Reading Request For Faeriedust

[faeriedust]

Could someone give me a reading concerning me, my daughter and my husband. Things are really rough right now. There is a post in just talk explaining whats going on.. thank you!!!!!!!!

[Silver Venus]

Hi faeriedust, I have read the thread in Just talk and it pulled at my heart ~ I am so sorry about your daughter and the pain and anguish you all feel at the moment. I really hope you can all sort it out soon and start afresh. My sister was very depressed around the same age of your daughter and came through it alright in the end and is now very happy with life, I really hope and will pray your daughter is alike and this is only a stage of teenage-hood. ((Big Hugs))

I drew three cards for you at the moment and what you should do for the situation/s
Nine of Swords, Four of Cups and Judgement
With the first I can see this is really distressing you and your whole family, this is a card for worry, guilt and anguish and from what i read you are feeling and probally your whole family is feeling all of these. This how you are, swords have to do with communication and so do the next two ~ I think you have to really think about your communication and how it has been and how you want it to be from now on.. and the cards show you must move on and take action.
The next fits with this totally ~ it is an emotional card of sharing, talking, sorting things out ~ it depicts three girls whispering two telling the one in the middle not to worry and helpful advice. It is also a searching card ~ searching deep within yourself for the answers, not going within yourself and feeling sorry but really looking productivley at the problems that need fixing then fixing them. talking, communicating and solving is the key here and I think this is what you feel and know has to be done. Maybe open up to her completley and she will to you ~ im not saying you dont.
The last was Judgement ~ & again this carries on from the last card of problem solving. This can mean for yourself of for the situation ~ but certainly a judgement has to be made, you have to see this and do somehting about it. Take action to restore the balance. The man in the card is in the underworld ~ depressed but there is a light and a bountyful land up above him, he has to pass the two pillars of balance ~ black and white then he will be able to climb the steps, one at a time and reach the top.
Once you have looked deep within and at the problem, decide what you have to do in a positive way and climb those steps one at a time. It may take longer than you thought, it may change quickly but openess and positive thinking is key in this reading I think.

Hugs to you and your family.

[Emy]

I'd love to do a reading for you, but my cards are really really grumpy, I am afraid they feel neglected :( Tried to do some one card readings for the victim list but they wouldn't cooperate at all...
Anyways, I am sure they will feel better tomorrow.. and I'll do a reading for you then :)

B*B

[Sequoia]

okees. ^_^ here we go!

past: Tears and A-Maze-Ing.

problems. . . . challenges that couldn't really be solved, at least, not to anyone's liking. Maybe this had something to do with how you and your husband wished to raise/teach your daughter? or a financial problem. . . . something, an argument between you an dyour husband, perhaps about your child.

present: Cats under Starry Night

is your husband traveling right now? or getting ready for a trip? Maybe a business trip of some sort. Well, SOMETHING's going on, but my cards are being odd about it. . . Is he seeing someone else right now? My cards are sort of indicating "funny business." Some other woman?

Future: Gems and Tree, with Paradise on top.

Whatever problem that's going on right now should resolve itself. . . . Something will be coming into your daughters life, that really changes things for her. A sudden realization, perhaps, or just the fact that this other person or event helped her understand or realize something. . . It's not going to be an easy time, but the ending will be happy! I think she'll learn the value of herself, and things will turn out ok.

Note- as so far as the use of the term "husband," (reading your post in Just Talk) I think the cards are telling me about your first husband, not your current one. I think. ^^;

Let me know how things turn out! hehe

~Puma

[Myst]

Originally posted by Puma Hime
is your husband traveling right now? or getting ready for a trip? Maybe a business trip of some sort. Well, SOMETHING's going on, but my cards are being odd about it. . . Is he seeing someone else right now? My cards are sort of indicating "funny business." Some other woman?
...
Note- as so far as the use of the term "husband," (reading your post in Just Talk) I think the cards are telling me about your first husband, not your current one. I think. ^^;

I think this ties back in with what Danus said in that thread about the problems between your husband and your daughter. Maybe you really should take some time to do what Danus mentioned, really evaluate the situation. In the meantime I think these spreads have both shown that it will take time and soul searching for you and your daughter but you will both come through it.

[faeriedust]

as far as traveling, he doesn't have any plans that i know of. he has gone out of town twice in the 5 yrs we have been together. he sweas on his life he's never cheated on me. we have never really agreed on anything scince we have been married so that fits pefectly. I have never been maied before, my first two daughters, each have different dads.

[faeriedust]

Myst,
I agree about the soul searching. Its like I just woke up one morning and realized that I am wasting my life being unhappy. I am searching very deep inside my self, looking for me, the me I use to be. Alot has to do with my marriage but I feel like if I left my husband, I would just die . Does that make sense?

[Siren]

Hmm, have you thought of seeking out counselling? This may help you get your life back on track...i know that this isn't magickal...but it is useful and very helpful....a counsellor can steer you in the right direction to find what you are searching for....

Good luck...

Siren

[Myst]

Originally posted by faeriedust
I agree about the soul searching. Its like I just woke up one morning and realized that I am wasting my life being unhappy. I am searching very deep inside my self, looking for me, the me I use to be. Alot has to do with my marriage but I feel like if I left my husband, I would just die . Does that make sense?

I can understand that. It can be difficult to even think about changing something like that! It seems that now is time for soul searching for both you and your daughter. Hopefully you can go together to counselling and work some of these things out. Maybe all three of you should start going together to determine what everyone's feeling and how you can all work towards positive change. I know that everyone here at MW wants to support you and offer a shoulder to lean on. And I know we all send our brightest blessings for your family.

[Danustouch]

I think that you need to put your own emotional welfare, and the emotional welfare of your child, above your attatchment with your husband...Just randomly..i just drew a card from the tarot...

I pulled out the Devil Card. The devil card to me represents vice, often. It's like being a prisoner to something which you know is not mentally/physically healthy. Don't be it's slave..emerge.

[Sequoia]

faery- I was under the impression that your daughter's dad had been your husband before. OK, then it's possible that what I was reading was for her father, if that makes any sense.

But I pretty much agree with what everyone else's been saying.

I just thought of something, and forgive me for mentioning it, but where I had seen "funny business" it might mean that your husband is doing something to upset your daughter right now, that you wouldn't know about. The card that I felt that from can also mean secrets, or a dance of secrecy, trying to keep them all straight. Something could be going on to upset her that you don't know about between them. . . you know? Mayhap there's more going on then you know, or want to know. In the card, the cats AREN'T looking at eachother.. . they're looking at eachother's tails, and one is swatting the other's. Something is effecting you, but you just don't see it.(?)

Pulling at straws here. . . .^^;

[faeriedust]

greetings Siren,
i am not looking for a magickal answer for my problems, just a little insight.. if you read my post in just talk, you might understand where i am coming from and that i am already seeking counciling.. thanks for the advice though.;)