question for you all

[butterflydreams]

I really could use some advice. My father has decided that he doesn't like my fiance at all. He never even gave him a chance he just decided to hate him and is doing a fine job of it. the problem is he is being so bad to us and causing so much negativity, not to mention purposely trying to drive him off by being this way. Unfortunately we are staying with my parents for probably another month or two at most (been just over one so far). Trying mundance things like reasoning with this man does no good at all. Is there any kind of spell that I can do to keep his negativity from intruding on us? Can I somehow stop him from trying ton ruin what we have. Mind you I don't think it will work but all of the stress that it does cause is making everybody sick. The other thing I was thinking about doing is a spell to bring harmony to the house in general. He is a pretty mean person anyway and has always been very rude and mean to my mother. It wouldn't hurt to do something to make things a little easier on her as well. I would really appreciate any advice on what kind of spell to do to handle this situation most effectively. Or a good one for getting enough money and a nice rental house we can afford would work too.

Sorry so long and thanks for any advice you have for me.

[Mistress_Ravenshadow]

it sounds like you are in the exact same sitation that i was in about a year ago.. we were living with my husbands parents and his mom hated me (and still does only she tried to hide it because i had a baby and she knows she wont ever see her grand daughter if she stirs up trouble) the whole reason for her hating me was because i wasnt a spinless ass kisser.. what i eventually did was made our room a sanctary so to speak.. i did a very simple spell blocking her and her energy from entering our room then if things got too bad i could go to me room and be away from it all without any worries of her intruding and it worked quite well..
all i did was used patchouli incense and drew a banishing pentagram in the air in front of the bedroom door and chanted something to stop her from enetering..i cant rememebr exactly what it was when i remember i'll post it for you.. the other thing that helped a great deal was that my husband stood by me and always had my back.. at one stage my MIL and i had an arguement about something (probably money and she was always borrowing it from us and never paying it back) and as usual she was losing so in order to win she got right in my face and kicked me and my 2 sons out knowing full well we had no where to go and would be living on the streets in a strange country.. my husband stood by me and started packing his things too.. when his mom saw that he was going to leave with us she did an about face and begged me to forgive her.. so basicly if you stand strong together your dad will see that you truely love each other and whilst it may not change how he thinks of your fiancee he may just back off a bit and not cause too much more trouble.. i hope it all settles down for you soon.. stay strong

[Teresa]

You could use a witches jar or bottle and You can cast a circle or place some protection stones in the corners in your room.There are some spells You can do as far as harmony .Do a few searches. You can smudge to remove negativity too. It is hard when You are residing under someone elses roof.You have my sympathies.Candle magic would work too. Just do a few searches as You get ideas. This site as a ton of info and I do remember the Book of Shadows here having house protection and blessing spells etc.

[Aleannah]

If you have time alone in the house, you could do a cleansing spell...that removes the negativity, and perhaps when he walks into the house, it might alter his mood enough that he is tolerable to live with. I also agree with making your room(s) sacred space.

[-Ember]

I'd also try to do the increase harmony in general....

One simple trick, take half an onion (fresh) and put it in a bowl somewhere like the top of the fridge (in the open, but not somewhere he would notice.) The onion will suck a lot of the negativity into itself. When it gets black and disgusting, replace it. This will happen sooner than normal if it is sucking up a lot of negativity.