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Sequoia
October 15th, 2001, 12:16 AM
hi all
I wasn't sure what forum, so this one works.
I need some support for tommorrow (monday). I don't care if it's just a pat on the back or a candle or a tarot reading or a "you can do it, puma" or what. . .
something happened over 10 years ago to me and I'm finally coming to terms with it and I'm going to file a report. . . but I'm so nervous. I WILL go through with it, but I need all the support I can get to see that it goes well. I don't want a simple report turning into something like a horrific court battle or me being called a crazy person in the newspaper or something. I"m just scared, I guess. Nothing should happen. But you never know.
So any support would be greatly appreaciated.
Thanks guys . . .
~Puma Hime
Twilight Garden
October 15th, 2001, 12:28 AM
Coming to terms with things can be scary enough, but to actually attempt do something about it can be quite trying! I hope that if there is a court case, the truth is easily seen. I hope you don't have to go through anything horrific. I send you the best of luck and wishes that you go through nothing too trying. Remain strong. Have Faith. Blessings...
*LM
Sequoia
October 15th, 2001, 12:29 AM
thanks, lunar *HUG*
Twilight Garden
October 15th, 2001, 12:38 AM
*HUGS back* ;)
Swanspirit
October 15th, 2001, 12:42 AM
May the Goddess of Strength enfold you in her breast...... and give you strength and courage .............
Thus it shall be.......
Love and HUGS
Swannie
Raynewitch
October 15th, 2001, 12:47 AM
Good luck :) May the truth shine through and those who would reject the truth see the light. Hugs to you :)
:elf: Rayne :elf:
Xander67
October 15th, 2001, 01:01 AM
Puma, I hope you get throught his, and if you need to talk, we are here!
I am sending you my support!
Earth Walker
October 15th, 2001, 01:07 AM
Sending you energy and our best wishes :loveduv:
Sequoia
October 15th, 2001, 01:13 AM
thanks a lot, guys
Lavender
October 15th, 2001, 01:35 AM
You've got my support, Puma.
hugs!
evilslinkycat
October 15th, 2001, 07:37 AM
You got it! Remember we are here if you need us....
{{HUGS}}
witchywench
October 15th, 2001, 07:42 AM
Just checked in and found you!
You are in our hearts and minds, love and peace to you
May the light shine ever more brightly on you today.
MammaStar
October 15th, 2001, 08:40 AM
Puma
HUGS
:heartthro :heartthro :heartthro :heartthro
Semele
October 15th, 2001, 09:51 AM
Well here is a pat on the back, an atta girl Puma, and I will light you a candle as well. Hope all goes smooth for you. if you need anything I am here.
Mariposa De La Luna
October 15th, 2001, 11:55 AM
Blessings to you Puma! May the truth be on your side.
(HUGGLES)
Ball-Bhreac Ròn
October 15th, 2001, 01:17 PM
I hope you come to terms with this and shine like rays through a cloud :)
awwww, Goddess bless ya Puma, you're so cute (((HUGS)))
Sequoia
October 15th, 2001, 01:24 PM
thank you all so much for your support
well. . . I'm off to do stuffs! I'll keep you all posted as to what happens. . .
Sequoia
October 15th, 2001, 07:13 PM
well, I sent the report. It took two hours, and they're going to be contacting me.
In case you wish to know, it's a child abuse report form.
I'll let you guys know when I get the responses and stuff.
MistOfTheSea86
October 15th, 2001, 07:44 PM
Strength and Courage be with you Puma, may the goddess light your path and show only truth in your endeavor. Need not you go through the hell of misfortune. Let it be quick and simple.
Dearest Puma, you know I love you:) MY thoughts and prayers are with you *HAnds her a big handful of energy* Here:) Nice positive energy:)
Danustouch
October 15th, 2001, 08:31 PM
Puma..if you need to talk, feel free to contact one of the peer support counselors as well. For a shoulder to lean on! Best of luck. Hope it works out for you, and that that Justice is done!
Wiccan Maeve
October 15th, 2001, 08:47 PM
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Puma}}}}}}}}}}} you're in my thoughts. I hope everything turns out well for you, :).
I'm one of the support counselors, so feel free to contact me any time if you feel the need, :).
Love & light always,
Kristin aka Wiccan Maeve
Sequoia
October 16th, 2001, 01:55 AM
Thank you all so very much. . . it's you guys who keep me from curling up in a ball of tears from being scared and stressed (that, and my boyfriend hehe). *HUGS to all of you!!!* thank you so much, the feeling of support I had is what got me through the reporting part lol at one point I felt like crying and then I could've sworn I could sense everyone's support. So thank you, all of you.
Twilight Garden
October 16th, 2001, 02:07 AM
I'm glad you had the patience and strength to file the report. Remain strong. Again...Good Luck and Big *HUG* :loveduv:
gunner
October 16th, 2001, 11:54 AM
why did i know that was it as soon as i read the post, head up and shoulders back puma, you're doing what needs to be done.
Xois
October 16th, 2001, 01:08 PM
I am with Gunner on that one!
*waves to Gunner*
I will spark up a special shrine session just for you and those you love!
Xois
Sequoia
October 16th, 2001, 01:27 PM
*nods* I shall, gunner. If nothing else, I will keep my pride and strength, because nobody can take those away from me.
Arigato, Xois
Now I just wait to be contacted for an "interview" type thing. Should be pretty soon. I'll keep everyone posted
lol this is lke the "diary in Puma's life" thread
Isis
October 16th, 2001, 07:42 PM
Puma,
I hope all went well with you on Monday. I understand your apprehension about filing a report. When I tell people about some of the sexual abuse that I've survived they look at me like they think that I'm joking.
I'll ask Isis to bless you and keep you strong throughout your ordeal whatever it maybe!
Blessed be,
Isis
gunner
October 16th, 2001, 10:16 PM
this is a dammed sight more common than most people realise. over the years i've been lucky to have a number of very close female friends, closer in some cases than my blood sisters and i've been told things that not too many guys hear and the stories of childhood sexual abuse are an all too common thread when a woman can talk to a man she knows she can truely trust.
Sequoia
October 17th, 2001, 01:33 PM
hai
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