healing/helping effort or spellwork

[wanderlust*]

Im sorry if this is a repeat thread of sorts. Im just not 100% sure how to search the threads, and I'm pressed for time. However, I would adore some help if it's possible.

Im sick as a dog right now. Someone has been leeching off my energy, possibly because I've been focusing my energy on my boyfriend.

He's having some issues with his homelife. His parents, and he may have to find his own apartment shortly. So, he's grumpy, and pretty upset lately, the poor guy. I've been focusing all my energy at him- but, since Im run down, I was hoping there was something else I can do until I regain my own energy.

Perhaps some sort of healing/protection/uplifting spellwork? Maybe a tailsmen/charm I can give him- or just some sort of healing energy I can send.

Any ideas are MAJORLY appreciated. Thank you bunches in advance.

[Toriach]

Im sorry if this is a repeat thread of sorts. Im just not 100% sure how to search the threads, and I'm pressed for time. However, I would adore some help if it's possible.I am happy to offer My thoughts. My first one is to do your best to free yourself from the notion that time matters. Magick is limited largely by your imagination and will or lack thereof. I have had a situation that was fairly dire work out well due in part to the fact that I do not view Myself as beholden to linear time. So I've had a good out come and then cast the spell for it later when I had time to think clearly about what exactly I wanted to accomplish. So believe that you will have the time to work whatever magicks you deem needful without being rushed. In this way you will help to ensure that your workings are as powerful as you can possibly make it.


Im sick as a dog right now. Someone has been leeching off my energy, possibly because I've been focusing my energy on my boyfriend.I'd like to ask you to consider the possibility that you are not quite seeing the whole picture. Sometimes sickness simply happens. Most of us when we're sick have a very hard time doing magick effectively. I see two main possibilities. One, that it is you who is leeching off your energy because you need it to get well leaving with little to no surplus for your boyfriend. Two, that you are sick and your boyfriend who is used to getting an energy boost from you is still drawing even though right now you don't have the energy to spare.


He's having some issues with his homelife. His parents, and he may have to find his own apartment shortly. So, he's grumpy, and pretty upset lately, the poor guy. I've been focusing all my energy at him- but, since Im run down, I was hoping there was something else I can do until I regain my own energy.There are a few things you can do. If you work with any particular Deities or Sacred Entities, you could invoke them and ask them to give energy to your boyfriend. If you work with the energy of the universe you could use yourself as a conduit to direct it to your boyfriend.

Something that is a bit more advanced that I've had sucess with is creating a pyramid and using a representational figure, (say a gi joe action figure to reperesent your boyfriend) I visualize healing and empowering energy being drawn through the pyramid and into the person or animal that needs the energy.


Perhaps some sort of healing/protection/uplifting spellwork? Maybe a tailsmen/charm I can give him- or just some sort of healing energy I can send.Those are some good ideas. What you give him will of course depend on what he knows of your practice and how accepting he is. If he would wear a necklace from you you could charge it to act as a self recharging battery. Also you could try drawing energy in, cleansing it and raising it's vibrational rate so it is purer and then sending it to him.


Any ideas are MAJORLY appreciated. Thank you bunches in advance.No problem. I hope that I've been able to help.

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Toriach

[Rick]

Im sorry if this is a repeat thread of sorts. Im just not 100% sure how to search the threads, and I'm pressed for time. However, I would adore some help if it's possible.

Im sick as a dog right now. Someone has been leeching off my energy, possibly because I've been focusing my energy on my boyfriend.

He's having some issues with his homelife. His parents, and he may have to find his own apartment shortly. So, he's grumpy, and pretty upset lately, the poor guy. I've been focusing all my energy at him- but, since Im run down, I was hoping there was something else I can do until I regain my own energy.

Perhaps some sort of healing/protection/uplifting spellwork? Maybe a tailsmen/charm I can give him- or just some sort of healing energy I can send.

Any ideas are MAJORLY appreciated. Thank you bunches in advance.
Check here (http://www.mysticwicks.com/showthread.php?t=12437) Bound to be one or two things that you can use...

[Sibylle]

I might be totally off here, so if what I say doesn't resonate with you, just ignore me, ok?

My impression is that first you must realise nobody has been leeching energy from you, rather you have given away your energy to your boyfriend. While it's commendable to support others, it's no use to anyone to exhaust one's own energy resources, as you can feel now through your sickness.

So, step one is to take on responsibility and realise that this isn't something that has been "done" to you, but something you've brought on yourself - not in order to look for "blame", but in order to realise that if you've caused it, you can amend it too! Step two, do some grounding. Grounding isn't just to get rid of superfluous energy after a ritual or spell, as some people seem to believe. It makes you aware of the fact that you are connected, part of the universe and its infinite energy resources. You can draw from those limitless supplies if ever you need more energy or want to send it to someone else. If you're properly grounded, you will never be exhausted - it's impossible to exhaust the energy of the universe!

I hope you feel better soon :)

Hugs!!

[wanderlust*]

Oh, im perfectly aware that the one "leeching" off my energy is myself. That's what I meant, but I didn't word it that way. Sorry. But, thanks for the advice on that. I tried grounding and shielding last night- though Im grounded and feel better- I hardly had enough energy to shield. gasp.

But, thank you all for your advice. Much appreciated. :idea:

[Sibylle]

Anytime *hugs* And it wasn't meant as criticism, just as a heads-up.

I'm glad you're better!