Assistance With A Spell Needed

[Lilith Morgaine]

I am not asking anyone to create the spell for me, only to help with some ideas on how to begin. I'm new to *writing* spells. The situation is this: There is a person whom I love dearly. I know they love me as well, but they are afraid of getting close to someone. I know if theey could be rid of this fear and hesitation we could move on with a relationship. I am NOT trying to do a love spell so please don't misunderstand. Feel free to ask anything. All ideas/suggestions are welcome.

[AncientOne]

The scent of Oregano helps one forget old lovers. Try burning some dried Oregano leaves before the person comes over or while they are there if you can explain it away.

If your desired one is also wiccan or you are VERY creative... Roll a raw egg over every inch of their naked body with extra attention to the genitals (minds out of the gutter now...). The egg will absorb negative energy and break the ties the other person may still have to others. We create ties to others when we have sex, especially when it's a long-term, repetitive relationship. It is very possible the other person still has ties to another that are holding them back from coming freely to you. Once you are sure you have covered every inch, break the shell open directly into moving water (the toilet works well), bury the shell.

You are VERY right to not want to do a LOVE spell. Love happens or it doesn't... it would be miserable to be in love with the wrong person or to have the wrong person be in love with you. Better to unblock the paths and let things happen as they will.

Blessed Be!
AncientOne

[Lilith Morgaine]

it's not romantic love it's best friend love

[AncientOne]

If you are not seeking romantic love with this person it's a totally different situation.

I would concentrate on unblocking spells and healing spells for the other person.

[cheddarsox]

Sometimes a person's fear and hesitation to get close is protecting them. Your friend might not be in a place where that kind of closeness is not healthy for them. I think talking about the situation and what you see as the "block" is OK, but that ultimately it is safer, kinder and more appropriate to let your friend work through these issues and let the petals fall away as they feel ready to bloom into deeper intimacy.

Sometimes a person does know what is instinctively best for them, and outsiders can do much damage by trying to force "growth" before its time.

chedddar

[Sage Rainsong]

I posted this spell before so I am sorry if that annoys anyone but I like this one from luckymojo.com


A WHITE CANDLE LOVE SPELL


Get a white candle that will burn down in due time. You will have to inscribe it (see below), so it should be bigger than a birthday candle, and you will also have to watch it burn down to nothing (see below), so it should not be a 24 hour votive light. A plain white 4" altar candle or, better yet, a white "bride and groom" figural candle, will be right.

Prepare an altar and decorate it with those things precious to you and to the one you love. Using a rose thorn from a white rose bush, inscribe the words "All my love come to me" 3 times on the candle. Place the inscribed candle in the center of the altar and light it. For the entire time the candle burns, gaze upon it and visualize your love coming to you in nakedness and beauty. When the candle burns out, collect the wax puddle that remains, wrap it up with the mementos from the altar and keep it in a safe place.

The result of this spell will not be "zombie" or "victim" thrall-love; but you will receive ALL the love that person has for you -- which may be less than, as much as, or more than the love you have for him. Accept the degree of love you receive with grace and tenderness

[CloeOtter]

Greetings,

How about considering asking Spirit or your guides talk to the other's guides to help with healing and lending courage. This way if things are meant to change they will and if not you have not pushed this person into something they can not or are not ready to handle.
My 2 cents!!! :hugz:

Blessings,
CloeOtter