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SimplyStrange
October 24th, 2001, 07:58 PM
Ok, I ride the city bus every school day of my life to and from school, but I'm always riding with at least one friend, so it's just blah blah blah blah blah from me...

But today was different. Since I have rehearsals after school now for the play, I am going to be riding the bus home alone. Or at least that's how I saw it at first. But today I saw it through different eyes. I was no longer wrapped up in my own life, worrying about my own problems and such. I stopped to look around. When I got on, there was a woman speaking...but to no one in particular. Not realizing this, I just walked past her, finding a seat a few seats away and across the aisle. Once I began to overhear her speech, I looked at her, realizing she was just speaking, not to anyone, but speaking, reciting the Bible. She got off not too much longer, and when she was waiting for the bus to stop at her stop, and I looked into her eyes, but she did not look into mine. It was as if she was avoiding all eye contact with people, but when I looked away, she looked at me, then turned her back to me. I wondered if it was my pentangle she saw or what, but she did not look at me the entire time she was on after that, and continued to recite the Bible, then got off. I wondered for a moment, why exactly she was doing it, but shrugged it off. Then, without hesitation, this girl a few seats away from me says to the guy next to her, "good riddance". But yet, when I looked at the two, I didn't feel that whole "that's mean" feeling...I just saw a guy and a girl...and as I looked around, I didn't see anything about anyone that I didn't like or that I judged....I just saw people.

For the rest of the bus ride home, I felt totally and completely relaxed and at ease. Everyone I saw, I wanted to know about. I wanted so badly to hear their stories, to learn their names, to make them smile, to listen...I wanted to be a part of their lives, I wanted to go where they went, see what they saw, hear what they heard, smell, taste and feel what they did. I even saw a golden haired baby girl, riding in a modern day papoose, who looked over at me, staring at me with the gentlest eyes I'd ever seen. The most caring, unjudging and curious eyes I'd ever seen on any human of any age. I saw a mentally challenged man get on the bus and happily talk to those around him, and thought "he's not challenged. If anything, he's incredibly gifted." What he lacks in book smarts, he made up for in care. He was able to see the world through unjudging eyes... I even saw a girl I despised, and enemy, a former friend, get on the bus. And for the first time in over a year, I didn't have that longing to sock her in the face...I didn't have any of that anger inside of me. When I was about to get off, I watched her give me on of the most pitiful looks I'd ever seen, and I just glanced back, feeling nothing inside but respect for another human being...

Today I was among those who care most in the world. I was able to look at the world through the eyes of a baby, through the eyes of a mentally gifted man. Everything was beautiful to me...even the sound of the bus's engine, the expressions on the other passengers' faces. This truly is a wonderful, wonderful world, and today I stopped to look, and was happy with what I saw...

SpikesPet5150
October 24th, 2001, 08:04 PM
That was one of the most beautiful and heartfelt pieces of work I've ever read. You made me cry. You're amazing and beautiful and I thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts.
~Bree

stormyray
October 24th, 2001, 08:12 PM
:wah: :wah: :wah:
Your story is amazing thankyou for sharing with us. I am thankful that there are still people who can stop and realy live life.

SimplyStrange
October 24th, 2001, 08:19 PM
Wow, I didn't expect to make anyone cry...but yeah, it was really moving to me.

I hope everyone can have an experience like that.

Sita
October 24th, 2001, 08:36 PM
wow, thats really beautiful.....

Radocs
October 24th, 2001, 09:08 PM
That's really great. Very moving. :) ^_^

I've never had that experience whith people but everyonce in a while I take a good look at the landscape around me and caught up in the beauty of it. Unfortunately this usually happens while I'm driving on the highway to get to work. >_<

SimplyStrange
October 24th, 2001, 09:49 PM
Yeah, I did that once with scenery. When I was walking home once, everything was beautiful...even the sounds of the city, the houses, the alleys, the wash...it was all somehow beautiful to me.

It's especially beautiful with people...*sigh* I really hope everyone could have that.

Saeryn
October 24th, 2001, 10:01 PM
Wow...

What an eloquent introspective post. You definitely have the gift of in-depth observation and insight.


And I must admit that it touched me, too--and made me think! Thank you.

~~Saeryn

Sora
October 24th, 2001, 11:39 PM
Yup. Thought provoking, all right.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

I wish my thoughts where that deep.

faeriedust
October 25th, 2001, 01:07 AM
:heartthro :heartthro wow, that was absolutely beautiful :heartthro :heartthro :heartthro :heartthro

StormChaser
October 25th, 2001, 01:19 AM
I know this sounds odd but..
I'm SO proud of you.

I've gone through this.. many times.. each time is beautiful and special and magical and life shaking.
Always seek the wonder of the world..
Look for the universe in the eyes of every person you see.
And never forget the lessons you learn each time you travel the paths of the souls you see.

~Storm Chaser

"You think the only people who are people are the people who look and think like you, but if you walked the foot steps of a stanger, you'll learn things you never knew you never knew! Have you ever heard the wolf cry to the blue corn moon? or asked the grinning bobcat why he grinned? Can you sing with all the voices of the mountain? Can you paint with all the colors of the wind?""

Lavender
October 25th, 2001, 02:12 AM
SS, you're a wonderful person! What you did was something my grandfather had taught me. Doesn't it make you feel so special? It's like an awakening of some sort. Sometimes, you go up to the person & they'll share their stories with you. It's really beautiful!

SimplyStrange
October 25th, 2001, 09:24 PM
I can't wait till that happens, either, Wildchild! I so badly wanted to know these people, who they are, and hear their stories...

Illuminatus
October 25th, 2001, 09:44 PM
This sort of thing happens a lot more in New York. Perhaps it's a higher population of crazies, maybe just the intense variety of people squeezed in such a small place. But most of them are friendly, and it's not at all odd to talk to some very interesting people on the subway as our paths cross. It's interesting to trade stories with other travelers on this bizarre journey some of us call "life", it's a pity that we are all usually overtired or drunk when the notion takes us!

willowfairy
October 28th, 2001, 10:30 AM
I do that too sometimes. Though I try to think like them, to see what's behind their appearence. Like my friend, she acts all tough, insulting everyone, making people laugh at the benifet of others. But she comes from a divorced family. Is she really trying to make everyone think she's ok, not letting anyone come to close to her so they can't hurt her? Or do I have it all wrong? Do I really need to know?

Ball-Bhreac Ròn
October 28th, 2001, 11:48 AM
That was amazing SimplyStrange, thankyou :)

SimplyStrange
October 28th, 2001, 04:06 PM
I've just been dancing 'bout it all lately. The world is so gorgeous... *sigh* Wow...