in Gods hand and let him decide when my turn comes,I asked him if Im driving please dont let me hurt anyone since I drive a large truck. I told the Lord please be with me and hold me tight when I must go home,ohwell,may the Lord comfort you and always be with you.
Also driving safely helps,dont drive on ice,dont let a truck get behind you,move,dont tailgate,pay attention to whats ahead,signal your intentions to others,If your sleepy,stop,and so on,.

[LadyTrinity]

Sorry for the loss of your friends :hugz: My bf lost some co-workers just a few weeks ago to fatal crashes.. they work so much over time they ended up falling alseep behind the wheel! :sniffsnif

[teh_fae]

Sorry to hear about losing your friends :( Hang in there, hope things get better for you :hugz:

I know it must be scary to know that your friends died so tragically and it could happen to you. But you have to think positive about life. Don't try to guess when you'll die, just try and move on. Car accidents were very normal when I was growing up. There were at least two fatal car accidents a year when I was in school. But the first time it happened, I felt like you did. I didn't really know the person, but how she died was just so tragic. Her memorial still stands in that place today, and everytime I see it, I can't help but feel sadness. There's no telling when each of us will pass on, but worrying yourself about it won't help. If it becomes very serious, you should think about talking to someone. To deal with your feelings about your friends dying and about yourself dying. I wish you the best of luck.

[Xentor]

Carpe diem.

:hugz:

[bumpinthenight]

wow...
i just want to say thanks to each and every one of you for your condolences and words of wisdom... reading all the replys really helped a lot.. its great that some of you have had similar experiences...when these friends died..it really made me realise how i have to live my life to the fullest ( thats what one of the girls msn profiles said when it happened :( ) but anyways thanx all so much... carpe diem.. sieze the day ;)

[bumpinthenight]

shoot that wasnt sapposed to be here