Blondie
June 4th, 2005, 07:49 PM
A couple of months ago, I just got out of an intense but short term relationship with my now exboyfriend, Jon.
For some reason, I can't get over it - even amongst all the support, friends and all the work I'm involved in. I realize why it had to happen, I've grieved and I've cut off all contact for a month. It HAS got easier but some days are still really painful. I'm sinking into somewhat of a depression, while I should be happy with all the career success I've been experiencing.
I'd like to know am I keeping this attachment for a reason? Am I doing the right thing by seizing all contact? Do we have a future, even as friends? I just really need some guidance/advice - I feel like I've been slapped in the face and am not sure if Jon's motives/reasoning is true of heart.
Many thanks in advance.
For some reason, I can't get over it - even amongst all the support, friends and all the work I'm involved in. I realize why it had to happen, I've grieved and I've cut off all contact for a month. It HAS got easier but some days are still really painful. I'm sinking into somewhat of a depression, while I should be happy with all the career success I've been experiencing.
I'd like to know am I keeping this attachment for a reason? Am I doing the right thing by seizing all contact? Do we have a future, even as friends? I just really need some guidance/advice - I feel like I've been slapped in the face and am not sure if Jon's motives/reasoning is true of heart.
Many thanks in advance.