Estranged Friend Reading Request

[KiNoRonin]

Konnichi Wa to All:


I have a Reading Request that I hope someone can pick up. I do not feel comfortable doing the Reading for myself as my Personal Karmanic Energies may taint the Reading.


I have had a this Friend for 20 years since we Graduated from High School. We have Camped out, Drank Beer, Smoked Cannabis and Partied for Years.

But every 3 or so years, something gets on his Nerves and we get Estranged from one another for a while (longest time Estranged was about 3 years once).

So it has been at least 5 years from that last time we were estranged when I was over at his place. We were playing Poker. We got Drunk and Stoned when I went into his Kitchen, found a package of Reeses Peanut Butter Cups. I took it and ate it, not thinking as I was Drunk and Stoned.

A few days later, he sent me an email telling me that I was not allowed at his place anymore for eating his Reeses Peanut Butter Cups.

Other than a few fairly pleasant emails in the past few months, he has not invited me over, or he has not come over to my place, or gotten together for Beers at all.

I want a Friendship Relationship Spread as I wish to know approximately how long he is going to keep himself estranged from me for the Dirty Dastardly Crime of eating his Reeses Peanut Butter Cups.

KNR

BTW: I bet the Hierophant Major Arcana Card comes up.

[blackroseivy]

Ok, this one kinda made me laugh, but I will attempt to tackle it - I'll do it tomorrow!

[KiNoRonin]

Hai!

The whole situation sometimes makes me Laugh too.

KNR

[KiNoRonin]

One thing that has recently happened is that a common Japanese friend seems to have popped up.

On that subject, I actually phone my friend to see if our common friend had popped up yet. Our common Japanese Friend has yet to pop up, even though I got an email from him claiming to be in Vancouver now.

But anyways, to Danubhe-San's Reading.

For the most part, Danubhe-San's Reading confirmed to me a lot of what I had always thought the Relationship with my Friend seems to be.

Danubhe-San's Reading went:

I have used a "You & Your Partner" spread that is used for romantic relationships, but I am interpreting it as friendship (with the "Vision" deck):

1) How you see him - Ace of Swords

This seems to be a new phase; you say that you have gotten back together after absence (several). You have thought that this time would be different, & you would triumph over your obstacles.

I thought that I had conquered those obstacles by establishing total respect for each other after I had done my Atomic Bomb Pilgramage to Hiroshima and Nagasaki Japan. I had thought that I had, by that act, over come the Obstacles that had always invaded out Friendship. Of course, all the cycles of Life brings new Obstacles.

2) How he sees you - King of Coins

He sees you being the one in control; a very practical friend. These are the qualities that inspire his friendship with you. He turns to you for advice, for support of a practical nature.

That may be the Reason we always end up Reconciling.

3) What you want from the relationship - Ace of Coins

This one seems to refer to inspired practicality; a new beginning (again), one witout the hangups that you have faced in the past.



4) What he wants from the relationship - 4 of Coins rx

He may feel obliged to you; that he owes more than he can repay. He doesn't want to work at the relationship in the same way that you do.

5) Where you believe the relationship is going - 9 of Cups

There are losses here, but also gains. You should not allow bad judgement to make you make the wrong decision; postpone it until things are more certain. You have everything in front of you but may lose it with bad temper; what seems like a loss may be a mere temporary setback.

6) Where he believes the relationship is going - Knight of Staves

He seems to see himself in competition with you in some way; he seems to need to have the last word. The best way to cope with verbal sparring is not to take the bait; he is feinting at you like you were a windmill, but the windmill is impassive, & so should you be. Also, don't accidentally undermine things with blows you don't mean to aim; don't dramatize the situation into what he seems to see it being, it will be better in the long run if you play along for now & keep a low profile.

There, the best I could come up with - :woah: !! I hope it helps!

- D.

[KiNoRonin]

One thing that has recently happened is that a common Japanese friend seems to have popped up.

On that subject, I actually phone my friend to see if our common friend had popped up yet. Our common Japanese Friend has yet to pop up, even though I got an email from him claiming to be in Vancouver now.

But anyways, to Danubhe-San's Reading.

For the most part, Danubhe-San's Reading confirmed to me a lot of what I had always thought the Relationship with my Friend seems to be.

Danubhe-San's Reading went:

I have used a "You & Your Partner" spread that is used for romantic relationships, but I am interpreting it as friendship (with the "Vision" deck):

1) How you see him - Ace of Swords

This seems to be a new phase; you say that you have gotten back together after absence (several). You have thought that this time would be different, & you would triumph over your obstacles.

I thought that I had conquered those obstacles by establishing total respect for each other after I had done my Atomic Bomb Pilgramage to Hiroshima and Nagasaki Japan. I had thought that I had, by that act, over come the Obstacles that had always invaded out Friendship. Of course, all the cycles of Life brings new Obstacles.

2) How he sees you - King of Coins

He sees you being the one in control; a very practical friend. These are the qualities that inspire his friendship with you. He turns to you for advice, for support of a practical nature.

That may be the Reason we always end up Reconciling.

3) What you want from the relationship - Ace of Coins

This one seems to refer to inspired practicality; a new beginning (again), one witout the hangups that you have faced in the past.

I alway prefer relationships without Hangups.

4) What he wants from the relationship - 4 of Coins rx

He may feel obliged to you; that he owes more than he can repay. He doesn't want to work at the relationship in the same way that you do.

He has Homophobic Tendancies that may cause him to behave that way. And the way he has always lacked the will to work at the Relationship at times has suggested to me even that he does not want to work at the relationship in the same way as I do.

5) Where you believe the relationship is going - 9 of Cups

There are losses here, but also gains. You should not allow bad judgement to make you make the wrong decision; postpone it until things are more certain. You have everything in front of you but may lose it with bad temper; what seems like a loss may be a mere temporary setback.

That is exactly how I have always thought. I just wanted a Personal Tarot Reading to confirm that this whole thing may be a Temporary Setback.

6) Where he believes the relationship is going - Knight of Staves

He seems to see himself in competition with you in some way; he seems to need to have the last word.
Most Likely Bang On!
The best way to cope with verbal sparring is not to take the bait; he is feinting at you like you were a windmill, but the windmill is impassive, & so should you be. Also, don't accidentally undermine things with blows you don't mean to aim; don't dramatize the situation into what he seems to see it being, it will be better in the long run if you play along for now & keep a low profile.

That last bit sounds more like an Advisory Aspect of the Spread, which I will follow.

There, the best I could come up with - :woah: !! I hope it helps!

- D.



For the most part, this Reading confirms to me a lot of things that I always thought. I just wanted a Reading from a Tarot Guild Member of good reputation to confirm what I was thinking, and evening Danubhe-San has pulled and read has reconfirmed what I was thinking.

Domo Arigato to Danubhe-San (bowing down very politely!).

Ki No Ronin

[blackroseivy]

SO charmed & so glad to have been of help!! :D Good luck on a reconciliation... Come back if you need more aid at any time!

[KiNoRonin]

Konnichi Wa to All:

I have another falling out that I have to have a Reading on.


I recently rented an Apartment to a New Female Kyakusama Tenant. When she stated that she was skilled at painting at the Tenancy Interview, I took note of that and when I needed help, I asked her to help me paint a vacant suite.

She cheerfully accepted and we both had a great time painting and being socialable. In order to keep good terms with her so that she I could gain her services painting again, I was very friendly towards her.

But then after I had informed her that I was Wicca Pagan, she turned Very Nasty and has written letters accusing me of Stalking her.

I am requesting a reading to see what is up with this situation and I could use some good advice on how to handle this situation. I already have a plan in place on how to handle this situation, but I could use a good Tarot Reading in order confirm to myself if my plan is sound.

Ki No Ronin

BTW:
On my other Reading, I did something stupid and ended up totally ruining everthing by not keeping a Low Profile. That goes to show what can happen if you do not follow good advice.

[KiNoRonin]

Konnichi Wa to All:

I have another Reading Request on a Situation in which I have become Estranged from someone else.

I should mention that this is in regards to the Apartment Building that I got Certified as a Crime Free Building with the New West Police Department about 2 years ago.

But about 2 or 3 months ago, the Police Crime Free Coordinator/Beaucrat got a bit Verbally Abusive with me on the Phone when I called her about a Fraud that had been attempted against me.

So I left her alone for 2 months.

Then there was a Tenant who had his Stereo on too loud to the Point that the Police came by.

A few days later, I got a somewhat Terse Email from the Beaucrat, and then she called me. She got Very Verbally Abusive to the point that I got POed and went out and pulled down that Crime Free Membership Sign from the front of my Apartment Building!

I then sent my Management Company an email informing them that the City Beaucrat had gotten Verbally Abusive. Last weekend, I had lunch with my Boss/Property Manager and after discussing it, she gave me Permission to fewmet Can the Crime Free Program and Fire the Beaucrat.

But before doing that, I want to see what the Tarot has to indicate about the situation before I do anything too Rash.


I am requesting that someone do a "Problem At Work" Spread for me as my own Personal Emotional Energies may mess up the Reading.

This type of Reading goes:

The Cards are laid out as follows:

---------------10--------------
-----------8--------9----------
------5---------6--------7-----
-----------3--------4----------
-----------1--------2----------

Cards #1 and #2 indicate what the Problem is.
Card #3 indicates how I actually feel about the Problem.
Card #4 indicates how I am prsently Responding to the Problem.
Card #5 indicates how the Problem is affecting me Emotionally.
Card #6 indicates how the Problem is affecting me Mentally
Card #7 indicates how the Problem is affecting other aspects of my Life.
Card #8 indicates how I am Responding to the Problem
Card #9 indicates how I can overcome this Problem
Card #10 indicates the Final Outcome of the Problem


If someone could do this Reading for me, I would much Appreciate It!

I do request that Sandalwood Incense be burning, a Candle be Lit, and Radio Druid (or some sort of Mystical Music) be Playing while you are doing the Reading.

Kono Yomeru ni Arigataku Omotteimasu. :fpraise:


KNR

[KiNoRonin]

Konnichi Wa to All:

I have another falling out that I have to have a Reading on.


I recently rented an Apartment to a New Female Kyakusama Tenant. When she stated that she was skilled at painting at the Tenancy Interview, I took note of that and when I needed help, I asked her to help me paint a vacant suite.

She cheerfully accepted and we both had a great time painting and being socialable. In order to keep good terms with her so that she I could gain her services painting again, I was very friendly towards her.

But then after I had informed her that I was Wicca Pagan, she turned Very Nasty and has written letters accusing me of Stalking her.

I am requesting a reading to see what is up with this situation and I could use some good advice on how to handle this situation. I already have a plan in place on how to handle this situation, but I could use a good Tarot Reading in order confirm to myself if my plan is sound.

Ki No Ronin

BTW:
On my other Reading, I did something stupid and ended up totally ruining everthing by not keeping a Low Profile. That goes to show what can happen if you do not follow good advice.


BTW: I totally recognized the MO of this Woman as being Similar as the Famed Man Hating Stalker Rachel Marsden.

I therefore downloaded every single bit of Information and Intelligence on Rachel Marsden in order to figure out how she thinks and be able to tell what she may be going to do next.

I therefore was able to guard myself successfully and when the Court Date for this Dispute came round: I Won!!!

Totemo ni Kachimashita!!! Bonsai!!!

So it turned out that no Reading was necessary as I was able to successfully Defend myself against this Kono Ama's Accusations and Alligations.

KNR

[KiNoRonin]

Konnichi Wa to All:

I have another Reading Request on a Situation in which I have become Estranged from someone else.

I should mention that this is in regards to the Apartment Building that I got Certified as a Crime Free Building with the New West Police Department about 2 years ago.

But about 2 or 3 months ago, the Police Crime Free Coordinator/Beaucrat got a bit Verbally Abusive with me on the Phone when I called her about a Fraud that had been attempted against me.

So I left her alone for 2 months.

Then there was a Tenant who had his Stereo on too loud to the Point that the Police came by.

A few days later, I got a somewhat Terse Email from the Beaucrat, and then she called me. She got Very Verbally Abusive to the point that I got POed and went out and pulled down that Crime Free Membership Sign from the front of my Apartment Building!

I then sent my Management Company an email informing them that the City Beaucrat had gotten Verbally Abusive. Last weekend, I had lunch with my Boss/Property Manager and after discussing it, she gave me Permission to fewmet Can the Crime Free Program and Fire the Beaucrat.

But before doing that, I want to see what the Tarot has to indicate about the situation before I do anything too Rash.


I am requesting that someone do a "Problem At Work" Spread for me as my own Personal Emotional Energies may mess up the Reading.

This type of Reading goes:

The Cards are laid out as follows:

---------------10--------------
-----------8--------9----------
------5---------6--------7-----
-----------3--------4----------
-----------1--------2----------

Cards #1 and #2 indicate what the Problem is.
Card #3 indicates how I actually feel about the Problem.
Card #4 indicates how I am prsently Responding to the Problem.
Card #5 indicates how the Problem is affecting me Emotionally.
Card #6 indicates how the Problem is affecting me Mentally
Card #7 indicates how the Problem is affecting other aspects of my Life.
Card #8 indicates how I am Responding to the Problem
Card #9 indicates how I can overcome this Problem
Card #10 indicates the Final Outcome of the Problem


If someone could do this Reading for me, I would much Appreciate It!

I do request that Sandalwood Incense be burning, a Candle be Lit, and Radio Druid (or some sort of Mystical Music) be Playing while you are doing the Reading.

Kono Yomeru ni Arigataku Omotteimasu. :fpraise:


KNR


I have had several offers from people to do this Reading, but no one has done it yet.

I am still got this situation on hold until someone does the Reading.

Could someone do the Reading?
_inabox_

KNR

[RavensEye]

Excuse me I had the reading done the other day, I just have not had the time to type it up yet and due to some negative things that happend yesterday I was not able to get it to you. Sorry for the delay.

[KiNoRonin]

Oh.

How did the Job Search Go?

Did you see my Tarot Reading Offer I made to you on the Success of your Job Search?

KNR

[KiNoRonin]

Konnichi Wa to All:

Hymnia-San did the reading, but then lost her notes on the Reading, but she did give me a brief Summary of how the Reading went.

She says this about the Reading:
"Ok so the short end of it is
Follow your instincts you got permission to fire the person so do so. You have handled yourself well in this situation from what you posted and you made sure that you were not being quick to judge by talking to your boss and asking for the reading to be done. But as mentioned the already the cards did show it was time to let her go, and that she obviously had some personal issues she needed to be dealing with.

So I hope this helps and once again I am sorry for messing this up"


I Betcha the Eight of Cups came up in that Reading.

Anyways, after reading this summary, it confirms my opinions on the situation and I will be governing myself accordingly.

KNR

[RavensEye]

Good to hear :D And yes there was a cup card or two in the reading I just cannot recall which two. Best of luck in the situation and when you can please update us to let us know how you are doing ok ? :)

[Fluffmeister]

KiNoRonin isn't able to post here any more, but he has asked me to post on this thread to thank Danubhe doing a reading for KiNo.

Danubhe's Reading went:

5) Where you believe the relationship is going - 9 of Cups
There are losses here, but also gains. You should not allow bad judgement to make you make
the wrong decision; postpone it until things are more certain. You have everything in front of
you but may lose it with bad temper; what seems like a loss may be a mere temporary setback.

6) Where he believes the relationship is going - Knight of Staves
He seems to see himself in competition with you in some way; he seems to need to have the last
word. The best way to cope with verbal sparring is not to take the bait; he is feinting at you
like you were a windmill, but the windmill is impassive, & so should you be. Also, don't
accidentally undermine things with blows you don't mean to aim; don't dramatize the situation
into what he seems to see it being, it will be better in the long run if you play along for now &
keep a low profile.

There, the best I could come up with - !! I hope it helps!
- D.



KiNo then said: "following his Reading's Advice for the past 3 years, my Old Estranged Friend and I managed to make up for Xmas.

I Partied at his place on Boxing Day".



So a happy ending for KiNoRonin, and a great reading by Danubhe! :boing: