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[SilverClaw]

Please keep my family in your thoughts we got news from the that people are complaining from the school again about the kids and them being clean I do not know what they expect the kids bath regularly.

This makes me mad beyond belief at least this time the preschool told us the concerns about Sakura, but Cloeys Teacher has never told us anything about the two complaints she has had. The school has polices for teachers and parents to follow and I am sick and tired of the teacher not doing her part.

The principal and I talked on the phone today after school and she was not even aware of what is going on. I told her that I am not going to loose my kids again due to people talking behind my back and not telling us what is going on. Cloeys teacher has no problems talking to us about the other concerns she has then she can dam well tell is about the issue of hygiene (and I am wondering if this had to do with swimming last week.) but the principal will tell the teacher to start addressing concerns t o me or Gord directly or through her if she is uncomfortable talking to us uncomfortable talking to us. I told the principal I did not care either way would work fine as long as we know ahead of time.

Anyways with Gord being stressed out, with work and all of the overtime.
and Cloey having had blood work done today for the Geneticist
(Me I am starting to calm down so I am ok, but the two youngest ones I think are feeling the stress around the rest of us.)

So please keep us in your thoughts and I will let you know more about things with the social worker on Thursday.

Thanks
Hymnia

[BlackMagicalCat]

Bless your heart beloved friend,I dont know your situation and all,but will ask the Lord to watch over you and your family so that you will have a safe and healthy and happy home for all of you.May God send his angels to deliver grace and divine help to you and your family.

[Élistariel]

I'm confused. I got something about bad hygiene. What kid is clean? Heck, when I was a kid, I HATED baths. I was good to get two a week. :nyah:

[greenwitch]

:hugz: candles lit and prayers said, I hope things work out ok hunny...

[bladeraven]

:hugz: candles lit and prayers said, I hope things work out ok hunny...

*Hugs* OMG..that's horrible....*hugs* candles lit here too.....I'm sorry you're having to deal with this......what jerks.......

[ravenmyst]

these people are just out to screw your world up, arent they, in my thoughts, :hugz:

[Penthesilea]

Hugs and love to you and yours, sister.

[Aleannah]

energy sent :hugz:

[Teresa]

:hugz: Sending energies ! May those that plot behind Your back feel a full force return to them!

[SilverClaw]

Thank you everyone i appreciate it alot.

[Earthy]

Oh sis :hugz: :hugz:
I'm so sorry that you're going through this, i will keep all of you in my prayers :hugz:

[Sennefer]

:hugz:

[Ishtara]

Energy and big hugs sent :hugz:
You will be in my prayers.

[SilverClaw]

I'm confused. I got something about bad hygiene. What kid is clean? Heck, when I was a kid, I HATED baths. I was good to get two a week. http://mysticwicks.com/images/smilies/nutsycuckoo.gif Élistariel the social Worker asked me today how many times the kids bath and he already knows the answer but I told him I try to get the kids in for a bath every second night. And he said what about everyday ? I said no way and actually forgot what else I said but still what do they expect from a 4 year old who is just learning to keep herself clean adn an 8 year old who is already strting to go through changes of her own I mean what do they expect squicky polished kids? Well if they do expecgt it they can get with reality.

[SilverClaw]

And thanks Earthy , Sennefer, and Ishtara.

[Earthy]

You gotta be kidding me. My 4 year old only has a bath every other day too hon..no way would i get him in the bath every day!
I see no problem with them only being bathed every other day. Social workers..bah!!
:hugz: Hymnia sis

[Faery-Wings]

Thinking good thoughts for you Hymnia.

And as for the baths-- frinkin ridiculous...:mad:
A messy kid is a happy kid, IMO. It means that they are not being restricted by strigent rules lke"don't dig for worms, you might get dirty."

You keep on being the mom that you are. :hugz:

[~*Ginger*~]

:hugz:

[evilslinkycat]

:hugz:

Nothing wrong with giving your kids a bath everyother day, that what i do with mine.

[Nighthawk]

Love and peace to you. May you win the battle.

[Wolfscout1]

Sending thoughts, prayers and energies to you and yours hymnia .

Sounds like you have some people being against you and the family. :smash:

What a world we live in. :atantrum:

[BlueMoon13]

Oh,Hymnia! :rubhead: . You're all in my thoughts.Here's hoping the people bugging you just :abadpoker !

[Jenne]

Ugh--I hate that kind of politicking! :hugz: and people screw off vibes! :razz: Hoee they leave you the heck alone, Hon!

[SilverClaw]

Ah ok it is getting confusingGord talked to Cloeys teacher and she has no clue about any of it, and in fact she told Gord that until the principal talked to her yesterday about it she did not know anything was wrong.

So it is one of three people now Cloeys Counsoller, or the two teacher aids. Now I am not sure about the teacher aids but something bugs me about the counsoller but then again I am just so clouded right now I do not know what to think.

So I am once again back at being very angry and emotional to casue Sakura graduated from Preschool today. And I was not able to go to the ceremony cuase it was out of town.


:wah:

[SilverClaw]

By the way everyone thanks for the posts and time and consideration, and I please ask that you keep me in your prayers tommorw so I do not take a strip off of the social worker.

Thanks

I am now going to go and do my housecleaning and lsiten to music to calm down. See ya.

[Lunacie]

:hugz: Sending energies ! May those that plot behind Your back feel a full force return to them!

Ditto that !

I understand how upsetting this stuff is. Too bad its so hard to retain your sense of humor or when the social worker suggested a bath for the kids every day you might have said "Okay, I give them three baths a week and you can come and give them baths the rest of the week. Which days would work best for you?" :bubbles:

I'm sure glad no one decided to take away my daughter because she had cradle cap until she was three. Both of her daughters had the same problem. It must be something genetic because even if we washed their hair every day the cradle cap was still there. I don't know any parents who give their kids a bath every single day. Sheesh.

[fire_and_moonlight]

*hugs* :hugz: Goddess Bless, my friend. i will pray for you!

[SilverClaw]

I understand how upsetting this stuff is. Too bad its so hard to retain your sense of humor or when the social worker suggested a bath for the kids every day you might have said "Okay, I give them three baths a week and you can come and give them baths the rest of the week. Which days would work best for you?" http://mysticwicks.com/images/smilies/whew.gif

Believe me Lunacie that exact thought ran through my mind.
So in about 11 hours we will see what else the worker has to say.
And I think I am now tired and calm enough to try and sleep so see ya all later.

[Faery-Wings]

Still sending good thoughts.
I have mentioned before that I wish the school would just butt out of my kids' non-academic lives. They are at it again....more phone calls fromthe school counselor yesterday. :smash: All I can think is-- 4more days of school for us.

How about your family? Can you just count the days til summer?

[DragonMan58]

By the way everyone thanks for the posts and time and consideration, and I please ask that you keep me in your prayers tommorw so I do not take a strip off of the social worker.

Thanks

I am now going to go and do my housecleaning and lsiten to music to calm down. See ya.

My thoughts are with you today:rubhead: Hope all goes well. My ex-wife and I had problems with schools and social workers over our son (unruly behaviour, they reckoned; just an excuse not to expend any effort, we thought). Not the same, I know, but I do understand how helpless you feel at times.

DM:aburst:

[2-G]

May the Lord and Lady bless you. :hug:

[SilverClaw]

My thoughts are with you todayhttp://mysticwicks.com/images/smilies2/icon_petting.gif Hope all goes well. My ex-wife and I had problems with schools and social workers over our son (unruly behaviour, they reckoned; just an excuse not to expend any effort, we thought). Not the same, I know, but I do understand how helpless you feel at times.

Thanks Dragonman.

Thank you as well 2-G.


Well I am going to go lie down I have such a bad headache in the left side if my head it is starting to make my whole left siede of my face hurt. So I will be back around after 3 to let you know what happens.

Thanks again everyone.

[DreamSpell333]

energy sent. I hope all works out for you. :Hugz:

[SilverClaw]

Thanks Dreamspell.

[LadyAutumnCat]

Sending you energy. Hope all goes well today.

[Lunacie]

Reiki energy to ease the headache, candle energy to ease the situation with others telling you how to raise your own children, and a big, warm hugg for you dear.

[SilverClaw]

Ok it is ten mintues before the worker is suppose to show up and no Gord insight I am getting a bit worried about that. My headaches something firece everytime I move it hurtsespecially right by my eye.

Thanks Lunacie again for your help. LadyAutumnCat thanks.

I am going to go get a drink of water and try to massage my head again, and wait. And hope I do not pass out.

[Lunacie]

Maybe you should tell the social worker how much the stress is affecting you.

Gord, get your butt home !

Sending energies for this interview to bring about some good results for your family.

[LadyAutumnCat]

Any news yet? Keeping fingers crossed fo ryou.

[SilverClaw]

Ok the social worker just left and Gord showed up minutes after he did so I was a bit relieved. WE talked about the stuff that needs replacing and I did not think the hygiene issue with Cloey was going to be brought up and then Gord started... Anyways we were told it was not the counsellor but one of the teachers when I mentioned the two teachers name and told Gord It thought as much it was one of them he did not know who it was if it was the teacher aid or not .

I said it did not matter who it was the fact that they broke school policy once again is what is making me mad. And due to my headache keeping me in line I did not get to angry but told him exactly how I felt that I am getting sick and tired of people not following the school rules for parents and teachers.

The worker said that he did not think they did it to be mean or be talking behind our back but it was something they were concerned about. And I responded, then they should have still talked to use first. The worker said but with your phone not working how would they be able to get a hold of you? I told him that I have been taken aside before after school and talked to and that is what could have been done this time as well. If they had concerns they should bring it up to me and if they could not then they should have told Darlene to make her aware of it....

Anyways there was more but that is the brief end of it. I just gave up and took something for the pain in my head and will need to be getting to the school to get to Cloey.

Thanks everyone

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[SilverClaw]

LadyAutumnCat I was typing the above post when you posted :D

[LadyAutumnCat]

:lol: I hope things get better with the school. I'll be sending you energy. Hang in there and when you can, rest.

[Lunacie]

Have you asked the principle and the school counselor to sit down with you and discuss the situation, and explained to them how this all got started and how it's gotten completely out of hand, and how you haven't done anything wrong FOR CRYING OUT LOUD !? I know you've been trying to work with everyone and not blow up, geeze I can't imagine the stress of not telling some of these people where to go.

[SilverClaw]

They are at it again....more phone calls fromthe school counselor yesterday. :smash: All I can think is-- 4more days of school for us.

How about your family? Can you just count the days til summer?
My Sakura is finished school as of this past week Cloey has two more weeks and I hope to high heaven Fariywings that there is no more garbage.



Maybe you should tell the social worker how much the stress is affecting you.

I think he knows or he should know considering what I have siad to him in the past.


Have you asked the principle and the school counselor to sit down with you and discuss the situation, and explained to them how this all got started and how it's gotten completely out of hand, and how you haven't done anything wrong FOR CRYING OUT LOUD !? I know you've been trying to work with everyone and not blow up, geeze I can't imagine the stress of not telling some of these people where to go.

Well since the counsellor is not the one who told the social worker
I do not know what good it would do. I was thinking since the social worker said Sakura and Cloey were the issue I was beginning to wonder if it was Sakuras teachers aid or someone like that since one of the teacher aids work in Cloeys class too...

Oh well I am not going to make myself sick of this anymore and just hope that we are gone before September comes around again.